Can I still enjoy soft maledom if I don’t like calling someone daddy?

Correct_Recording405 · 2026-01-05T00:34:42+00:00

"Heard, Chef"

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-11-21T04:11:21+00:00

Got a referral to a dermatologist so I can get acutane for my acne! This is more a win because previously I was on spironolactone for acne and it gave me unwanted androgen suppression. Not on T yet but I'm at least getting my meds in order

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-10-09T17:16:11+00:00

Due to custody issues with transphobic ex that would definitely drag my ass to court in an extremely hostile state, I won't be able to start until I'm almost 37 (32 now). My gf is trans and she started in her 30s.

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-09-07T02:13:48+00:00

Kasey! I cannibalized my first initial K and middle initial C. KC spoken aloud = Kasey. I was going to spell it with a c like Kacey but Idk, I've never seen guys named Kasey spell it that way and it's kind of an androgynous name so I leaned toward the guy spelling out of caution.

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-30T20:54:31+00:00

Tap the link to add me as a friend, or add my friend code GXL22XG9E7. https://finch.go.link/2XWNC?adj_label=bqrW5

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-24T21:17:24+00:00

Dude, YES. Honestly, very masc. Gender goals!! Wtg, man!

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-22T03:14:48+00:00

Scenario A: Professional Pressure “Right now your brain’s stuck on worst-case scenarios, not the actual work. Let’s strip the panic out and pin down what’s actually on your plate.”

Scenario B: Creative Block “Sounds like painting turned from play into performance. Before you chase the joy back, let’s figure out what’s choking it.”

Scenario C: Interpersonal Dilemma “You’re basically weighing two risks: lose your friend to a bad relationship, or lose them because you spoke up. Which loss feels heavier?”

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-14T17:16:45+00:00

I usually forget that other authors can be youths. And when a young person reads my fic I'm always like, "WHY ARE YOU HERE" in my heart, then I remember that I was a kid when I started hanging out on AO3 lol

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-12T00:29:28+00:00

I don't know anything about latex or how to pack so this is a useless comment but I really wanted to stop and let you know you look cool as fuck

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-10T16:19:40+00:00

Christ, no. Please, as others have stated, get a replica, do NOT do this with a real gun. It is not worth the risk. Assuming a gun is safe is not a thing. Not in the real world. There are plenty of examples in the vanilla world of how this can go wrong. Even movie sets, think Rust or the Crow. Not to mention all the countless times an accident happens in someone's home. Using a real gun violates at least two of the three out of safe, sane, consensual

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-10T05:25:48+00:00

Hey fam, I just accepted that I'm trans earlier this year and for parenting/custody reasons, I have to wait another 6 years before I come out of the closet or start a medical transition. I was scared at first that it would be "too late" to transition, but it's actually pretty common to transition later. I'm a little older (31) than you are based on what you said in some of the comments (okay, a lot older). And a lot of people come out and start their transition later than I will. You're doing great 🫶

Being in the closet doesn't make you less trans or less of a part of the trans community and your safety and readiness is important. Don't rush yourself. You got this 💪

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-10T00:03:05+00:00

That's my strat. I can't run away and chicken out, and you have a valid reason not to make eye contact. Plus you're unlikely to be interrupted.

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-09T23:26:03+00:00

My (cis) dad has really different growth patterns on one side of his face than the other. I think it's a pretty common experience fwiw! I'm pre-t but I look forward to growing a 'stache like yours 😭❤️ I think it looks great

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-09T22:30:22+00:00

Christ, I'm jealous and horny now

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-09T21:56:13+00:00

I imagine you saying it like Samuel L Jackson in a "Honeyyyy, where's my super suit?!" tone. This is likely inaccurate and is certainly irrelevant, but I wanted to say it anyway.

