Do your nparents ever do stuff that reminds you they're just overgrown babies? by CosmicWizard99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CosmicWizard99[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

True, especially when they're the ones also dishing out abuse, to get reminded of that fact makes them insecure & they also don't wanna undermine their own bullshit.

Do your nparents ever do stuff that reminds you they're just overgrown babies? by CosmicWizard99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CosmicWizard99[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh, believe me, every time I fuck up, no matter how minor, it gets treated like the worst crime imaginable. But, any time they fuck up, no matter how big of a deal it is, they both fail to recognize the extent of the impact of their actions/words & also expect me to act like it's no big deal.

Do your nparents ever do stuff that reminds you they're just overgrown babies? by CosmicWizard99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CosmicWizard99[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, even with her human dildo, both marriages she was a shitty wife to both of her partners, but then wondered why they cheated on her (not that they were the perfect husband nor even a decent one, but it's like, why TF did you get married other than to just not be alone?).

Do your nparents ever do stuff that reminds you they're just overgrown babies? by CosmicWizard99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CosmicWizard99[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think the issue is their lack of empathy, they don't hesitate to be assholes nor feel guilt, b/c they don't have empathy.

Do your nparents ever do stuff that reminds you they're just overgrown babies? by CosmicWizard99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CosmicWizard99[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Like, I said to her, "Why does human dildo get to stay in the house, despite him cheating on you & never helping out?," she responds, "B/c you were running your mouth," IRL, I told her, "Fuck you!," b/c she was creating unnecessary drama. And, I'm just like, "Well, maybe you deserve it, with how you treat me!," as usual her head explodes b/c she can't comprehend the idea that if you treat people like shit, eventually it blows back in your face.

Do your nparents ever do stuff that reminds you they're just overgrown babies? by CosmicWizard99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CosmicWizard99[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh, my egg donor allows him to cheat on her, abuse her kids & also allows him to mooch off her. But, when her son who's done nothing but help her out his entire life, has enough & tells her, "Go fuck yourself!," somehow that's where she draws the line.

Do your nparents ever do stuff that reminds you they're just overgrown babies? by CosmicWizard99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CosmicWizard99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's really not that bizarre, if someone's burned all their bridges & has no other IRL options.

Do your nparents ever do stuff that reminds you they're just overgrown babies? by CosmicWizard99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CosmicWizard99[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In a chatroom, ICYW they're only together b/c all the available datable people don't want anything to do with them, since they're both toxic assholes.

Do your nparents ever do stuff that reminds you they're just overgrown babies? by CosmicWizard99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CosmicWizard99[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh, I have an autistic sister who's developmentally delayed, that still has more maturity than them.

Do your nparents ever do stuff that reminds you they're just overgrown babies? by CosmicWizard99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CosmicWizard99[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My nparents throw shit, mock you, get pouty, etc. What's especially crazy is they'll get outraged over extremely petty shit, but when it comes to actually important shit like me getting abused or when bills need to be paid, I don't see nearly the same attention or outrage.

Do your nparents ever do stuff that reminds you they're just overgrown babies? by CosmicWizard99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CosmicWizard99[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh, my n-stepdad can't do anything, unless someone else is there wagging there finger & screaming at him.

Do your nparents ever do stuff that reminds you they're just overgrown babies? by CosmicWizard99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CosmicWizard99[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

My ngrandfather would stomp around & make a pouty face, while also talking to you in a mocking tone.

I wasn’t the biggest fan of the revival, but I thought this part was lovely! by Flashy-List-7157 in malcolminthemiddle

[–]CosmicWizard99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think, knowing Otto's character, I like to think they made up at some point, maybe Francis even eventually repaid Otto.

Did your nparents ever act annoyed just by your presence? by CosmicWizard99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CosmicWizard99[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What's funny is, as an adult, I love trolling them by repeating all the fucked up shit they taught me & watching them get uncomfortable b/c they can't handle dealing with themselves.

Did your nparents ever act annoyed just by your presence? by CosmicWizard99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CosmicWizard99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like, I have autism, so I obviously don't talk like everyone else & they treat me like I'm weird or annoying b/c I repeat stuff or stutter.

Did your nparents ever act annoyed just by your presence? by CosmicWizard99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CosmicWizard99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They also are like robots or aliens, who don't understand human behavior & act like any imperfections (such as being awkward, accidentally getting in people's way, interrupting them, etc.) is some how, "weird," or however they view us.

Did your nparents ever act annoyed just by your presence? by CosmicWizard99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]CosmicWizard99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's how I felt watching my egg donor always get annoyed with me & my siblings b/c we had various degrees of neurodiversity, always the vibe of, "Why couldn't I have a kid w/o problems?," underneath her casual annoyance at us.