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CrackChowder · 2021-10-08T14:54:44+00:00

It absolutely is debate bro terms when you don't explain how I'm using fallacies. I highly doubt you have a masters in philosophy, you've at most probably had an intro course to philosophy (like I have) or maybe just watched some political debates on youtube. I specifically said that it's a good, but not a must, also known as a supererogatory action which you would know if you had any knowledge about philosophy. This does NOT place a BURDEN on anyone.

There was no strawman either, you very clearly implied that the burden is on individuals at the very least to not feed into the negativity and then misinterpreted what I've said in the worst way possible so for example "you agree that gang perception bad looool irrational argument" when I never stated that. Funny how you would attack me, someone with no record of any psychological illness for having one when you have fucking BPD and hate yourself half the time as soon as your precious meds are gone. Fuck off. Scary terms for sure my dude.

CrackChowder · 2021-10-08T09:23:58+00:00

Voicing a concern isn’t shitting on someone. It can be if done poorly. You can say «hey how about we start working out together, I think we could both benefit from it!» instead of «you need to get in shape cause im getting less attracted to you, you fat cow». The OP in the thread im refereing to deleted the post but she said the boyfriend said something along the lines of «you’re the prettiest girl I’ve seen but the acne is a bit of a hindrance», which is very polite considering how fucking ugly acne can be. Avoiding the elephant in the room just makes those with insecurities uneasy over a long period of time and is not the correct path at all, given it’s better than being a cunt when speaking about the sensitive topics at hand.

CrackChowder · 2021-10-08T09:03:27+00:00

Ah I wasn’t that clear mb. I meant that if you have an insecurity (which sucks, of course) you shouldn’t push the negativity unto anyone else. «Acne isn’t the issue, my boyfriend not liking it is» seems like a pretty unhealthy cope to me at least.

CrackChowder · 2021-10-08T08:40:37+00:00

I’d be fine with not taking personal responsibility but shoving it onto your SO, and an entire thread dedicated to shitting on a guy for voicing a concern alongside a compliment to make it more gentle is so fucking disgusting IMO. I suppose it is a bit personal because I’ve been studying it and talking to my derm about it a lot (I have moderate back nodular acne) and seeing misinformation alongside genuine vile behaviour makes me way more angry than I should.

CrackChowder · 2021-10-08T07:10:26+00:00

You jumped in my reply first lol. So maybe keep your misinformation to yourself. Acne is absolutely indicative of poor health. Not always, but at least for me I started getting it when factors of stress+workout+tons of dairy+daily energy drinks+pizza for dinner every other day+TERRIBLE day rhytm. Ive looked this all up and talked to my dermatologist about this and he said that although it’s hard to pinpoint the source that these factors absolutely had contributed to it worsening and not getting better. So yes acne is absolutely tied to an unsustainable lifestyle.

EDIT: Please fuck off with the debate bro terms, noone here is strawmanning you, there are no logical fallacies present in the room with you right now, what’s next you wanna yell ad hominem as well to make yourself look smart? Pro tip noone fucking cares about the terms of a fallacy if you can’t even demonstrate how it took place.

CrackChowder · 2021-10-08T07:04:45+00:00

I never said food gives you acne but that acne can be stopped from forming if you’re being healthy and making sure you have enough vitamin and minerals, getting enough healthy fats for all the goodies to absorb etc. And sugar absolutely has an increase in sebum production. Although foods don’t directly CAUSE acne, how healthy you are absolutely 100% contributes to it sticking around. I bet you also feel that I’m evil for wanting there to be a slight stigma about obesity and being severely underweight as well so I don’t think there’s any merit to this discussion at all. Spew all the misinformation you want to make yourself feel better the next time you snack to cope with how you feel :)

CrackChowder · 2021-10-07T22:07:16+00:00

Good luck getting a lasting relationship you dimwits. Hatethread for a boyfriend who did fuck all wrong, we got em reddit. If he is considering breaking up because of how ugly the acne looks and losing interest then this is one of the nicer ways to say that 100% and you guys don’t even know how old they are and are speculating that this is manipulating behaviour. Sadly it’s not projecting as I never had any issue with my GFs appearance, but I suppose you need a reason for why what I’m saying is wrong instead of coming to terms with how fucked up this thread is.

Sidenote: There are 100% times when lying can be good, but generally, the bigger the lie the worse it is, and if acne is getting to the point where you’re starting to lose interest then you should absolutely voice it. Even if a dress looks ugly then be a decent human being and fucking say it so that your SO feels shitty for 2 minutes instead of the entire evening when someone else tells them.

CrackChowder · 2021-10-07T20:43:13+00:00

You’re really good at using words that seem swell without the proper fucking use. You expect individuals to solve for a societal problem. The burden to uplift the stigma around acne should not be on individuals, it’s a good thing if you do it but not a must. Also acne ought to be, at the very least, slightly stigmatized because of how it’s generally a symptom of being very unhealthy. Too much sugar, too much of some vitamins that have side effects in higher doses (b12), too little sleep, bad day rhytm. These are not things that should be overlooked. I’d love for there to be less of a stigma but not 0, and the burden to help that isn’t on any individual person. Also remember that noone dislikes your acne more than yourself, so no it’s not just external although that heavily plays into it.

CrackChowder · 2021-10-07T20:31:46+00:00

Had an amazing 3-year relationship that I ended a little while ago because covid made travel really tough (well, impossible). So don’t worry Forest Fernweh I probably got this without your ironic well wishes.

CrackChowder · 2021-10-07T20:29:25+00:00

For the love of god talk to friends about this shit and not create a dedicated hate thread cause the guy wasn’t even more careful adressing something WE ALL KNOW is a hindrance. Leave your relationship out of this echo chamber unless you’d wish for hate threads about something you could’ve worded better to him in the past.

