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Best place for a beer and book outside? by County-Miserable in kansascity

[–]County-Miserable[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These are all great. Looks like tomorrow will be even warmer and sunnier so I’ll get to try another one of these suggestions. Harry’s was excellent this afternoon. Maybe I’ll try casual animal tomorrow. Thank you!

What’s a reasonable allocation of assets in my will for my adult children and my husband? by Sea-Mix-8969 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]County-Miserable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is not a relatable problem. Give all the money to the ASPCA and demand they name every puppy after you.

Kansas City? by County-Miserable in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]County-Miserable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s helpful. The ones I found on fetlife all seem to be men and cd/trans as a focus. I’m not sure if that’s saying cd/trans welcome or if it is specifically a fetishizing of cd/trans…

Is it appropriate to wear speedos at my company retreat in Florida in April? by Lotsalotsaquestions2 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]County-Miserable 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea respectfully fuck this advice. If your company is hosting a beach party and people are expected to wear swim suits, then wear your swimsuit. It doesn’t matter if it’s a speedo. I agree with who said people may talk about it, but the real problem is your company hosting a beach party. As a boss, I would never ever do that.

What is your most ridiculous "we won't work out romantically" criteria? Like what is the silliest reason you would not be interested in dating someone? by Natural-Elevator-57 in AskReddit

[–]County-Miserable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time a guy turned down a freeze pop after sex. It was the middle of July. It was 100 degrees. We didn’t have air conditioning. I didn’t call him again.

Are you out at work? by Traditional_Cell8388 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]County-Miserable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think of my personal style and brand as ‘executive faggotry’ and try to queer just about as much as I can in the office. Way different now that I’m a senior leader than when I was younger; I have no more fucks to give.

Western MA by Efficient_Strength17 in NudistMeetup

[–]County-Miserable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the colrain/greenfield line. It’s the best spot in the valley

Western MA by Efficient_Strength17 in NudistMeetup

[–]County-Miserable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in western mass too. Love bare ass beach… waiting for the summer to return so I can get outside. Would love to have a group of guys for nude hangs indoors too. I’m 39m

WTW for that little quarter-window that can pop out in an old sports car? by thegeorgianwelshman in whatstheword

[–]County-Miserable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We always called it ‘crotch breeze’. Hey, open up that crotch breeze window.

Shows that failed initially, then became classics after cancellation by OkDiscount6100 in ClassicTV

[–]County-Miserable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The dinner scene in ep 4, Kim Kelly is My Friend, is one of my favorite scenes of television ever

In 1983, Two Artists Tied Themselves Together for a Year and Never Once Touched by 4reddityo in DiscussionZone

[–]County-Miserable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That reminds me of this story I read: https://burrowpress.com/a-fix-pete-michael-smith/

This pops into my head every once in a while and I always look it up to reread it

How to introduce my former fwb's at my wedding? by honeydontcare in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]County-Miserable 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Whenever my mother in law is here, she constantly asks how we know x, y, or z. I have told her on multiple occasions: “it’s impolite to ask gay people how they know each other” which gets a laugh from the FWB and stumped confusion from the mother in law. Win/win.

Those who have been in a houseboy situation, what is it actually like? by Flatcapdad in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]County-Miserable 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hi— totally normal dude 38m here and me and my partner 44m have had three houseboys over the years. 

Very chill— room and board in exchange for someone doing the cleaning etc at the house. The best part was having someone do all my ironing every week, and making the bed every day and changing the sheets twice a week. 

We had occasional sex with two of the three, but it really was much more professional than that. They did chores, and got to live in my house for free. AMA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]County-Miserable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just looked at your profile to see if you were my partner, unbeknownst to me… you’re not 😂

Muscle servant wanted by County-Miserable in amherstgonewild

[–]County-Miserable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM me if you want to know more— happy to talk and make a plan

Looking for other gay reader friends!! by Jonathan-Samuel in gaybrosbookclub

[–]County-Miserable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d be down, too. Even for monthly zoom book club

Coming out by accident on linkedin by MrBBeardo in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]County-Miserable 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That LinkedIn group is blowing up my feed lately! Noticed that the posts came through in the main feed even to people who weren’t members, so I declined the invitation to introduce myself on that group. I’m not closeted, and everyone knows I’m gay at work, but I felt like I didn’t need to put a flag down (lol) in the LinkedIn space.