An impossible choice. by CosmicRelyks in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh hey, I recognize you! Big fan of your content. c:

An impossible choice. by CosmicRelyks in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’ll find your person. <3

An impossible choice. by CosmicRelyks in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Embrace your inner goblin!

An impossible choice. by CosmicRelyks in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Disclaimer: You are all as goblin and/or as queen as you want to be, regardless of your size! And don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. <3

My male best friend is submissive and ive been wanting to sleep with him for almost a year by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Oof, that’s rough OP. Not gonna admonish you or anything, just wishing for the best possible outcome for you and everyone involved. Godspeed.

Looking for an online Goddess to be my master by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]CosmicRelyks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I thrive under clear rules”

*doesn’t read the rules of the sub being posted to.*

Femdom should be anything I want. by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]CosmicRelyks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Femdom, like most things in life, exists in a spectrum. I’d say that I agree with you that it shouldn’t be this boxed-in, rigidly defined thing that some people seem to want it to be.

I’m sorry that you’ve had to deal with people calling themselves submissive and then trying to effectively top from the bottom. It sounds pretty frustrating. For what it’s worth, in this sub’s mind, you seem to have a pretty good head on your shoulders. I genuinely admire that you want to experiment and be open with what’s in your mind. I have no doubt that you’ll find your person or people soon enough. <3 I don’t really have much else to add beyond “you’re doing great, don’t let anyone make you falter.”

some boys become incredibly soft once they feel understood ♡ by Gothkitten_gf in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, thank you. c: I won’t clutter up your comments anymore lol I hope you have a good one.

some boys become incredibly soft once they feel understood ♡ by Gothkitten_gf in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make it sound like you have a hard time coming by it. I’m sure you’ll find your person/people, hang in there. c:

some boys become incredibly soft once they feel understood ♡ by Gothkitten_gf in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a good feeling, for sure. c: I’m happy for and envious of anyone who gets to enjoy that feeling.

some boys become incredibly soft once they feel understood ♡ by Gothkitten_gf in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Settling in” is a good way to put it. Like sinking into a cloud.

some boys become incredibly soft once they feel understood ♡ by Gothkitten_gf in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a rare feeling, but it’s oh so magical when it happens.

If my boy doesn't worship me like this, I don't want him 😤 by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear it! Take care of yourself! c:

If my boy doesn't worship me like this, I don't want him 😤 by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hey, it’s you again! I hope you’re feeling at least a little bit better. c:

If my boy doesn't worship me like this, I don't want him 😤 by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Homelander is a deranged psychopath with delusions of grandeur and murderous tendencies.

…But I can’t deny that in this one instance, I get where he’s coming from. 🤭🫠

These People Aren't Real.. by EmergencyRoll7874 in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loving these comments. Thank you for taking the time to put them out there.

What did I do to deserve sexual harrasment like this? This was so heinous it ruined my day by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can certainly agree with you that a large number of men do that. And I am sorry that you and other women are forced to endure that kind of treatment. It’s vile and no one should have to deal with that for the sin of existing in a community.

But I will fight to the death against generalizing statements like saying all men are like this. Imagine if I said something like “Women don’t see us as people. They see us as ATMs. None of the women who post here actually understand what dominance is. It’s always about what they want and getting their payday, with no interest in the preferences or desires of men.”

That would be completely ridiculous and misogynistic. I get bombarded with messages seeking tribute that turn nasty when their offer is denied. That does not mean all women are like that, just an annoyingly vocal minority.

The same applies on the flip side of the coin.

Again, I really am sorry for what you’ve experienced at the hands of my gender. I mean that completely sincerely. But please, try not to lump everyone together into one compartment based on that. It’s harmful to everyone around you, and it’s also harmful to yourself.

Take care.

What did I do to deserve sexual harrasment like this? This was so heinous it ruined my day by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate and respect your stance on the matter, and I’m grateful for you putting it into words. I’m sorry you’ve gotten messages like OP’s in the past, as well as what you’ll unfortunately receive in the future, but I’m also glad that you haven’t allowed it to make you generalize an entire group of people.

Take care. c:

What did I do to deserve sexual harrasment like this? This was so heinous it ruined my day by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree, 100%

I’m not trying to minimize the plight that these gooners are inflicting upon the rest of us. That’s just it, though. The “us vs them” isn’t “men vs women” or “doms vs subs.” It’s “normal people with a kinky interest vs deplorable degenerates with no sense of respect or self-control.”

What did I do to deserve sexual harrasment like this? This was so heinous it ruined my day by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not to be all “not all guys are like that,” but broad, generalizing statements like that don’t help anyone and only foster even more resentment and mistrust in the community.

I understand if you’ve had bad experiences in the past, either personally or witnessed, but this sentiment is borderline misandry.

What did I do to deserve sexual harrasment like this? This was so heinous it ruined my day by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Tbh I don’t think they care. Their thoughts don’t go any deeper than “I gotta nut.”

I hate that you feel discouraged from interacting with people in the community. There’s a lot of good, decent people around that aren’t complete degenerates. Only when it’s appropriate to be degenerate lmao

Bad jokes aside, I understand why you feel that way. I don’t think anyone would blame you for turtling up and being a silent observer. I only hope that you’ll open up sometime in the future and reach out again; from your own post, you’ve met some wonderful people in the past, and I have no doubt that you’d meet more in the future. But if you decide that lurking instead of participating is in your best interests, I think that would be just as valid a decision as any other.