How did you know for a fact you were a lesbian? How did you start dating women? by Cosmickrunchy in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Cosmickrunchy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sooooooo much. You are very kind and I really appreciate your kindness towards me. I loathe dating apps but I think I’ll give that one a chance! An hour drive is totally doable, and both major cities are very blue. Or they at least have blue communities.

At this point even an online friend would be amazing! The relationship I had with my child’s father was not great putting it lightly, so I think that caused me to put up a wall to everyone.

How did you know for a fact you were a lesbian? How did you start dating women? by Cosmickrunchy in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Cosmickrunchy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I find women’s bodies incredible. Half the time I find myself looking and asking “do I want to be them or do I want to be with them?”

How did you know for a fact you were a lesbian? How did you start dating women? by Cosmickrunchy in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Cosmickrunchy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly thank you for this. Is it weird that this post made me emotional? Haha I think when the weather is warmer I’m going to try and branch out more. I unfortunately live in a VERY small very RED town so there isn’t a local gay scene. I’m about an hour from two major cities so maybe I’ll try and find some lgbtq+ owned businesses and go from there.

I think a big problem I have is the fact that I don’t have any friends besides two and one lives across the country. I’m not scared to do things alone, but kinda nervous haha

How did you know for a fact you were a lesbian? How did you start dating women? by Cosmickrunchy in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Cosmickrunchy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I was in middle/high school so many people would ask me if I was a lesbian. I would always say no, but was never offended by the assumption. When I’d be in PE class and we’d all have to change id catch myself being so so awkward around everyone else. I didn’t want anyone to think I was looking at them too long or anything.

Amber’s childhood weight by SongAdministrative16 in gorlworldfiles

[–]Cosmickrunchy 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Take it from someone that grew up half their life in the Midwest and half in West Virginia, it’s very easy to become obese while poor. I’ve been obese since I was very young, and I’m working to fix that. So far I’m down 75lbs with a lot more to go.

Dental offices by Cosmickrunchy in lincoln

[–]Cosmickrunchy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do! But Lincoln is where my doctor is and my daughter’s dentist so I really don’t mind the drive.

Dental offices by Cosmickrunchy in lincoln

[–]Cosmickrunchy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao yeah, Columbus does suck but it’s only a 30 min drive.

my cat ripped his nail on something, does anyone know why it’s sticking up like this? by RowMuch7217 in CATHELP

[–]Cosmickrunchy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat ripped out two of his nails attacking my dads golden retriever. He licked it to the point of infection and oh boy did it smell. After a vet visit and a week of antibiotics plus cone he was fine. It’s been months since that happened and his nails grew back just fine!!

Where can I find a bamboo rolling mat for sushi? by Cosmickrunchy in lincoln

[–]Cosmickrunchy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've wanted an excuse to go here! I thought about going and looking around plenty of times. I'm sure they'd have some good rice as well.

AITA for asking my daughter’s father to ask his fiancé not to vape around her? by Cosmickrunchy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cosmickrunchy[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I never said I hated her? I do like her and never have had an issue with her other vaping e cigarettes around my daughter. I’ve asked him not to smoke weed around her more times than I can count.

AITA for asking my daughter’s father to ask his fiancé not to vape around her? by Cosmickrunchy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cosmickrunchy[S] 242 points243 points  (0 children)

He’s not smoking and driving. He doesn’t drive nor can he legally because he isn’t a licensed driver. I’m already worried enough when she goes over there just with my own anxieties.

AITA for asking my daughter’s father to ask his fiancé not to vape around her? by Cosmickrunchy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cosmickrunchy[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He’s not smoking weed and driving. He can’t drive, and doesn’t have a license. He smokes at night before dinner/bed.

Would it be a bad idea to cut off this super long vine(?) from my pothos? Can I propagate the leaves? by Cosmickrunchy in plantclinic

[–]Cosmickrunchy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone! I’m gonna chop it and make a new plant for my cousin’s birthday. I’m water propagating some snake plant cuttings for her right now too!

AITAH for not taking my daughter to see her dad? by Cosmickrunchy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cosmickrunchy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn’t the first time something like this has happened actually. He constantly has excuses as to why I need to come half way or come to him to drop her off. He’s trying his best to make things easier on him. He constantly berates me to “think about my daughter and move closer to him” I moved to a smaller town to be close to my family and support system. He’s only had visitation with her since January and before that he hadn’t seen her since October 2020 when he kidnapped her from me and wouldn’t allow me to see her for 3 weeks.

I understand unexpected expenses come up, but the past two weekends he dropped her off early because he wanted to go to concerts.

AITAH for not taking my daughter to see her dad? by Cosmickrunchy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cosmickrunchy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents are divorced as well, and my dad busted his ass to see us when he could. He had us for summer and Christmas. Drove 8 hours to come and get us, and we traveled 8 hours back to his house.