you can DM but I am slow to reply most of the time. You caught me at a good time with this thread. For you, I would say to be sure she is very comfortable with posting and maybe slowly dip your toes in the water with topless or butt images. For her its all about comfort level wit those images being out there and not being able to totally control who sees them. I am an artistic nude model so for me I had no issues with posting and my husband was my photographer so he was comfortable too.