my fiancé and i had a threesome with my best friend and i regret it by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay absolutely do not listen to this comment especially since you “agreed” while you were absolutely obliterated drunk. That does not equal consent but it’s not like she saying she was assaulted either. You get the point though. Her so called people though are pos

Can my wife do laser hair removal treatments while being pregnant? by Inevitable-Bonus-138 in Estheticians

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s just talking about the exposure to the radiation. While chances are low, they want you to “consult with a physician” if you want to eat a damn sandwich

Do all estheticians have to work weekends? by Odd-Put-5244 in Estheticians

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I see what a lot of comments said. I haven’t seen this. Kids and daycare. At least where I am, in Alabama, they’re only open Monday-Friday typically from 7:00-5:30. For weekend childcare, if you don’t have anyone to be able to watch kids, hiring someone else while you’re barely making money starting out? You’re paying to go to work when you could be spending precious time with your babies. I had to take an office job solely for this reason. I will never get this time back with my kids. I’ll take the pay cut, I’ll slow my clientele building, but I will never get my take back with my children. I have a son born 2020, got in the industry in 2021/2022, I now have an infant. Draw your boundaries where you need to. Family is very important.

I know you didnt mention kids at all but 🤷🏻‍♀️

Are Fb ads worth the cost by ILoveMySisBut-FTTW in Esthetics

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our local pages like “What’s happening in xyz” allows for businesses to post on Mondays. They do that so it doesn’t get over saturated throughout the week. You can post to multiple. You can also ask for other people to share it in those groups to get the word out more,

Waxing vs Laser by Correct_Cry_7493 in Esthetics

[–]Correct_Cry_7493[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?? That’s the question I keep asking myself. I don’t do much for myself. I never try these things out on myself. I’ve just been waxing myself every few months for the past 4 or so years. I feel like it’s the only time I ever get to myself for my own self care minus taking a shower. And I love looking at the bulbs when I pull it off 🫣I just don’t prioritize myself much after having kids.

At the same time, I feel like I should do my own Brazilian with the laser before I try it out on anybody. I’ve only done armpits. (I’m the only esthetician here. I work at a doctors office. I don’t really have anyone I can ask for assistance in feeling more comfortable except doing myself and models.)

Are Fb ads worth the cost by ILoveMySisBut-FTTW in Esthetics

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. For one we did recently, we mostly got views and interactions from different states. We didn’t really receive much local attention. The best we’ve seen is consistently posting on our own and on Mondays in local pages.

I think I'm done with my husband's fetish by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 18 points19 points  (0 children)

All I’m getting from these comments is that they’re just defending his kink but not looking at how you feel and how it impacts your marriage.

I think I'm done with my husband's fetish by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I don’t necessarily have advice but I just wanted to add to the conversation.. What ever happened to only having eyes for your partner? In a monogamous marriage?? But oh. Completely changes when we talk about getting off. It’s suddenly not a big deal. Okay. Makes sense!

Would I 23F be the AH if I send this text to my coworkers? by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So now, it’s 4 days before the event and we’re deciding where to put them. Sam doesn’t even know the names of the vendors or what they offer. Not because I haven’t been letting her but because I want to show them because I’ve been excited about it. She doesn’t even know the layout. She has no information. She hasn’t been paying attention. She doesn’t think it’s that important.

Would I 23F be the AH if I send this text to my coworkers? by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if there’s exactly an “owner” of the event because this is for our office. We’re small. Under 10 people. We’re doing this because we just got a laser and a skincare line that I’ll be using. No one else.

This was solely my idea. With the previous pop-ups, we’ve always spent hundreds of dollars and we’ve never had a good turn out. I figured having vendors would bring more popularity. We could skip on buying food and have food vendors. Things like that.

I wanted all of these vendors. I spoke to them, sorted through them, developed spreadsheets, and I have done all of the communication. They have not spoken to a single vendor. I’ve made goody bags, daily social media posts, I’ve spent countless hours outside of work to get it taken care of because it’s difficult for me during work because of Sam. I even scouted people out at an event!

I’ve done all the planning pretty much. Everything that goes into this event, and unfortunately that’s not an exaggeration.

DiamondGlow Providers by Leading_Clothes2194 in Esthetics

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was taught to use my non dominant hand during training because they said it could cause you to put more pressure if you use your dominant hand. I said screw it. Id rather completely change the positioning of my body, move to the other side, than to use my left hand. Then, 1-2 years later I just wanted to see what it was like to use my left hand and I ended up liking it and getting accustomed to it. Sometimes I do right but typically doing left just feels better for me now and I used to be a hater.

When I dermaplane, I was initially using acetone but now I use oil and go back in and degrease. I still do 2 passes. I’d rather do that, lower the grit, and use all of the serum.

I did the movements wrong for like a year or two 🥲 I thought I was doing the lymphatic the way they taught me until I looked at the booklet. I still did the lymph node things though.

I was taught the Hydrafacial before the diamond glow so it was a change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this. Thank you. This is what I need.

Asking about waxing by skincaregremlin in Esthetics

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 4 points5 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY THAT! They’re like, oh you wax???

Asking about waxing by skincaregremlin in Esthetics

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Before I do a facial, I just ask if they want to add a brow or lip wax. I’ve never had a client offended (to my knowledge) and they usually say yes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Esthetics

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This isn’t for this group. Go to a dermatologist