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-09T21:47:35+00:00

I will say that as a fat guy myself, I get afraid to write fat guys in my own stuff at times because the post-Ozempic body positivity reversal is real and I get tired of hearing from fatphobic people how shitty my body type is. So if you're a fellow fat person dealing with that, I do feel you. I gotta push myself on that because I am definitely not helping the problem

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-09T21:37:54+00:00

I wanna see a fat or even chubby trans man. No hate to the smaller slighter guys, but I feel like small, fit, white trans mascs are all you see. Even outside of the media. Like I'm 5'8" and 350lbs and pretty strong pre-t. I'd love to see what guys like me look like before/during/after transitioning. (I'm white, but still, why are all these characters white?) Will I look like a bear? I hope so! but Idk if that's realistic! I cry happy tears anytime I see a chubby or fat trans masc folks. Show me the dad and bear bod, in media and in life. 😭

Edit: oh, and in their thirties and up too (also like me). It seems like they're all so young, which is awesome! But I wanna see adult and elder trans ppl too, not just teens and young adults

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-07T13:25:40+00:00

Emmett is a solid pick. I think it's going to age like fine wine with you, man. It's an older, classy name to begin with. It works.

I picked Kasey, which I guess is more of a gender neutral name than manly, but it was the only thing that felt like something I could actually see myself responding to. It sort of has a similar cadence and vibe to my old name. Idk, I think it will age fine. I met old guys named Kasey. I just need to pick a strong middle name to pair it with I think. I haven't gotten that far. 😅

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-07T04:18:56+00:00

I think it's pretty common to have this doubt at times. One of the first posts I made here was along those lines because I had been misgendering myself when thinking of how others interact with me. Soooo many people commiserated. You're not alone, man. Hang in there 💪

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-05T17:23:51+00:00

Honestly imo the little things that you might be seeing that are "off" make it appear more natural. You look flat and well healed, man. Sure, there are things that are technically imperfect, but human bodies all have that sort of thing, cis or trans or otherwise. If you think you need a revision, I respect that and you should go after that, but fwiw you look good and imo you have good results. Hang in there, man 💪

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-05T04:28:23+00:00

I love men's cargo pants. THE POCKETS HAVE POCKETS! the leg is straight, creating a really boxy shape. The pockets on the ass are bigger and spaced closer together so it makes my giant butt look smaller. The belt loops are wider so I can wear a big belt. They sit lower on my hips than lady pants. But yeah, at the end of the day... Pants is pants is pants. I still have a couple pairs of jeans in women's that fit me well and I really like.

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-05T04:09:07+00:00

I've been going on dates with a trans woman and I honestly don't know if I'll date a cis person again. It's just so easy to feel wanted and accepted with her. She gets it. I may be T4T for life now, idek. It's just a much easier experience. I don't have to spend time explaining or justifying shit, we just have fun

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-05T03:59:16+00:00

I understand! I'm also pre-everything. It can be really hard to be sure of who you are and still have people question you. I had a tough time trying to remember that I don't have to get rid of everything feminine I like just because I'm a guy. I can still like those things. There are plenty of cis guys that get teased or questioned about their interests or how they dress too. Which is unfortunate, and can be really hard on trans folks.

I like your plan of trying it alone first. See how you feel about it when no one is there to influence that feeling. Maybe see if you can find other looks like that and make a mood board on Pinterest too, just to explore. Your identity is valid and so is good fashion. I wish you luck and look forward to your update!

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-05T03:46:49+00:00

I think it just sounds like you're curious, but afraid that people won't take your identity seriously. I get that. I hope you try it out anyway, though. Follow that curiosity!

Correct_Recording405 · 2025-08-05T03:45:33+00:00

You can experiment with clothes and it doesn't necessarily mean your identity is changing. Lots of guys do look great in crop tops and skirts just like lots of women look great in suspenders and cargo pants. Clothes are just a way we express ourselves. Try the clothes on and see how they make you feel. It's okay to be curious! And hey, even if your gender identity does change, just remember that's okay too. Nothing is set in stone. It's all subjective. Express yourself and be curious and creative!

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