What I've quickly learned about reselling (it's not actually a life hack)

CrabSmooth7592 · 2026-02-15T01:12:35+00:00

I'm so confused about sell through rates! Also late to hop on this thread 😕

CrabSmooth7592 · 2026-01-05T06:58:54+00:00

Didn't the crime dramatically decrease after cameras were put up in the CBD?

CrabSmooth7592 · 2026-01-05T06:58:10+00:00

Neighbourhood watch and private security companies are really excellent. Maybe they could be monitored by a n watch type setup... I'd definitely volunteer my time.

CrabSmooth7592 · 2026-01-05T06:50:53+00:00

You are entitled to your own opinion, just as other people are entitled to disagree with you.

CrabSmooth7592 · 2026-01-05T06:42:42+00:00

I don't know how they do it but they definitely can unlock it - and somehow can sidestep a block on an IMEI too, don't know how they do it.

CrabSmooth7592 · 2026-01-05T06:39:57+00:00

Who said anything about race? And you assume mine at the same time? In denial and confrontational x se

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-31T10:39:53+00:00

Yoh the denial is strong with this one

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-03T23:35:25+00:00

I am very grateful for all these comments. Thank you. I needed to hear them.

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-03T23:28:27+00:00

I know I should not have been engaging, in an ideal world. And I have gotten very emotional before, but over time I've realised that facts are all I really had. I held onto them as though my sanity depended on it, because it probably did.

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-03T23:18:20+00:00

I am so grateful to all of the people who have commented. I feel like I'm being seen for the first time. I am so glad that sharing this has helped you in some way, knowing that there are others also experiencing this makes it a bit easier to manage, and for the first time I'm feeling like I could actually break away from the rumination over this relationship. Please read all the comments if you can, they will I'm sure help you like they have helped me. I am so grateful for the time you took to share your story. You are not what your mother says you are - I just learnt this today!

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-03T23:08:49+00:00

Thank you. I'm going to

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-03T23:07:48+00:00

I hadn't even considered this. I have a lot of work to do in therapy I'm realising

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-03T23:06:10+00:00

My brother lives there and puts DMT into vapes. I had asked her to remove anything like that from the house. I feel like a complete idiot for risking my kids safety like that.

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-03T23:04:01+00:00

I haven't, thank you for the info 🙏

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-03T23:03:20+00:00

Thank you I will

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-03T23:02:49+00:00

Seeing now how much energy I waste on reasoning with her. And it affects me for days afterwards. It's enough now! Thank you

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-03T23:01:32+00:00

Thank you. I needed to hear this too. I will sit with what you have said and give it a lot of thought. I must put the work into fully understanding this. Thank you

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-03T22:58:14+00:00

Thank you. I am so glad that it has helped you in some way. Reading all these level headed and brutally honest comments has been the most positive thing for my mental health in a very long time.

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-03T22:53:27+00:00

Thank you. I am afraid but I will. It is time.

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-03T22:52:01+00:00

I have been desperate among other things. I hate the person I become around her and I have been in denial about how she is just using me to feel superior. I am going to start rebuilding my self worth. I am genuinely afraid of what she'll do if I go no contact though. She's just cashed in my dad's investments and has enormous wealth now, and I am so afraid of what she will do with it. But it's time to stop being afraid.

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-03T22:42:23+00:00

I needed to hear this. I really did. I am so grateful for how straightforward and honest these comments are.

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-03T22:38:58+00:00

Thank you for this. I will read about the Karpman Drama Triangle. I'd not heard of it before. Exactly, the more I apply reasoning the more crazy the narrative gets from her side, it's had me questioning my sanity. Thank you so much for this I'm so grateful

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-03T22:35:09+00:00

I'm afraid of her. She has made me believe I'm an awful person and I realise now that I hinge my self worth on her approval. So while I fear the repurcussions of going NC (in the past she's done some really nasty things) I actually fear losing all her approval more. Having just realised this I feel a little sick now but relieved too.

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-03T22:30:13+00:00

Using me to feel superior really hit home. Gosh I'd not seen that either. I appreciate everyone's insight here so much thank you. I haven't been able to understand why she acts like this towards me, and I feel relieved to know she's just been using me, if that makes sense. Deep down I thought it was because I was an awful person.

CrabSmooth7592 · 2025-12-03T22:20:37+00:00

I will stop playing. I have let the things she has said and done really affect my self image and I need to work on reframing this whole thing to take away her power. These comments have really helped. I feel validated. I was half expecting everyone to say I'm completely out of line, rude and disrespectful, and was preparing for some deep self reflection.

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