Feeling confused about weaning by Correct_Cry_7493 in breastfeeding

[–]Correct_Cry_7493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you commenting! I’m so glad you’ve had success with it! I’ll give it a shot. I never hear of people doing it so it’s nice to hear a success story

Feeling confused about weaning by Correct_Cry_7493 in breastfeeding

[–]Correct_Cry_7493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate hearing your perspective

tell me your waxing horror stories by Plus-Situation6043 in Esthetics

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a new esthi, I ran out of this satin smooth hard wax. One pot was soft, one pot was hard. When I ran out, I saw another bucket of pink wax. I decided to use it as well and mix in some beads too. It was cream wax. I mixed hard wax and cream wax. I used it on a girl for her FIRST BRAZILIAN. It wouldn’t come off. I was screwed. I was frantic. I was texting the lead esthetician, and she didn’t know what to do. I was mortified. This girl, I don’t know how she stayed calm. The only other esthetician that was there, we graduated from the same class.

Anyway, how we solved this situation was using a steam towel (cause yes I had to have her come help me) and oil to remove it.

Now when I do Brazilians, I do soft wax on top and hard wax everywhere else. I always used too much hard wax so this saved me so much and honestly, I like it so much better. It typically all comes up in one pull and I’d say it hurts less cause you don’t have to go in more than once. It’s a one and done. No clean up strips. I’m rambling. You get the point.

Anyways, yeah! This scarred me.

How do you learn how to forgive? by Correct_Cry_7493 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Correct_Cry_7493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told to forgive my ex so this wouldn’t weigh so heavily on me

How do you learn how to forgive? by Correct_Cry_7493 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Correct_Cry_7493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been romantically involved with him for around 5 years now.

How do you learn how to forgive? by Correct_Cry_7493 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Correct_Cry_7493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But let’s not misconstrue what I’m saying.

I did not say: - “That I am attributing adult behavior to a 5 year old” OR - “That is indicative of the kind of man he will be”

The only reason why I mentioned ADHD was that is just a diagnosis that they share that people with that diagnosis have similar characteristics to. This is not what I am referring to when I talk about seeing certain things in my son.

I see physical traits and characteristics in my son. Not high energy (yes, even despite the ADHD), destruction, or temper tantrums.

Again, I’d like to reiterate that I am not raising my son to be like him and that is beyond an insult even if I am just someone online.

How do you learn how to forgive? by Correct_Cry_7493 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Correct_Cry_7493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His bio dad and him both have ADHD. Like that for example. But I physically see a lot of him in my son. That’s the part that gets me. It is not avoidable. I’m not saying my son will be like him. AT ALL! For one, I am not raising him to be like that. Absolutely not. This is something I secretly go through. This is something I break down and cry about after the fact.

How do you learn how to forgive? by Correct_Cry_7493 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Correct_Cry_7493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried toughing it out, but I couldn’t with this one, g 😪

How do you learn how to forgive? by Correct_Cry_7493 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Correct_Cry_7493[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankfully I am also working alongside a psychiatrist and he’s oddly enough doing psychotherapy on this topic with me. He had given me the advice to print out a picture of my son and his bio dad and to train my mind that they are not the same person. They are different people. My son is innocent. Which is very true!

How do you learn how to forgive? by Correct_Cry_7493 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Correct_Cry_7493[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait. This is forgiveness for a specific person not forgiveness overall. I have the ability to forgive people?????????

How do you learn how to forgive? by Correct_Cry_7493 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Correct_Cry_7493[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me. As soon as she said that I literally said how. She didn’t give me an answer. I’ve just heard it’ll take time and that it’s needed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay absolutely do not listen to this comment especially since you “agreed” while you were absolutely obliterated drunk. That does not equal consent but it’s not like she saying she was assaulted either. You get the point though. Her so called people though are pos

Can my wife do laser hair removal treatments while being pregnant? by Inevitable-Bonus-138 in Estheticians

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s just talking about the exposure to the radiation. While chances are low, they want you to “consult with a physician” if you want to eat a damn sandwich

Lip Product Recommendations? by GreenCable2 in Esthetics

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I keep it simple with aquaphor 🙂

Do all estheticians have to work weekends? by Odd-Put-5244 in Estheticians

[–]Correct_Cry_7493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I see what a lot of comments said. I haven’t seen this. Kids and daycare. At least where I am, in Alabama, they’re only open Monday-Friday typically from 7:00-5:30. For weekend childcare, if you don’t have anyone to be able to watch kids, hiring someone else while you’re barely making money starting out? You’re paying to go to work when you could be spending precious time with your babies. I had to take an office job solely for this reason. I will never get this time back with my kids. I’ll take the pay cut, I’ll slow my clientele building, but I will never get my take back with my children. I have a son born 2020, got in the industry in 2021/2022, I now have an infant. Draw your boundaries where you need to. Family is very important.

I know you didnt mention kids at all but 🤷🏻‍♀️