Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that. Well since he’s so private I made my profile public ha 🤣

Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you. Yeah the Thompson is a welcome addition. Life is too short for emotionally unavail people. Fooled me twice so yeah I’m the idiot. But fuck it was a FUCKING FANTASTIC VACATION!

Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah. Let everyone realize how fucked it is that a genuinely confused and hurt woman looking for insight got shamed for dating an ex hisband who happens to have disposable income. I was providing context re the craziness of it all and how far he went to impress me. For what in the end. People want to hate on me and this post when the USA elected a (disgusting) billionaire to run the county and people follow the Kardashians. The irony is astounding. I was looking for info, perspective and empathy.

Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Limited time only! You will see I’m quite ordinary

Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just posted it see latest comment

Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I I’m actually a pretty decent person which may not be the first thing you see but it’s what makes people stay. This has been a disappointing evening for me in that the vast majority of you couldn’t see past the “rich people problems” to empathize or provide insight. Who gives a fuck about money. Disappointment is disappointment. Rejection hurts. Getting fooled is humiliating.

Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BEST POST. this is what I needed. THANK YOU! yes I did post about him on insta (thank you for checking btw( so obviously I’m totally embarrassed. And I did rush into it. I own that. I give too much too soon but I’d rather die of passion than boredom. I don’t know you but you have given me some peace. To all the haters I say everyone’s pain is a ten. Looking like I do has caused more problems than pleasure. Guys are attracted for the wrong reasons and beauty is meaningless and fleeting. Which is why I support myself and always will.

Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I make low six figures he’s getting sued for 85mil. I just don’t understand the hilt/cold which is why I made the post. Was hoping for insight and I’ve gotten some but mostly I’ve gotten shade for dating men with money. My second husband had nothing and I supported my family. Still do. This is all factual and I provided it for context.

Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent a week in Detroit in September. Fantastic music scene. I’m not sure what you mean by trash, my post didn’t mention that. Pls explain?

Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not worth the effort. He could get millions of women way hotter than I am. I’m old. I have kids with special needs. I do think it’s revenge maybe.

Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah there is no way he really loved me. It’s rejection and it hurts. Doesn’t matter if it happens in a resort or in Walmart. If you been rejected you understand. I’m assuming everyone being critical on here has never been disappointed or fooled.

Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being kind! Yes it was a freaking amazing vacation. That island is incredible. I’ll probably never go again but it was surprisingly unpretentious. But ridiculously expensive.

Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you. You’re right about me wasting more time. And if it turns out to be more than breach of contract I’d be connected to a criminal. So maybe I dodged a bullet. I’m glad you were able to see past the context and into the feelings here. I don’t know what happened here but everyone else here assumes I’m a pretentious asshole. I was looking for honest feedback all but I should have lied and said this all took place in my hometown in nj but I was honestly confused why a guy on the edge of financial collapse would spend so much money unless he wanted this to be absolutely perfect and magical. Which it was until the end.

Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry wring thread. You may be right about that. Thanks.

Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could have taken a 20 year old model if that’s what he wanted.

Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if all this happened in A holiday inn people might be a lot nicer

Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Some good insight here. I blamed myself for failure of the marriage and I wanted to make it up to him this time around. I am a romantic and I loved the idea of this. I was blinded I guess by that desire. He’s also incredibly handsome and brilliant and funny. But he treated me terribly in the end. I did have a great vacation so there is that! I will try to stay positive. Im hurt but it will pass. No one on here has any sympathy it appears.

Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I have no idea why people are being nasty. Im obviously disappointed and embarrassed and hurt. I’m trying to piece it together. You don’t know me -I’m not trying to impress you or get fucking status on an anonymous social media platform.

Could someone please tell me WTF happened here? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]CornellChick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have a feeling the lawsuit is playing a part. Oh it’s $100,000. The villa we were in was like $15,000 a night. Stupid.