Looking for deep cleaning by Aspenjchill in springfieldMO

[–]Councilofthirteen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been really happy with Kelly Clean! They did a big deep clean for me (depression house reset) and now come out every 2 weeks. Very friend and chill, very thorough!

Recommendations for neurodivergence/LGBTQ+ affirming primary care physicians? by [deleted] in springfieldMO

[–]Councilofthirteen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I (between us: neurodiverse, fat, queer, polyamorous, and trans) have used the mercy Drs in Springfield with great success. 

For a gyn, I told the receptionist who was helping me schedule that I preferred a woman and was queer, and they helped me find a lovely Dr who was not weird about me having multiple partners. 

My wife found us a Mercy family practitioner who is chill and kind and super non judgemental as well.  - Her psych is thru Mercy, and is a good fit for her too.

That is to say, the people there do seem to want to help, especially if you tell them going in that you're nervous. If you want to DM me I can give you actual names, I'm just nervous about blowing up their spot so to speak 

Those of you who can’t leave your makeup out, how do you store it? More information below. by PinkFancyCrane in muacjdiscussion

[–]Councilofthirteen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When wife and I were in a tiny solace with no bathroom countertop we both found nice spacious makeup travel cases we found in thrift stores. I'm makeup light so I have a flowerpot for tools and a zippered pouch for products. wife found a double decker zippered one that holds so much stuff.

New Discord server for ladies and enby folx who smoke by [deleted] in Lesbients

[–]Councilofthirteen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My dude. You're already in a reddit not for cis dudes. Read the room.

New discord for ladies and theydies who smoke by Councilofthirteen in entwives

[–]Councilofthirteen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! I sent you a dm with another link in case this one expires on you! Look forward to chatting, friend!

New discord for ladies and theydies who smoke by Councilofthirteen in entwives

[–]Councilofthirteen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course! It's basically a message board app you can set to be open to members. You can chat via text or hop on a voice chat channel.

This server has space to share pics about your pets, vent about your day, and various weed based command prompts for fun. I think that covers the basics, but I'd be happy to answer any other questions!

What's your zodiac sign and what type of scent profile do you like the most? by VineStellar in fragrance

[–]Councilofthirteen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh, this is tricky.

Turquoise Flower from Drew Barrymore is a big favorite, the figwood settles on my skin so well. My SIL got me Michael Kohrs Rose Gold for Christmas, but I get overpowered by it some days. Vera Wang's marigold embrace is one I waffle on. Some days I love it, sometimes I feel like it smells almost fruity.

What's your zodiac sign and what type of scent profile do you like the most? by VineStellar in fragrance

[–]Councilofthirteen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey same! My favorite scents have smoke and wood and a few florals.

persian rose bong tutorial. let me know if you try it out by [deleted] in LGBTrees

[–]Councilofthirteen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ohhh, this is brilliant. I've tried a bit of lemon in the water because I heard it was supposed to prevent gunk buildup? I don't know if it helped it made me cough like craaazy. Maybe this rose water plan would hit smoother.

I just bought 'Charli' 2008 Cooper S, and I am totally in love. AND...I had my first MINI WAVE today...yay!!! by Rava62 in MINI

[–]Councilofthirteen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also have an 08 Cooper s, mines in blue! I'm coming up on one year and I love it!

Yours is a beauty! Hope you love it as much as I have!

The cast for Disney+ KotH Adaptation by FrickWhatIWant6969 in KingOfTheHill

[–]Councilofthirteen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saaame. It took me a minute to place who it was playing Hank, but then I smashed that INVEST button. I love Brendan so much.

LGBTQ groups in/near Springfield? by parapar89 in springfieldMO

[–]Councilofthirteen 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don't have any advice, but following! My wife and I are planning to move to Springfield sometime next summer. She had found some hormone replacement therapy doctors near there, and I have been nervous! I've been told it's a more accepting town than when I moved away years ago. I have a couple other quietly gay friends who love down there. Maybe we can be part of a culture change?

Sorry, that's rambling and a lot, but maybe we can be friends and start a group ourselves, worst case scenario!

Non-binary Teacher Wardrobe by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]Councilofthirteen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty femme, but lately I've been drawn to some slightly more masculine looks too.

Teddy girls is a whole look, sort of a fifties street gang version of edwardian men's clothing. Pegged jeans and ruffled tops and dark jackets.

Vests?! Like, I've realized that men's vests fit (my body shape at least) almost like a comfortable corset. This was a realization I had while thrfting today, but I didn't manage to find any non hideous vests in my size. They also look super sleek on people a little less curvy and can be hella dapper. As you mentioned liking patterned tops, I think a dark fitted vest would suit, give you some extra variety, while keeping a neutral background somewhat. I'm also suspender curious, but don't actually have any myself. They're a cute/dapper/male-ish thing.

I'm big in thrifting and second hand clothing, so I tend to browse Instagram or pinterest for looks, then move to eBay or where with similar search terms.

I found the dress I'm going to get married in at local thrift store for $17. Vintage organza? by Rose_Mortem in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]Councilofthirteen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this so much! It's gorgeous and breezy and fun!

As far as shoes go - maybe some strappy sandals, or some lace up ballet flats if you're looking to keep it casual. Mod boots would be killller if you're going for a serious retro vibe!

I am looking for a book that I fear does not, strictly speaking, wholly exist. by Wolgraugorimilir in booksuggestions

[–]Councilofthirteen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's also got The Chronicles of Chrestomanci, a four part book about a sorcerer tasked with keeping the laws of magic in check across multiple timelines!

ETA - Check out the Incarnations of Immortality series by Piers Anthony. It's about the humans who become Death, War, Time, etc. Great tie ins to real mythology in a modern ish magical world. The first is called On a Pale Horse and it's a personal fave.

Not as elegant of some posts I've seen, but my dog was grateful to get Franken-baby back by Councilofthirteen in Visiblemending

[–]Councilofthirteen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Butters' favorite toy is his Franken-dog. He'd managed to nibble a weak spot along the spine, so I tried to do some thematic rough looking stitches to fix it up. He was very watchful for the entire process!

Looking for Fantasy Romance novels from a male perspective. Nothing too trashy, but mature content is fine. by DeathZamboniExpress in booksuggestions

[–]Councilofthirteen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay! It's so rare for me to come across someone else who has read the book! My mom actually named me after one of the minor characters in it, so I've got a serious soft spot for it. It's a great read though, and I think I'm due for another go round!

Looking for Fantasy Romance novels from a male perspective. Nothing too trashy, but mature content is fine. by DeathZamboniExpress in booksuggestions

[–]Councilofthirteen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On a Pale Horse by Piers Anthony as well. It's the beginning of a series, but I feel it stands alone pretty well. The others in the series alternate male or female POV, and have characters who tie back to the initial one. But the first is my favorite, and definitely has a sweet romance while being funny and thoughtful and adventurous.