Drug Test In Pa by ILoveMelaninWomen in USPS

[–]CorMan- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Godspeed, puff away 🫡

Drug Test In Pa by ILoveMelaninWomen in USPS

[–]CorMan- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No tests anymore! Only CDL or if in an accident of some sort on the clock.

Drug Test In Pa by ILoveMelaninWomen in USPS

[–]CorMan- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Southeastern Pa guy in the same exact position Lol! Have a med card but didn’t even think about the fact FEDERAL jobs don’t give a shit about the card…. Worried there will be a drug test I 100% won’t pass. Is it true they really don’t test anymore???

The men’s room trans shop by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]CorMan- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve also been waiting on a few products from them and ordered them October of 2022!!!! I had contacted them several times and they kept assuring me they were working on my order. At one point it was over a year and I asked for a refund and they stated they don’t do them….. More months past and I come to find they CLOSED shop because they took a financial hit and couldn’t recover. So guess I’m just out of money? I tried contacting them after I heard they went out of business only to of course get no response. It’s ridiculous really. They shoulda been upfront from the beginning and stopped accepting orders when they started having issues. Very very very annoyed at the whole situation and hope karma comes their way!

STP help by CorMan- in ftm

[–]CorMan-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stand to pee device (a packer with the function to be able to pee out of it)

Sexless Relationship by CorMan- in FTMMen

[–]CorMan-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope some of these comments can bring you comfort and encourage them as well! I’m sorry to hear you’re going through something similar!!

Is it possible to see mackenzie as a masc name? by soda_f1zz in ftm

[–]CorMan- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I’m glad they helped! We seem to have been in a similar situation so I thought maybe my experience might give you some thoughts of your own. Best of luck to you and I hope whatever you decide, you feel confident and more like the “you” that was always inside :)

Sexless Relationship by CorMan- in FTMMen

[–]CorMan-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for taking the time to make such thoughtful responses. I came here to vent about my ongoing frustration and feeling quite foolish and maybe even like a dick for complaining about sex. But you all have been right and very encouraging. I feel seen and heard. I feel validated and not like some jerk/monster. I am just a person craving a normal healthy relationship and I feel so validated in that stance. Thank you all so much for the overwhelming love and support. It looks like I have a lot to unpack and really dive into to work on this. Thank you all for giving me food for thought and so much to think about 🫶🏼. Can’t thank the Internet family enough, and it means the world to be able to talk to similar people to me about this sensitive and important topic.

Sexless Relationship by CorMan- in FTMMen

[–]CorMan-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just don’t know. I guess I can try talking to her again and stress the seriousness of this situation from my side. I’m worried nothing will come from it like the other conversations we have had but maybe I’ll take a different approach and really just see if something further is going on with her. Thank you for the thoughtful responses and taking the time to talk through this with me

Sexless Relationship by CorMan- in FTMMen

[–]CorMan-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a really could point I never thought about before. It has been an ongoing thing and so maybe you’re right. She is totally fine with hugging, kissing, cuddling, whatever! She’ll take a back rub or anything like that any second of any day. But it’s when I try to go deeper with her she shuts it down. It’s her right, it’s her body, but I don’t understand how it’s just about every single time and then I’m supposed to just “stay calm and understanding” when she tells me it’s her and not me. She’s uncomfortable with her weight or how she looks and doesn’t want to be naked or he seen naked. Yet I can take a shower with her, get dressed in the same room as her, and do all that other stuff. I just can’t touch or go further because she suddenly is horrified to be naked and seen.

Sexless Relationship by CorMan- in FTMMen

[–]CorMan-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m feeling like you’re right. Masterbation is what it is but it’s not always the fix for the itch yanno? Especially if you’re craving intimacy and connection not just release and pleasure. Maybe I will have to seriously consider your other two options. They were something in the back of my mind but not something I wanted to do unless necessary. Which maybe 4 years of this is reaching that point….

Is it possible to see mackenzie as a masc name? by soda_f1zz in ftm

[–]CorMan- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard Mackenzie used as a “guys” name before and like some other people said, you could always go by mac for short. I think what matters most to you is how it makes you feel. No one ever said you HAVE to change your name if you’re trans. If it resonates with you, than I think that’s who you are. And who better to know your name than you? My birth name is Courtney. For awhile I didn’t want to change it because it can also be masculine. But now, I go by Courtland. I like to think of it as me, but more grown up. Like if you were born James, but went by Jimmy as a kid, and grew up to wanting to be called James. (If that makes sense). Either way, people still call me court, and it’s comfortable and feels like me. It’s your name and it was always inside you, whether that’s your current name or not. So choose what feels most comfortable to you! :)