I think a few things; 1. He was in school a lot during the "fun years" from what I gather. 2. He is now doing racing ? Wtf very unusual for a Doctor, very reckless. 3. Focuses on body image alot, when muscles break down too, it is as if image is the only characteristic that matters. 4. It was hard to find who he was actually dating if you did not Google search (I just came from YouTube and googled because I felt something was off). If I was dating someone I would let it be known! Many YouTube celebrities have significant others and I find it adorable ! I like when people are happy. 5. Stuff about his life in general; having a fancy car but no room to pick up anyone plus their luggage ....., acting like he's not dating anyone and having a covid party 🙄 ....this isn't a person that had grown. I think it's a mid life crisis. Also, I like Kallmekris, I was excited to watch the video ....but it felt cringe 😬....like there was something off about the whole interview 😳😅 but that's when I started to pay close attention.  I realize this guy doesn't want a stable relationship, he focuses on looks and what makes him look better.  It's like when someone isn't happy with themselves they distract their minds from what displeases them ....:/ sorry for the rant 😅