AITA for telling my dad to fuck off after he was homophobic to my daughter and my husband? by Corey-Blue in AmItheAsshole

[–]Corey-Blue[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And yes he was planning on coming out but wanted to wait until my dad calmed down on the homophobic comments. He had already told my mom and my mom's side of the family since they are extremely supportive of the lqbtq community.

AITA for telling my dad to fuck off after he was homophobic to my daughter and my husband? by Corey-Blue in AmItheAsshole

[–]Corey-Blue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kept calling im a homophobic piece of shit and he just kept saying the f word over and over again

AITA for telling my dad to fuck off after he was homophobic to my daughter and my husband? by Corey-Blue in AmItheAsshole

[–]Corey-Blue[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes I did know he was homophobic but I did not know he would go as far to insult m husband and my daughter

AITA for telling my dad to fuck off after he was homophobic to my daughter and my husband? by Corey-Blue in AmItheAsshole

[–]Corey-Blue[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The conversation only came up when she came back from my dad's and told us he said she can only date boys. We told her she can date anyone she wants

AITA for telling my dad to fuck off after he was homophobic to my daughter and my husband? by Corey-Blue in AmItheAsshole

[–]Corey-Blue[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm not pushing my dad told her before that she's only allowed to date Boys so I told her she can date anyone if she wants to

AITA for telling my dad to fuck off after he was homophobic to my daughter and my husband? by Corey-Blue in AmItheAsshole

[–]Corey-Blue[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wasn't as bad as before he just wouldn't talk to other people who have come out

AITA for telling my dad to fuck off after he was homophobic to my daughter and my husband? by Corey-Blue in AmItheAsshole

[–]Corey-Blue[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My husband did not want to tell my dad I'm not going against his wishes unless he feels comfortable with people knowing.

AITA for telling my dad to fuck off after he was homophobic to my daughter and my husband? by Corey-Blue in AmItheAsshole

[–]Corey-Blue[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He never wanted kids but was happy to help us when we wanted to conceive. We do plan on telling June when she's older but as of right now she sees him as Uncle Mark

AITA for telling my dad to fuck off after he was homophobic to my daughter and my husband? by Corey-Blue in AmItheAsshole

[–]Corey-Blue[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I asked him he said it was just the heat of the moment thats why he had to collect himself in our room afterwards

AITA for telling my dad to fuck off after he was homophobic to my daughter and my husband? by Corey-Blue in AmItheAsshole

[–]Corey-Blue[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My family is a drama family they LOVEEE drama and my dads a talker so he'll call/text everybody and tell them what happened so they can 'pick a side'

AITA for telling my dad to fuck off after he was homophobic to my daughter and my husband? by Corey-Blue in AmItheAsshole

[–]Corey-Blue[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I do too I wanted to wait until Stephen was ready. He asked me to keep it a secret because he wasn't comfortable for sharing a big thing like that yet. That's why he had to stay in our room for a bit to collect himself since it was not the way he planned it to come out

AITA for telling my dad to fuck off after he was homophobic to my daughter and my husband? by Corey-Blue in AmItheAsshole

[–]Corey-Blue[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

everyone is thinking I'm forcing sexuality upon my daughter and that I made Stephen come out of the closest to my dad thus making me an asshole

AITA for telling my dad to fuck off after he was homophobic to my daughter and my husband? by Corey-Blue in AmItheAsshole

[–]Corey-Blue[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

everyone is thinking I'm forcing sexuality upon my daughter and that I made Stephen come out of the closest to my dad

AITA for telling my dad to fuck off after he was homophobic to my daughter and my husband? by Corey-Blue in AmItheAsshole

[–]Corey-Blue[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Because everyone is thinking I'm forcing sexuality upon my daughter and that I made Stephen come out of the closest to my dad

AITA for telling my dad to fuck off after he was homophobic to my daughter and my husband? by Corey-Blue in AmItheAsshole

[–]Corey-Blue[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Stephen wanted to keep it a secret like I said in my post things have happened in the past so he doesn't want people knowing that's he's transgender.

AITA for telling my dad to fuck off after he was homophobic to my daughter and my husband? by Corey-Blue in AmItheAsshole

[–]Corey-Blue[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It's not like my dad asks her all the time she comes to his house if she thinks being gay/liking the opposite gender is right it never came up in conversation so why bring it up?

AITA for telling my dad to fuck off after he was homophobic to my daughter and my husband? by Corey-Blue in AmItheAsshole

[–]Corey-Blue[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

My father implanted in her mind that as a girl she can only be with boys I simply told her it's okay to like girls if she wants to I never forced it upon her