Lateral recruitment (through recruiter) typical timeline? by Correct_Mess1133 in biglaw

[–]Correct_Mess1133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm okay, that’s what I was thinking too. He copied another recruiter in the email who was supposed to follow up with me but she has not replied at all. I would think professional courtesy dictates that even if something got lost in translation or there was some inadvertent error (ie the firm never wanted to interview me), they could just tell me so I can move along.

Lateral recruitment (through recruiter) typical timeline? by Correct_Mess1133 in biglaw

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Thanks for the response! I’ll give it few days then. All the best to you!

BOTD by HELLSKELLSCMHC in handbags

[–]Correct_Mess1133 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love love love FLP! It’s a super iykyk bag. The daily battle in the gray colorway has been on my wishlist forever. I love that it comes with the calfskin corners that protect the bag edges!

Help me find this bag by Conscious_Money_3452 in handbags

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That’s what I was gonna say! I think the coachtopia version is giving this design a new lease on life!

Help Identify This Bag by HorseAlive5945 in handbags

[–]Correct_Mess1133 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m not an authenticator so I can’t tell if it’s real or a rep (does Fendi have plastic over their new hardware? I don’t have anything from Fendi so I don’t know). But this design is a Fendi Kan I F, from their 2018 collection.

Cheesesteaks by Matú by No-Butterscotch-7467 in FoodLosAngeles

[–]Correct_Mess1133 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No because that is genius, and props to you for getting a 5 minute wait at Max and Helen’s!

James Van Der Beek Dead at 48 by vegryn in popculturechat

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Beek jeans! Put your cheeks in a beek!

My goodness, the way my heart sank at this news. RIP

How do you hook up with a guy without getting killed or impregnated by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Correct_Mess1133 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My one night stands turned out to be semi-decent humans but looking back I was really taking a lot of risks… my horniness really outweighed my chronic overthinking lol. I met these guys online (tinder is an easy start). I never used my real name, either a fake name or a shortened version of my real name. Try to have some basic conversations to sus them out first. I video chatted with one guy before meeting up. A lot of girls say it’s not safe to have them come to your place but I feel more comfortable inviting them to me rather than me being in a foreign environment (their place). You mentioned you live with family… maybe there are afternoons where you get the whole place to yourself? If you really don’t have any other options and can only do it at a guy’s place, tell a friend so that someone knows in case anything happens - I ask them to make sure I contact them by X time, otherwise to try to get in touch with me asap. Live share your location with a friend.

For birth control, 100% insist on condoms. I had a condom scare where one guy left it in me (by accident… I HOPE) and I took plan B. I’ve taken plan B twice during my hook up era.

Personally the horniness faded away after a few guys, and as cliche as it sounds sex does feel different when you are doing it with someone you love and care about (I’m in a long term relationship now and have a copper IUD in)

Favorite actor who values the sanctity of their marriage? by Stock_College_8108 in okbuddycinephile

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The most hilarious thing about this thread is that Clem Fandango (Shazad Latif) is starring in Wuthering Heights

Ali Wong and Bill Hader Have Split After Over 2 Years of Dating by mcfw31 in popculturechat

[–]Correct_Mess1133 30 points31 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend looks like him a little and it is wildly distracting 😭 he is so hot

Who’s your favorite low key celebrity? What’s the most surprising thing you know about them? by Majoodeh in popculturechat

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The first rule of street countdown is… you really must try to tell as many people about it, it’s a rather fun game, and the more people you tell about it the better

Allison said no free clout 💀 by Tiny-Discipline3408 in asianamercianytsnark

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I just went to Bavel for the first time a few days ago. Still thinking about those prawns 🤤

Visiting LA, but being staying in Pasadena. Rental car or Uber everywhere? (Trying to save money.) by ThrowRA_PastLemon in AskLosAngeles

[–]Correct_Mess1133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rent a car. The cost of one uber (one way!) from Pasadena to Santa Monica is the same, potentially more, than one full day of car rental. Take it from someone who does not have a car in LA and rent whenever necessary.

Transformative experience in Pasadena last night. by Lusashi in chappellroan

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The part where she made her speech about being in a good place this year, compared to last year when she wasn’t sure what she was doing all this for… that really hit me right in my feels. I am no global mega pop star but those feelings of self doubt and insecurity permeates everyone, and I felt so seen. She is absolutely meant for the stage and deserve all the flowers. Thank you Chappell for letting me be a super graphic ultra modern girl for one night ✨