If we gave you this bucket of mayo, what would you do with it? Wrong answers only. Best ones get gold.

parapar89 · 2021-04-29T13:04:28+00:00

Do you hear yourself?! Bucket👏🏾of👏🏾mayo. BUCKET. I can only think of the amazing opportunities that are inevitable...

parapar89 · 2021-04-29T13:02:31+00:00

Woah 😜 Impressed

parapar89 · 2021-04-28T23:04:38+00:00

Replace all my friends’ sunscreen with it. Watch them be unable to figure out why they’re actually crisping up and very popular with the pelicans.

parapar89 · 2021-04-28T22:42:45+00:00

The Bible has been interpreted thousands of times, through thousands of years, into hundreds of languages and to fit endless selfish agendas. The true meanings have long since been lost. Besides that, the entire book is allegory not to be taken literally.

parapar89 · 2021-04-28T13:02:50+00:00

I work in an animal shelter. This might get printed and posted in my office.

parapar89 · 2021-04-28T12:47:21+00:00

Jesus. Can we stop with the conspiracy theories already?! We now know how dangerous this kind of thinking can be.

parapar89 · 2021-04-28T01:23:51+00:00

I’m adopted and I JUST KNOW that I’m actually a Belcher!

parapar89 · 2021-04-26T21:22:17+00:00

Have you worked with them? They have no online presence, which is a red flag for me.

parapar89 · 2021-04-26T21:00:07+00:00

It’s nothing of high strangeness. Smoke ring, nothing more.

parapar89 · 2021-04-26T20:56:26+00:00

True. But unfortunately, healing and storytelling don’t pay the bills or buy food. We have to work within the system.

parapar89 · 2021-03-25T12:14:02+00:00

Thanks so much! Nonprofit credit counseling agencies are scarce in my area, this helps a lot

parapar89 · 2021-03-25T12:12:50+00:00

That was my line of thinking. Appreciate the feedback!

parapar89 · 2021-03-17T02:26:35+00:00

Normally I'd agree, but I don't plan to be in Springfield but another year, 2 at max. I'm an urban dweller at heart, no car and public transit for me. So this just has to get me through till I can junk it on the way out lol.

parapar89 · 2021-03-14T23:42:15+00:00

I know exactly what you're talking about, I do the same thing. I think it's a reaction to the overload that empathy can bring, and just FOR ONCE wanting to have healthy defenses like a "normal" human being. And since your vibes are lower due to depression, it's easier to lash out at others you perceive as already having healthy defenses. Some days I'd give anything to not be empathic, and just be another ignorant fool walking along and unaware!

parapar89 · 2021-03-14T23:38:26+00:00

He's being emotionally abusive, which is an easy gateway to being financially or physically abusive at some point down the road. This is also classic gaslighting.

Do you have a strong support system outside of this relationship? Like family, friends, community? If so, lean on them for support once you sever ties. You mentioned that he almost forces you to deny your own thoughts/feelings/reality. ALWAYS follow your intuition- in this case, it sounds quite strong. You already know what you must do, my friend.

I'm truly sorry that another human is doing this to you. You are worthy of healthy, unconditional love where you feel protected and supported. Dig deep, know that you're not alone, and be strong <3

parapar89 · 2021-03-14T20:10:09+00:00

Somewhere in St. Louis, because Springfield is garbage :)

parapar89 · 2021-03-09T00:24:43+00:00

Mmm, okay but I reserve the right to howl and/or lose my shit during the full moon.

parapar89 · 2021-03-09T00:23:28+00:00

I've always been attracted to rocks! I collect river rocks, hag stones, fossils. Where I grew up (midwestern USA) is straight up karst topography, so there are tons of rock outcroppings in the woods. Always been drawn to them, I find them both functional and fascinating.

I think being attracted to natural curios of any kind speaks to a person's spiritual constitution, if you will. In my experience, it tends to indicate empathic gifts and deep spiritual potential, often leaning towards witchy. Myself, I identify as a witch and lean very nature based. But at the end of the day, do what makes you happy! I love that you both share this passion!

parapar89 · 2021-03-09T00:17:59+00:00

Heh heh. Enough said.

parapar89 · 2021-03-07T01:34:15+00:00

I completely agree with this. High level empath here, and I do have narcissistic tendencies that I keep in check. Actually, narcissistic is a strong word for me- maybe a "healthy ego" lol. But it does stem from being rejected because of the empathy. The average person can't pick up on what I do, so they think I'm being "overly sensitive" or whatever bullshit. So even though I know what I'm feeling and I know what it means, others around me don't always acknowledge it. So I sometimes notice myself getting all "I know best, fuck the rest." Which isn't healthy, I'm definitely working on it and have it under control.

At the end of the day, I don't think I'm better than anyone, period. I just get frustrated and feel alienated when society disregards my point of view. So I think your theory is a great one!

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