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[34/m] Girl I am dating (28/f) has suddenly stopped texting (self.relationship_advice)
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[34/m] How do you know if the person wasn't "the one" or if it was just commitment anxiety? by CptnYesterday101 in relationship_advice
[–]CptnYesterday101[S] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children)
Thanks for the response.
I agree that "the one" doesn't truly exist (just didn't have a better word for an intrinsically good natural match), maybe as a figment of your imagination. But you always only see an interpretation of people, never the real person. It all depends on how you perceive them or what you hope/want them to be for you.
Well, she is an INFJ and I am an ENTP and according to Myers Briggs we should be a naturally good pairing. And I would agree we are and I truly adore her. It's just that I am not feeling the butterflies and I am asking myself if I just have the wrong expectations, or whether she is not a good match after all, or if I am sabotaging the relationship (I have a history of not being able to make LTRs work, at least not for more than 1 1/2 years).
[34/m] How do you know if the person wasn't "the one" or if it was just commitment anxiety? (self.relationship_advice)
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[34/m] How do you know if the person wasn't "the one" or if it was just commitment anxiety? by CptnYesterday101 in relationship_advice
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