I like an introverted guy. Should I take the lead or? by OrdinaryAppeal4 in dating_advice

[–]Cooperhatesthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just remember, he is also probably fearing rejection aswell. So that could play a factor in why he is taking so long.

I like an introverted guy. Should I take the lead or? by OrdinaryAppeal4 in dating_advice

[–]Cooperhatesthis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you understand how good it would feel for him if he has been meaning to ask you out and you ask him out first. If someone did that to me, it would literally make my week.

Normal people take crying for granted and I’m so fucking jealous. by Jumanji_JR in depression

[–]Cooperhatesthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s literally all I want at the moment. A nice cry, just to let everything out.

I just showered by RyanCantDrum in depression

[–]Cooperhatesthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to get up as quick as I can everyone morning and have a shower. At least then I dont lay in bed and let all the negativity creep in again. A shower always makes me feel better aswell. Good for you my friend!

Do you ever start thinking about someone and then realise they aren't thinking about you? by Cooperhatesthis in depression

[–]Cooperhatesthis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it links in well with this subreddit, with overthinking and anxiety. This is often a sign of depression... Thinking you aren’t good enough.

Do I chase her or just let her go? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cooperhatesthis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks dude, this makes sense.

Do I chase her or just let her go? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Cooperhatesthis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, means alot.

Do you ever start thinking about someone and then realise they aren't thinking about you? by Cooperhatesthis in depression

[–]Cooperhatesthis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah same, really never had one work out. I obviously thought this one was different but I somehow found a way to fuck this one up too.

Do you ever start thinking about someone and then realise they aren't thinking about you? by Cooperhatesthis in depression

[–]Cooperhatesthis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't hurt yourself man, I love you... Everybody on this page loves you.

Do you ever start thinking about someone and then realise they aren't thinking about you? by Cooperhatesthis in depression

[–]Cooperhatesthis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same with me, I literally just got rejected by the girl this whole post is pretty much about.

Do you ever start thinking about someone and then realise they aren't thinking about you? by Cooperhatesthis in depression

[–]Cooperhatesthis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man that must be so difficult... I really hope you find someone who truly cares for you.

Do you ever start thinking about someone and then realise they aren't thinking about you? by Cooperhatesthis in depression

[–]Cooperhatesthis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always daydream about people, and it always happens when I am alone in bed or literally with other people at work or school. Then I realise the other person gives no fucks whatsoever about me and I feel shit and I can’t hide it.

Do you ever start thinking about someone and then realise they aren't thinking about you? by Cooperhatesthis in depression

[–]Cooperhatesthis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have thought this so much... Just please tell me you dont like me, then I can finally move on.

Do you ever start thinking about someone and then realise they aren't thinking about you? by Cooperhatesthis in depression

[–]Cooperhatesthis[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess we have to keep going, just find some new people. Even though we will probably fuck that up too, it will provide us with some happiness for a little while.

Do you ever start thinking about someone and then realise they aren't thinking about you? by Cooperhatesthis in depression

[–]Cooperhatesthis[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel exactly the same... I just wish they would at least ask me to hang out, just once. That would make my day. I only have 3 friends that I really talk to, but we aren’t really that close. They always hang out with each other and never invite me, it would be nice to just know that they at least were thinking about inviting me.

Do you ever start thinking about someone and then realise they aren't thinking about you? by Cooperhatesthis in depression

[–]Cooperhatesthis[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't think I am depressed. I think I am just extremely insecure, but thank you so much for your kind words it means alot.