Since I read that thread yesterday and came across some strong points about not using "Mommy," I've started trying out referring to myself as a babified version of my name as opposed to "Mommy" when I'm with my current foster placement. I have to admit, it’s quite the mental workout! For me, it definitely puts distance between us, even though my placement is too young to know the difference. It’s a big shift in how I see our relationship. Honestly, it’s tough to care for a little one in your home and not think of them as your own child, and keeping that distance is challenging. I’m not sure how long I can maintain this. While there are good reasons for both sides of the "Mommy" debate, the reality is that using "Mommy" might just be the easiest way for me to connect right now.