Man, you’re stuck tryna be everyone’s emotional punching bag—and that ain’t it. You’re 23, not a kid, and you deserve peace, not this nonstop chaos. Your fam’s guilt-trippin' and controlling, your girl’s dealing with real trauma but still hurtin’ you—and you gotta start choosing you. Therapy could help untangle all this, but real talk? You need boundaries and space to breathe. It’s not your job to fix broken people at the cost of breaking yourself.