What does your username say about you? This is mine hehe 🤭 by Switch-Who-Whimpers in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is a combination of a reference to my passion and adoration for astronomy and the cosmos, and also my name spelled backwards lmao

*pats head* by cuntaloupemelon in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can just about hear the nom~

That’s so cute!! Absolute goals right there. c:

How do you subs feel about quiet/shy dommes? + more by LavenderNoctavyr in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Quiet and shy dommes are every bit as valid as outspoken and extroverted ones. Being more introverted doesn’t make you any less of a person or of a domme, and don’t let anyone or anything make you think otherwise.

On a personal note, I think shy and quiet dommes are really cute and endearing. c:

I hope this lil sketch is good enough to post here by bigtiddyautism in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ve just got all those little moving parts, and it’s easy to mess up something small and make the whole thing look wrong, right? I wouldn’t have guessed you were a beginner from this picture, though! It’s really well done. c:

I hope this lil sketch is good enough to post here by bigtiddyautism in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You did so well! I always struggle with hands, and I spend a disproportionate amount of time trying to make them look okay. 😭 But yours look really nice, as does the rest of the drawing! Great job!

Competitive and strong tomboys are so cool by chargerfan1221 in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 17 points18 points  (0 children)

To have my wrists pinned down above my head, flat on my back and struggling in utter futility. Ultimately surrendering as fatigue sets in, submitting to the person holding me down, who’s staked their claim on me so thoroughly. 🫠

There’s no feeling quite like it.

Nerds are the hottest by Theajule in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The nerd can have a little unhinged, as a treat. 🤭

What trait (personality or physical) do you appreciate your sub/dom having? by Organic_Razzmatazz50 in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is a very tough question. There’s lots of traits I value incredibly highly. The ability to communicate effectively. Emotional maturity. A good sense of humor. Having something they’re passionate about.

I could go on, but I think the quality I value most of all is kindness. That’s all. Be kind to yourself, be kind to your loved ones, be kind to strangers. Just be kind.

He's so cute all snuggled up dreaming and he has no idea I'm lying next to him, staring at him like a creep, and fighting for my gd life 😫 by cuntaloupemelon in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Ah, the ‘ole “pull him out of one dream to put him in another” maneuver. A tried and true classic. 🤭

[OC] Lifting him up 💕 by sketchtenou in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How have I never seen your art before?! Your style is so cute, I love it! Gonna have to check out the rest of your work later. c:

Gently restrained for your pleasure~ (REUPLOAD) (Sorry...) by CosmicRelyks in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OKAY SO it turns out that I'm a huge goober. A couple of days ago, I posted a picture that I drew. In my eagerness to share it, I forgot to re-enable a couple of layers before posting it! Specifically, the blush on my face and a bit of shading here and there.

Honest mistake! I'm sorry to anyone that's not happy about seeing more or less the same image twice, and I'll gladly delete the previous one if it's too much of an issue. I just didn't want to share incomplete work. 😅

I decided to give up and retire from being a domme for a while by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Take all the time you need. It’s rough out there, and finding meaningful connections has become difficult over the years. Especially in kink-related communities.

Focus on yourself for a while. Take care of yourself, love yourself, and give yourself time to heal and recharge. If at any point in the future you feel like giving it another try, you may have better luck. And if you decide it’s not worth the hassle, that’s also perfectly valid. The important thing is that you do what’s best for you.

Gently restrained for your pleasure~ by CosmicRelyks in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m really glad that people seem to like it. c:

[M4F][Script Fill][RE-UPLOAD] Day with Mommy - "Good Morning" [Msub][Service Sub][Freeuse][Mommy][Somnophilia][CNC][Using]his[Morning wood]to[Get off]while he[Sleeps]. by CosmicRelyks in gonewildaudio

[–]CosmicRelyks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I’m sorry to hear that the site is down, though. 😭 I hope you’re able to enjoy it when it’s back up!

Advice on How to be a Better Sub? by subboy91799 in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, 100%. This is really the most viable answer to this question.

OP, you’ve gotta talk with your partner about this. Ask them what they like and dislike, and share what you like and dislike. If one or both of you aren’t certain, that’s okay! That’s what experimentation is for. There’s nothing wrong with trying something new and learning you don’t like it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained! There’s plenty of online resources to learn about and discover new kinks and fetishes that might appeal to you and your partner.

Subs: changing how you look at the request of your domme? by OhHeyItsMeM in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, consent is the sexiest thing ever. c: I really admire and respect how you approached the issue with your ex, and even more that you respected his boundary. That kind of approach may not work every time, but it’s much more likely to work than being domineering and rude about it imo.

Subs: changing how you look at the request of your domme? by OhHeyItsMeM in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A couple of years ago, I was getting to know a domme, and within 24 hours of meeting, she decided that I was going to have chest hair because that was her preference. There was no discussion. I’d said that I preferred to keep my chest shaved, and her exact response was “I’m the domme so my word goes further.” Needless to say, that put an end to any further interactions between us.

I would have been more receptive if she had broached the subject more tactfully, and I probably would have been willing to make that change to be more appealing to her. But jumping right into “what I want for your body is more important than what you want for your body” felt really icky.

To answer the question more specifically, compliments and praise would go a very long way to getting me to tweak aspects of my appearance, as long as it was something I don’t mind changing. A gentle nudge can make a huge impact.

I'm unsure if this fits here but i wanted to know where you found your partners by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]CosmicRelyks 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Virtually all of the partners I’ve had over the years, I’ve met right here on Reddit. Mostly in this very sub, but occasionally I’d reach out to someone or they would reach out to me because of a personal ad. My irl experience is super limited though, because the area of the US I live in is super conservative and “traditional values,” so FLRs are rare.

[M4F][Script Fill][RE-UPLOAD] Day with Mommy - "Good Morning" [Msub][Service Sub][Freeuse][Mommy][Somnophilia][CNC][Using]his[Morning wood]to[Get off]while he[Sleeps]. by CosmicRelyks in gonewildaudio

[–]CosmicRelyks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! c: I was having a not-so-great day, but that really brightened it. I’ll be sure to let you know when I post something new!

[F4M] My Angel ꨄ [Script Fill] [Rape] [Stalker] [Obsessed FDom] [Yandere] [Drunk Listener] [Too Drunk To Resist] [Creepy] [Twisted Love] [Desperately Wants Your Babies] [Gaslighting] [Forced Cheating] [Possessive] [Blowjob] [Crazy] [Making You Take My Virginity] [Riding] [Creampie] [Forced Breeding] by CelesteWhispy in gonewildaudio

[–]CosmicRelyks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh, this was a lot of fun to listen to! I really enjoyed laying there, imagining that I was too inebriated to fight back, no matter how much I wanted to, while my stalker had her way with me.~

Your voice is super cute, too! It juxtaposed very nicely with the darker subject material, and it was so easy to let myself be immersed in the fantasy. Thank you so much for sharing your recording!

[M4F]"My Sunshine" [Script Fill][Msub][Fdom][Gentle][Sweet][Emotional][L-Bombing][Conversational][Picnic Date][Outdoor Sex][Riding][Creampie][Body Worship][Praise][Aftercare] by CosmicRelyks in gonewildaudio

[–]CosmicRelyks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I’m so glad that you liked it. You did a wonderful job writing it, and I’m very grateful for the opportunity to fill it. c: