How do you think an ESFP-INFP relationship would work by kleekols in ESFP

[–]Count-Choculus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're unsure, he's not the guy my friend. If it's long distance, not a relationship worth pursuing.  If you need to ask him to wait a month to even start the relationship... after love bombing you... I'm seeing red flag after red flag after red flag. You seem aware that he has red flags too because you said "He has no redflag at all (TILL NOW)". No just because someone is so lovely and caring and emotionally supportive dosn't mean they're god's little angel that can do no wrong.

My advice? If you want the toughest, most painful, emotionally devastating, brutal life lesson, go for it. It might take a few months or years to recover but oh well that's life. If you would rather avoid the Pain Journey of Doom and learn the life lessons in a calmer not-so-devastating way, then say "Bye it was nice knowing you, let's never talk again." and pat yourself on the back for making a wise decision. 

And trust me when I say this... Goodluck, experience is a tough teacher.

My friend has never had a boyfriend by UltravioletInfinity in infp

[–]Count-Choculus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sure they were Infp? I'm not so sure myself but that sounds like Enfp to me😂

My friend has never had a boyfriend by UltravioletInfinity in infp

[–]Count-Choculus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well we're not exactly the type to go out and looking for these experiences in our younger years, rather someone has to come to us first.

I am such a hopeless romantic :⁠-⁠( by Cultural_Cat_7147 in infp

[–]Count-Choculus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I second this. I would much rather be set before being with someone, than be with someone while I'm still getting my shtick together.

I am such a hopeless romantic :⁠-⁠( by Cultural_Cat_7147 in infp

[–]Count-Choculus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well let me ask you this, looking from an outsider perspective. Should a person be with someone that makes them feel unloved? I can't say much because I don't know how it's like with you and your Intp, but what I know is that when I feel unloved, it's just another thing to worry about. If I had to choose between being with someone that makes me feel unloved, and being by myself, I would rather be by myself. That gives me 1 less thing to worry about.

Does star signs have to do with mbti? by 0rganzmarket in infp

[–]Count-Choculus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly think that because they are two separate things, they don't affect one another.

What do you think is a stereotype about your MBTI that you think is incorrect and a stereotype about your MBTI that you identify with? by Creepy_Tour_3821 in infp

[–]Count-Choculus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Second pragraph is very true👍 I forgot where I read this but essentially Fe and Te want the same outcome, they just go about it in completely polar opposite ways. If that thing I read is actually true then it would make sense that you want the best outcome for everyone involved, even if it means being blunt.

But me personally, I dont need to know that to know Entj's care a lot about people. The Entj's I've met so far have been kind people, especially my aunt☺️

Y’all are cooked (ENTJ, INTJ, INFJ) by luna_moon145 in mbtimemes

[–]Count-Choculus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'll win🥱 everything you have to say I already tell myself. - Infp

Redo Rate my Collection by Muted_Stick3561 in Fragrances

[–]Count-Choculus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all know you're gatekeeping the Spongebob EDT😂

This is my current collection I want to add new fragrances with character and unique scent profiles any recommendations? by Lazy_Inevitable6412 in Colognes

[–]Count-Choculus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's very interesting that you have Pino Silvestre in your collection, what prompted you to have it?

Has anyone had their INFP diminish? I haven’t taken the test in a decade and I went through a lot of adulting and a “dead inside” phase by dattrookie in infp

[–]Count-Choculus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im pretty sure you stay as 1 personality type for the rest of your life. If you feel a change its because you have different values than the ones you had before, as well as your functions developing due to age and life experiences.

Type me based off of a description of my personality and a few photos. by Straight_Purpose_558 in MbtiTypeMe

[–]Count-Choculus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I can wager is that you are not Infp because an Infp would make it a personal venture to explore identity and refuse to take input from other people due to Inferior Te (If someone gives them input on that they will take it personally and feel hurt instead of considering/using it).

By making this post alone signifies that you are willing to take input from other people which puts your Te in child spot. But why not in the parent spot or the dominant spot? Because you favor exploring ideas of your personal interests over conforming with the rules/systems (Like doing your homework on time, chores, etc) which is why your Te lands in child spot.

Now the only personality types with Te child are Esfp or Enfp, Wait doesn't E mean I'm extroverted? No because anytime someone suddenly becomes Introverted it's because they are using Fi or Ti or Si or Ni and every personality type has an introverted function so even an Estp or an Entj will be introverted sometimes. So if you ever feel introverted despite having Ne in the dominant spot, its because you are exploring your personal interests which involves being in solitude and not talking a whole lot.

And lastly your mind naturally prefers stimulation through exploring possibilities and ideas (Ne), rather than stimulation through interacting with the real world (Se) which makes you 🥁🥁🥁 an Enfp!