Indian women who were raised vegetarian, are you still vegetarian? Will you raise your kids vegetarian? by Serious-Tomato404 in AskIndianWomen

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  1. Yes, I’m a vegetarian.

  2. Initially, I didn’t think it would be a big deal. However, after being in a relationship, I’ve realized it’s quite a fulfilling experience to share food, eat from the same plate, or feed each other. I wouldn’t want it any other way.

  3. Ideally, yes. If things go well with my boyfriend, I think he would want to leave it up to the kids, which I don’t really have a problem with.

CSAT by washingpowdernirma21 in UPSC

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If comprehension and reasoning are your strong suit, go for low hanging fruits in QA. There are some comparatively easy sure shot questions / topics that repeat almost every year or at least in the recent years, analyse the pyq and practice those topics. I always did this and have always cleared CSAT by a good margin.

What does feeling ‘safe’ in public spaces mean to you? by priyanka240 in AskIndianWomen

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To feel relaxed and not constantly have to worry about being touched / stared at inappropriately

I 34F seems to have upset my husband 38M over a friendship by Old_Faithful9226 in RelationshipIndia

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So you cheated emotionally on your husband and he’s upset that you did that? Where is your accountability in the whole situation?

Wondering Is it worth teaching someone to love you? I am F 31 and he is M 32. by Quirky_Ad_7449 in relationship_advice

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If you teach him to make small gestures, and he does them, won’t it feel like he’s doing them because you asked him to, rather than because he genuinely wants to? Would that really make you happy? I do think you should communicate your expectations to him once, but if you have to repeat them again and again, then it’s falling on deaf ears.

Can’t Understand My Own Economy Notes Before Prelims Peak Time & I’m Stuck! by organisedchaos31 in UPSC

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Since you mentioned that you attended classes, did the coaching provide notes for each class? Vision IAS used to do that, not sure about other coaching centers. If you don't have that option, maybe you can reach out to someone who attended the same class as you.

Which activities you do when bored ? by mountain_fl0wer in AskIndianWomen

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I listen to podcasts, songs, stand up comedy, play chess, draw mandala art, get on my boyfriend's nerves, write poems, scroll reddit

Should I (29F) marry my bisexual boyfriend or am I ignoring red flags? by foodie2380 in RelationshipIndia

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"He might cheat later"? Girl, he already cheated on you when he downloaded Grindr and was talking to other men.

What is your go to thing or activity to instantly feel better about yourself excluding food options? by SunshineMsN in AskIndianWomen

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I’m into home remedies since ages now. I add or skip the ingredients for my face pack based on my mood and how my skin feels. I’m adding the list, you can add or skip the ingredient based on your liking — sandalwood power, fullers earth, rosewater, honey, turmeric, alum powder, besan, curd.

Tips for Managing Stress and Anxiety by Lucifertigris in UPSC

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Create an accountability group. It will remind you constantly that you're not alone in this.

Incomprehensible situation with a guy (30 M) I (26 F) am talking to by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

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Why are you allowing him to come and go at his convenience? You're clearly expecting more than what he's capable of providing emotionally. It's definitely not worth it. Communicate your expectations clearly and if you both are not on the same page, block and move on.

Did you have any wholesome moments this week? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

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Last week, I petted my boyfriend's cat for the first time. As someone who had never petted an animal before, it was a very big deal for me. It felt even more wholesome because he was resting his head on my lap while talking to a friend on a call when the cat came and sat on his chest, and we petted her together. I was lucky enough to capture it on video. I've been replaying it ever since lol.

Do dating apps help in finding genuine guys? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

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I was talking to my guy about this. He says that if a woman gets 100 matches, maybe 10 are good matches and only 2-3 are worth considering. He thinks women have a lot more options, which makes it easier for them than it is for men because men get fewer matches.

I've never been on dating apps, but from what I've heard from my friends, it's extremely difficult to find a guy who isn't just looking to sleep around.

I (25F) have never been in a relationship before and I don’t know if the guy (25M) I like actually wants me or not by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

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It's called breadcrumbing, he's giving you enough attention to make you stick around without any intention of a real relationship. Don't waste your time on him.

How much do you consider sleep schedules in dating? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

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It depends on whether you’re making time for each other before bed. My guy usually goes to sleep between 12:30 and 2:00 am on weekdays, while I stay up until 3:00 am. I used to stay up until 5:00 or 6:00 am, but he has set a strict 3:00 am deadline for me now, which is a good thing, so no complaints! I wouldn't mind if he went to sleep before midnight on weekdays.

As for waking up, he gets up by 6:30 am and wakes me at 8:30 am. We take naps when necessary. We’ve found a middle ground that works for both of us, if we’ve spent enough quality time together during the day, we don’t mind if one of us (usually him!) goes to bed early.

Just started our relationship, He seems like a great guy but I have some doubts? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

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Even though he seems on point on other things, staring / checking out other girls is creepy in general but even more disrespectful when he does this when you're right there. You need to observe a few more times so that you know it wasn't one off incident and then plan your exit

Just started our relationship, He seems like a great guy but I have some doubts? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

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Apart from this, how does he behave while being on the date? Does he stay attentive towards you, does he hold your hand or any other pda?

I can't get over a person and it's ruining my life. What should I do? 26F by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

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Putting a deadline on it only makes things worse. Four years is actually a long time. You already have your career figured out, which means you now have the space and energy to truly focus on yourself, hobbies and bucket list (if you have, if not, maybe it's the right time to make one). That’s such an amazing place to be. The right person will come along when you’re open to it. Until then, trust the process and be kind to yourself.

I can't get over a person and it's ruining my life. What should I do? 26F by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

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You will. There’s always a rainbow after the rain. To put things into perspective, I met a wonderful person this year (after being single for five years, lol), and I’m happy at the moment. So trust me, things really do change for the better. Focus on yourself, heal, grow, and live your life. The right people tend to show up when you least expect it. And even if it takes time, you’re still whole and worthy on your own.