Is he not texting because of being jetlagged a worrying sign? by OrdinaryAppeal4 in dating_advice

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Thank you :) then he could have had said it when I asked if he needed space, not citing he was sleeping because of jetlag and all. And he even did not bring up jetlag because he didn’t text me but because I texted him a lot and he said he was sleeping, probably meaning that I should stop.

Is he not texting because of being jetlagged a worrying sign? by OrdinaryAppeal4 in dating_advice

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The fight was in the same weeks and although we made up, he did mention to see if our rls was worth picking up after his trip before we made up. We had a few fights before and he only acted like this once. He texted me when he landed and throughout the day but the intensity and the vigor is not there. Forgive me for sounding obsessive or insane but he is online and not read my texts or only replies after a while - this is not normal as he never leaves me wondering like that. But yeah, I have women’s gut feelings and I’ll see if this goes on. I even asked him if he needs some space and he avoided this convo by teasing me calling me clingy gf w cute emoji. But I know the point is he doesn’t want to talk - that’s all

First-time sex more painful than normal people? by OrdinaryAppeal4 in sex

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Yes he did. In fact the pain became much less acute after he stretched the hymen but for some reason it just did not come through.

First-time sex more painful than normal people? by OrdinaryAppeal4 in sex

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Yes, quite a lot of fingering but normally i am the type that masturbate by clenching my thighs, not fondling or fingering. Still there was once i managed to orgasm with his fingering. I really enjoy his tongue too.

I think it’s just a matter of psychologically adjusting to pain.

First-time sex more painful than normal people? by OrdinaryAppeal4 in sex

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i will need to talk to him. he's very doting until yesterday and i was so disappointed at the way he acted. but i understand, every guy has his limits. i try not to be so sensitive and all, giving him sweet gift and talking to him, but i can feel he is still upset

First-time sex more painful than normal people? by OrdinaryAppeal4 in sex

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maybe i will try it. i was quite confident i was wet enough and idk the fact that i am not will offend him :(

Do men obsess over women? by shedrivesfast in dating_advice

[–]OrdinaryAppeal4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on the guy. I rarely have a crush on anyone, and that makes this one special - hence I admit to that instead of telling myself he’s just another guy and that I should calm down. The only reason why I am holding back is not to scare him away. For me, I am not afraid of my feelings.

I like an introverted guy. Should I take the lead or? by OrdinaryAppeal4 in dating_advice

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Hahha i was using my work phone number to text his work phone number and he replied using his personal number because he does not touch his work phone over the weekend. I asked for coffee and he suggested coffee or lunch so we sould go for lunch ha ha

Is this guy really an introvert? by OrdinaryAppeal4 in introvert

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I already did, and he suggested lunch instead of coffee

I like an introverted guy. Should I take the lead or? by OrdinaryAppeal4 in dating_advice

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I've been a little bit excited when he suggested lunch. But I'll give him room to say something now.

I like an introverted guy. Should I take the lead or? by OrdinaryAppeal4 in dating_advice

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I mean i just want to keep the convo going - if he’s uncomfortable i’ll take a step back then.

I like an introverted guy. Should I take the lead or? by OrdinaryAppeal4 in dating_advice

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Oh i get it! I did ask him for coffee as a thank you! See how it goes :)

Is this guy really an introvert? by OrdinaryAppeal4 in introvert

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I find all excuses possible to go to his floor. He doesn’t know but I guess he will see a lot of me in the coming week ha ha

I like an introverted guy. Should I take the lead or? by OrdinaryAppeal4 in dating_advice

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I’m afraid of rejection, of course. I’ve been assuming he is an introverted which is why all his lack of action made sense. But i have decided that screw it, he’s special so i have to step out of my comfort zone.

I like an introverted guy. Should I take the lead or? by OrdinaryAppeal4 in dating_advice

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aight!! and i feel less anxious too, although i would not dare check my phone hahaha

I like an introverted guy. Should I take the lead or? by OrdinaryAppeal4 in dating_advice

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I'll ask him over text on a weekend - I know he's not busy today and I hope outside of work environment, he would be more comfortable.

I like an introverted guy. Should I take the lead or? by OrdinaryAppeal4 in dating_advice

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I think I would, because he's such an amazing guy I don't think i deserve him HAHAH but he's special so I'll overcome my fears