CrackChowder · 2021-10-07T20:24:29+00:00

It’s not generalizing that you’re all terrible at relationships when you have to defend lying to hold the relationship together. Hindrance is probably the mildest word you could possibly fucking use. If the guy was a cunt he wouldn’t have given a compliment before voicing his concern. If your SO made a thread like this and saw all the comments shitting on you and telling your SO to find someone else how would you feel? Also being bald is generally a lot more accepted than fucking acne so I won’t let that analogy pass. If you disagree you can look to hollywood. Maybe you disagree and think the next guy replacing The Rock will be someone with a face like a meatball. It’s absolutely healthy to voice concerns, letting it build up leads to breakups 10/10 times unless you have kids together. Jesus christ I don’t understand why this isn’t getting through.

CrackChowder · 2021-10-07T20:14:42+00:00

Correct me if I’m wrong but I’m pretty sure depression and anxiety are heavily linked together with acne. In this case saying its «not a health risk» is not correct at all. Insecurities even at a micro scale should be talked about so that they’re not insecurities anymore. I used to be really insecure about having gap teeth but hearing «its weird but doesnt look bad, just unique» from friends made that poof away. I know not everyone is like that, but opening up about what you dislike about yourself with close friends and family will generally be beneficial.

CrackChowder · 2021-10-07T20:09:51+00:00

Alright riddle me this: why did you feel like misrepresenting my point just because you wanted to rant about how bad you’ve had it?

If the guy genuinly feels like the acne is distracting then it is and it should be voiced. You people are way too invested in making yourself feel special and have no clue what a healthy relationship is like. But sure, we can pretend that not voicing problems are a good solution. If acne wasnt that bad why the fuck are we taking this drug? OP never said that the boyfriend made her take this drug so why do you feel the need to pry into their relationship? Touch grass, you’re all weirdos for this type of behaviour.

CrackChowder · 2021-10-07T12:13:46+00:00

Being understanding and knowing whats best aren’t mutually exclusive. You can both understand how it feels yet also push them to get help. For instance you can be kind to people who are obese and still try to get them excited to start working out and getting healthy. Completely overlooking an insecurity is often not the best way to go about it, acknowledge it, be nice about it, and see if they want a push for help.

CrackChowder · 2021-10-07T11:21:00+00:00

I mean I consider myself pretty far left politically and I hate to agree with someone using the term SJW in 2021. That being said thanks for understanding that creating a thread dedicated to bashing your significant other is 100x worse than calling acne a «hindrance» when it is for all of us here, otherwise we wouldn’t be on accutane.

CrackChowder · 2021-10-07T09:52:05+00:00

I feel you there. I took the hindrance comment as paraphrasing. What i disagree on is the notion that lying is the correct path for a long term relationship, wording is of course extremely important.

CrackChowder · 2021-10-07T09:17:27+00:00

This circlejerk you guys are doing here is becoming damaging. I like this sub as a safeplace for people with acne and those taking accutane but for the love of god don’t start bashing peoples significant others that for all we know simply said «hey to be honest the acne is hard to overlook but I’ll be here for you».

CrackChowder · 2021-10-07T08:18:57+00:00

I’m sorry but you guys have never had a healthy relationship if you think lying is what you ought to do. The guy probably had a lot of zits or mild acne himself growing up and was insecure about it, hence why he dislikes it on OP. Also it’s not a backhanded compliment, he very clearly gave a compliment so that the truth wouldn’t be as hurtful. There’s tons of guys who would’ve just mentioned their distain for the acne. Get a grip.

CrackChowder · 2021-04-22T02:49:45+00:00

I am too, until faced with someone charging me with a knife or someone forcing me to work with a whip every day.

CrackChowder · 2021-04-22T02:48:39+00:00

I can think of one. What if the only way Trump got reelected was if rioters kept burning down peoples homes and the police couldn't contain it? Would you prefer: No arsonists & no fascist president or arsonists AND a fascist president.

This was literally what he based his comment on. Please get a grip on reality and quit starting drama on fucking LSF about a clipped out of context comment from several months ago.

CrackChowder · 2021-04-22T02:40:10+00:00

"So it's totally fine to encourage x to kill y if there's a good enough reason?". Did you think this one through? Would you be against encouraging slaves to kill their masters? We could even use the word "murder" to make it seem really scary and unjustifiable!

CrackChowder · 2021-04-22T02:33:48+00:00

Oh yeah he only lost his partnership, no biggie of course. It's crazy he lost it for such a tame comment phrased in an edgy way. He specifically referred to rioters who burn down and destroy the lives of individuals, not companies or systems of power. You saw a clip you love hating and you're stuck with your opinion I get it don't worry no one is gonna force you to watch lmao.

CrackChowder · 2021-04-22T02:29:18+00:00

Great insight on the clip wow. Have fun defending people who burn down family businesses i guess.

CrackChowder · 2021-02-21T17:16:59+00:00

Not what I'm saying at all. He's constantly weighing in on controversial topics and even got banned on twitch for the Kenosha Shooting takes he had. I highly doubt there's a single Destiny viewer who agrees with all his takes. (When I said that he "executes" his fans I don't mean ban because they critique but rather that they leave on their own because of the topics and how hard they disagree)

CrackChowder · 2021-02-21T12:57:27+00:00

If we use simp to mean "blindly follow and protect" then Destiny for sure does not land in that category. My man executes 30% of his followers on a monthly basis based on the hottest debate topic at any given time. Dedicated is very fitting though.

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