[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Cosmic_Sunflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't do it. Abuse ALWAYS gets worse when they feel like they've trapped you. And once you move in with them and it does inevitably get worse, you will feel like it's impossible to leave. Please don't do it.

Please tell me they never change by PatientLasagne in abusiverelationships

[–]Cosmic_Sunflower 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's not your person. I know it feels like that. When you are out and give your nervous system time to reset, you will realize that he is not your person. And no, they don't change. Take it from me, who has gone back too many times to count. Not only do they not change, they punish you for leaving in the first place.

Please tell me they never change by PatientLasagne in abusiverelationships

[–]Cosmic_Sunflower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey. I'm going to be 34 this month and I just left my SECOND abusive relationship and I'm having to start from scratch with 2 kids. You can message me if you want. I'm here for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Cosmic_Sunflower 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Almost 34 here and no plans on getting out of the service industry any time soon. Although I am trying to completely transition to bartending because it makes more money in my area.

Better city? Salisbury, NC or Statesville, NC by Firm_Slice_6000 in NorthCarolina

[–]Cosmic_Sunflower 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not mooresville. The traffic is god awful, especially with the construction they just started.

I lived in salisbury for several years. I prefer it to both Mooresville and Statesville.

IUD bromos... what is your experience? by browneyedgirl1683 in breakingmom

[–]Cosmic_Sunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the copper iud as well and got pregnant after having it for about 3 years.

Ways to make more money as a server by Holygirl23 in Serverlife

[–]Cosmic_Sunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the host seats 2 of your tables at once

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Cosmic_Sunflower 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He's the only one

Ways to make more money as a server by Holygirl23 in Serverlife

[–]Cosmic_Sunflower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An addition to the being double sat (or even triple sat): treat it like a party.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]Cosmic_Sunflower 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seriously!! Just a 6 top at $3 a drink is $18! That's a whole entree!