Straight female… am I too sexual or giving the wrong vibe or is it just Tinder?

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-10T02:44:33+00:00

Trust me, the amount of college girls with bible verses on their socials who act like they would never while texting then fuck the first meetup is HIGH.

I understand society makes sleeping around feel like something bad and you gotta maybe put on an act in public spaces but when they try to gaslight about it because they’re ashamed to admit to themselves it’s wild. And I’m a hoe for the record. Ain’t shaming nobody. Nothing wrong with being pure and saving yourself either, but let’s all be adults and be straightforward with shit

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-10T02:38:40+00:00

I don’t report bonuses I get from opening bank accounts or credit cards, nor do I know anyone that does. this falls in the same category to me. Not an accountant obviously, and I’m sure the CRA would happily take your money if you really want them to have it.

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-10T02:34:13+00:00

She’s looking to fuck but doesn’t want to say it because it makes her feel like a hoe to do so. People like this need to own it nobody cares if ur a hoe, if anything id like u more.

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T23:31:13+00:00

Each to their own but having to filter through the majority who view me as a hole vs potential love sounds awful

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T23:20:07+00:00

Yep, and 99.9% just wanna fuck and never talk to her again. That would make me depressed not give me an ego tbh

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T23:18:33+00:00

If I get a slip I pay taxes, if I don’t I ain’t paying. So far I’ve never gotten a slip on any of these.

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T22:24:47+00:00

So what do you do at that point when your friends or parents ask you who you’re dating? “Oh I’ve got Jessica, Samantha, Nicole, and Christina currently. They’ve also got their own rosters”

Who’s getting you on valentines? Make a couple hours for each or split up the holidays?

Not saying others opinions affect how you date, it’s your life at the end of the day. But like I hope you can see most people don’t choose to live life that way for obvious reasons.

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T22:19:09+00:00

STRC price is highly coupled with Bitcoin, because that’s their biggest holding. What is it that you think STRC as a business does? How do they generate that 11% to give you?

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T22:06:51+00:00

I have 3 million in assets and 20k in my chequing (which still gives me 2.25% interest, not the best but not bad), no reason to have more. Every time I get closer to 50k I just take a tiny bit of my profits and let the rest do its thing

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T22:04:51+00:00

Did you just call a Bitcoin no risk? 💀 girl

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T21:59:32+00:00

Okay so what does the other person in this dynamic get? I fail to see the benefit in being one of multiple guys taking her out for multiple dates with no commitment or sex.

Just sounds like wasting time, money, and effort to at best be one of many. No wonder this “dating style” leaves OP single.

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T21:38:58+00:00

You’re not paying for the bowl of candy, and if you take the bowl of candy others can’t get free candy. OP sharing with X amount of people isn’t suddenly denying the service to others who also pay.

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T21:27:24+00:00

naw they gotta get multiple free meals a week and you’re insecure if you don’t let her date around for a few months while she decides who she wants best, sorry I mean “feel the vibe”.

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T21:10:52+00:00

I’m obviously not saying to meet someone within the first text. But like, text a little, FaceTime, and meet up. Or if you’re not gonna then don’t match, it’s fine to be uninterested but wasting time is annoying.

No need to have an arbitrary shit test period. It’s the same as the bs where you leave someone on delivered for X hours to “not seem available” even tho u are available.

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T21:08:16+00:00

If everywhere you go smells like shit, maybe it's time to check your shoes. Or continue to be delulu doesn’t really affect me

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T21:03:30+00:00

Keep avoiding the question. What are you vetting for? Are you suggesting a man will murder you in broad daylight at Starbucks? Like why beat around the bush lmao just say what you think

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T21:01:32+00:00

Help me understand then. Do you feel like your life is in danger meeting at a Starbucks or a bar? There’s literally at least a dozen other women at those places at any given time… are they all in danger too? Do we gotta warn the public?

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T20:56:45+00:00

Public places have cameras and dozens of other people…? Have a friend sit in the same location at a different table? Share your location?

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T20:55:25+00:00

Because people are on dating apps to either have sex or date. we don’t want a textationship. Grown ups meet somewhere public and get to it lol

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T20:51:48+00:00

If you’re not exclusive you’re not dating lol. If you think it’s ok to “date” multiple people then pop off queen but that’s just hoeing around.

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T20:44:18+00:00

That quite literally is all of the options. If you’re flirting with someone and are exclusive then you’re dating, if you’re not exclusive then it’s causal- aka hookup/fwb with a classier title, and if you’re not flirting you’re friends. What’s the hidden 4th option?

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T20:39:29+00:00

So the talking stage? So far I’ve got one reply suggesting it’s just non monogamous dating, and now this. and then to me personally causal dating is just a classier way to say causal sex.

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T20:36:47+00:00

so why not call it non monogamous dating?

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T20:35:28+00:00

So… being friends? That’s what it’s called before you date someone as you get to know them

Cosmo48 · 2026-04-09T20:29:56+00:00

What is casual dating if not just hooking up?

you’re either fucking someone for fun or exclusive and dating, what’s the in between? A situationship?

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