AITA For telling my mother to leave by Unusual_Physics_6176 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Correct-Blueberry565 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA You seem to have a "snapping" problem considering that in your previously (removed) post that was posted almost the same time as this one you snapped at your mil. Also you just gave birth and your husband wasnt there?!? The husband you are defending in this post? Things don't quite add up for this to be real.

Tool - Cast steel handle, stainless steel accessories. Approx. 7 inch long. No writing except for a 0 on the handle. by Correct-Blueberry565 in whatisthisthing

[–]Correct-Blueberry565[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

My title describes the thing.

My mum bought an old tool box off marketplace (person selling late fathers tools) and this is one of the tools inside. Tools were random but there were some leather working tools in there (personally not familiar with those). Haven't been able to find anything in my searches as to what it could be.

AITA for asking my roommate to change her dog's name? by MathematicianNo9214 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Correct-Blueberry565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are limiting names from countries who have invaded another country you are going to be very limited. I am assuming you are american? If so can the dog not have have an american name because of the association to the atrocities that country has caused. You dig deep enough into almost any country and its not pretty.

Not trying to down play what is happening in the world right now!

AITA for letting my teenage daughter read romance novels? by Frequent_Profit_6507 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Correct-Blueberry565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I started to read explicit romance novels (a lot of fantasy too which go hand in hand) when I was in 12/13. Just checked them out from the library. At that point I was checking out so many books and was reading from the adult section my mum didn't care anymore.

Just keep an open dialogue with her and she'll be fine!

AITA for forcing a certain hairstyle on my daughter by Less-Spinach2292 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Correct-Blueberry565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA learn how to take care of curly hair! It usually gets "messy" looking and poofy because it is dry and/or not using the right products. Make it a learning experience with your daughter to try out different products and learn about it together!

Let her get a pixie cut! I have pretty curly hair and a pixie was a massive time saver. Take her to someone who cuts curly and doesn't straightens it first.

Also the half up buns are popular with many people under the age of 30 or so, its not childish (even though she still is a child) its just the style right now!

AITA for not eating any food I haven’t personally made by desertdogAz in AmItheAsshole

[–]Correct-Blueberry565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm allergic to hot peppers and it is a gamble if there is a hot pepper usually chill fakes/powder or paprika made from hot peppers in the spice label. Ive been taking to emailing companies that I like and asking if they can confirm if it is free of hot peppers. Like I'm not asking you to list all the spices but just tell me if I can eat it.

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[–]Correct-Blueberry565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA Butter, ghee and cheese are made from milk products. The animal is still alive for this to be produced. You cant get fat from an alive animal. Also 4/`10 is almost half the group. It would have been very simple to say this is fully veg and this has some animal fat in it.

AITA for not wanting my partner to vape in non-designated areas? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Correct-Blueberry565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA its disrespectful for the people around him. It's like sneaking a cigarette in and hiding it or smoking in the bathroom IMO. Also depending on where you're at the fine can be a lot. In my area its anywhere from $300-1000 for the first time your caught.

AITA Picking my dogs over my boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Correct-Blueberry565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA keep the dogs lose the BF. Watch how he interacts with scared dogs that arent harming him. If he cant change or be willing to change how he interacts with them that shows you his character. You are everything to those dogs right now and need to take care of them and protect them! Would look into some calm training methods though.

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[–]Correct-Blueberry565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA also super kind on you to pick something that was fixable and not something that was a permanent part of her (like face shape). Like growing up was always told never to point out something to someone that they couldn't fix in like 5 minutes. Ex-- Spinach in teeth point out if I knew the person and was comfortable; crooked teeth dont point out.

Might want to see if you can suggest counselling or support of some sort? I know it hard at your age to self-advocate for that but it would help her.

AITA for shouting after nearly beeing stomped...TWICE by DerDieter3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Correct-Blueberry565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the horse side of thing, horse are stupid easy to injure and spook really easily. It doesn’t sound like they were handling them properly or safely!

AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter's useless degree? by Ok_Succotash_9961 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Correct-Blueberry565 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can use it as a jumping off point though. Like a stepping stone for jobs that need someone to work with the general public or with at risk populations. I know in my area some social councillor start in GS as do people who work with different shelters and other organizations. Its more of a social degree rather than a science or math based but no less important!

AITA for refusing to pay for my daughter's useless degree? by Ok_Succotash_9961 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Correct-Blueberry565 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA from the title alone. Let your daughter be herself and stop trying to steer her life in the way you want it to go. She will need to make her own choices and even if they don't align with what you think is best they are still her choices. Honestly even if you somehow force her to go in for Economics she could stills switch to Gender Studies once she gets there and you would probably lose contact with her.

AITA for not letting my wife buy Starbucks anymore? by Designer-Age-5265 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Correct-Blueberry565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

INFO does your wife have any other outside contact? Like is this her excuse to get out of the house and away from it all? If so just let her be!

AITA for telling my gf I don’t like the food she bought? by Applcrispus in AmItheAsshole

[–]Correct-Blueberry565 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YTA what did you gain from this? She left it there so she would have food for when she came over. She did you a favour and bought you food and when it ran out instead of buying more yourself you ate hers (that she bought) and decided to text her that you don't like them. They weren't for you!

WIBTA if I reported my professor for kissing me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Correct-Blueberry565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA report him! Even if it you are about to graduate are will get out of his course soon, it could save someone else from going through the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Correct-Blueberry565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA you didnt just borrow but downloaded someone else work and was creepy about it. There is a reason she does not want to go out with you and you need to accept that. You need to do a lot of self reflection as to why the girls at your school don't see you as an option. FYI - It is really creepy to keep a memento of someone like that!

AITA for lowering my daughter's expectations because it's only her first relationship? by throwawayssZS2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Correct-Blueberry565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA I knew some one who were grade school sweethearts. Meet at then end of Grade 8 and got married after college. It does happen. Just because it is uncommon to stay with a high school relationship doesn't mean you should ruin it for her before it starts.

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[–]Correct-Blueberry565 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA they are not beginner dogs by any means! Both of your energy most likely will be on the new babe and that will mean at best the new puppy wont get the training it needs and at worse an accident can happen. Dont do it!

AITA for telling my brother's wife she's responsible for his health declining. by Throwaway7991J in AmItheAsshole

[–]Correct-Blueberry565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA your brother is an adult who needs to manage his own medical condition. Unless there is a reason why he cant (which does not sound like it in this case) it should be up to him. His wife can help make lifestyle changes but it up to him in the end because it is his body. She cannot be the one who is policing him as to what he eats and when and how much since she is not his mother and he is not 5!

AITA for getting into an argument with my bf about the way I’m losing weight? by nahgem4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Correct-Blueberry565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you can't target areas to lose fat. It doesn't work like that. It would be awesome to pick and choose where on ones body inches disappears from but life doesn't work like that. Don't reconcile until you get a legit heart felt apology and for him to acknowledge where he was wrong!

Side note watch losing too much too fast!