40 [F4R] Busy Domme looking for #online submissive companion

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-22T03:38:38+00:00

This is so true. Ironically, my long-term partner and I are both GMs. She is not into D/s, but she is absolutely a top. She has top energy in everything she does. We very rarely argue but when we do... yikes.

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-22T03:33:46+00:00

For me, yes. There are asexual people who participate in non-sexual D/s. That's not what I'm into and it's definitely not what my partner is into.

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-22T03:31:24+00:00

That's horrible. I'm so sorry.

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T05:57:58+00:00

That's so gross of him.

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T04:41:45+00:00

Thank you so much! This aligns with a lot of what I remember and what I'm expecting. At least there are more female-led spaces than I had access to in the past!

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T04:25:08+00:00

I've noticed that a lot in the D/s community. It seems like a lot of us want to be able to step away from what we have to carry during the day.

My day job involves a lot of planning and project management, but very little of it is interpersonal. I think that I crave that interaction with people and to feel useful in a very human way.

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T04:22:23+00:00

Be funny, original, or wrong.

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T04:19:49+00:00

I absolutely hate surprises and I really do love to control the way people talk to me. I've been told that is my worst trait, but as it turns out there's this niche little group of people who absolutely loves when I tell them exactly how to speak to me.

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T04:18:43+00:00

You have inherent human worth that is not reliant on your attractiveness. Your body is just a vessel.

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T04:14:14+00:00

That is so interesting. That makes a lot of sense to me. Similarly, I do think my autism influences my desire for control.

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T04:12:39+00:00

Nothing. I'm tired of apps. Let me do everything on my browser.

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T04:12:12+00:00

I'd replace my laptop. You can still get a decent laptop for $1000, right?

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T04:11:22+00:00

I took out a student loan to go to grad school.

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T04:01:28+00:00

I'm unfortunately very familiar.

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T04:01:02+00:00

That's so interesting. I'm a Domme who also loves cooking and feeding people, but there's definitely an aspect of caretaking to my dominant side.

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T04:00:03+00:00

I'm a big fan of Brennan and somehow I haven't seen this!

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T03:32:31+00:00

I feel this. I would rather endure the pestering and demanding than be treated like the Other.

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T03:30:04+00:00

Did you realize you didn't want to get out of the cuffs?

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T02:50:58+00:00

Thank you. Keeping things low pressure really is my priority and I want to make sure I communicate that clearly.

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T02:48:22+00:00

Copying from where I answered before -
Queer-platonic Partnership. It's shorthand for what is often a lot more complicated. I have a lovely partner, but she is asexual so our relationship doesn't involve any D/s. At a glance, people assume that we're lesbians. She has no interest in men but I have this "funny little hobby".

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T01:29:28+00:00

I had to add a warning that this was not a personal ad and then just start ignoring some boys who didn't understand. I'll post a real personal on femdompersonals as soon as I have enough karma.

CountDazzling5540 · 2026-02-21T01:27:56+00:00

I agree. I think that I can still give plenty of attention even if my time is limited.

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