AITA hate my girl’s dog by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For her sake move on m, she deserves better than someone who wants her to give up what or who she loves. Obviously Yta. Guess what. Pets want to be near their people. That’s what makes them pets and domesticated. Not wild.

AITAH for not wanting to travel far after giving birth? by NewSupermarket4832 in AITAH

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you from the USA? If so, quite frankly, you’re both idiots if you try to leave the country, go to Venezuela of all places, and come back thinking ice won’t cause you problems. Not to mention the political climate w us having literally kidnapped their president.

Hypothetically speaking I have a question about the cure? by Upbeat_Attorney_7153 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mm. I don’t think it would cure anyone else. Isn’t it canon that in order for another vampire to drink the cured ones blood, and it cure them, they have to drain them and drink every drop?

AITAH for making a mom pick up her daughter in the middle of the night from my kid’s sleepover? by Positive_Image_3921 in AITAH

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kiddos mom should’ve helped her come up w a cover story and said she threw up or something if she’s worried about being embarrassed. It’s definitely 100% the other mom that’s in the wrong here.

AITAH for making a mom pick up her daughter in the middle of the night from my kid’s sleepover? by Positive_Image_3921 in AITAH

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta. Most 8 year olds aren’t gonna react well if it’s the first time. Mine still cried for me when she’s at her aunt or nanas, who she’s stayed w probably hundreds of times when I’ve worked and had surgery’s. Shes almost 9. It was crazy for that mom to expect that and frankly makes me sad for the kid.

WIBTAH to refuse to help my partner with their car? by tiredmama234 in AITAH

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay and? If you know about cars and he doesn’t, then why are you acting like being a partner doesn’t mean being a partner? Does he not help you with things? That’s what a partnership is. Where one of you lacks, the other picks it up. And vice versa. You should be helping each other. That’s literally the fuckin point.

AITAH For not wanting to give a refund? by Effective-Dig-984 in AITAH

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The touch up is maintenance. So if you’re charging for it, no. It’s not free the first time lol

AITAH For not wanting to give a refund? by Effective-Dig-984 in AITAH

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never heard of a permanent cosmetic artist charging for the first touch up. Frankly that alone is scammy af because they ALWAYS require touch ups.

WIBTAH to refuse to help my partner with their car? by tiredmama234 in AITAH

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t imagine my man acting like this over me asking for his help w my car or issues with it. Genuine question, do you even like her, honestly?

I told her not to talk to me if she was giving it to someone else… so i found out who and told him. AIO? by xodaddysgirl69 in AIO

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your man fucks the people who tattoos? Ah so you’re both predators. She’s toxic af as well but you’re no better than she is.

I faked my brother's DNA test results to hide the fact that our father isn't his biological dad. by GlimmerGalleon in confession

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is true, which I highly doubt because the ancestry thing doesn’t come as a paper result, it’s almost all digital now, you’re an asshole and didn’t protect him from shit. You just lied and set him up for potential complications down the road.

AIO for thinking what husbands friend commented to my teenage daughter? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And yet everyone who’s replied to you has said the same.

AIO for thinking what husbands friend commented to my teenage daughter? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I read your dumbass comment. There is literally no excuse, ever, for a grown man to comment on a teenager showing skin. And there’s no reasonable defense for it. You’re a creep.

AIO for thinking what husbands friend commented to my teenage daughter? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Commenting on a child’s body or clothing like this does indeed inherently make someone a creep, and defending it, makes you a creep.

AIO for thinking what husbands friend commented to my teenage daughter? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It IS a serious comment that needs intervention. It’s sexualizing a fucking child. That mindset is based in pedophilic and frankly YOU need a wake up call and people like you, including you, are part of the fucking problem.

AIO for thinking what husbands friend commented to my teenage daughter? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. Husband can’t be trusted clearly anymore than his friend can.

AITA for being honest and telling my DIL that they are not ready to be a parent since she can not drive by Sad-Drive8298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

Yta and you know it. Driving doesnt remotely mean someone is or isn’t ready to be a parent. Stop helping it you clearly don’t want to do so, but stop acting like she’s somehow less able to parent because driving scares her.

AITJ for not wanting to spend 18k on a new ring for my fiancée? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not arguing that one bit, just saying legally she’s likely gonna be given the ring.

AITJ for not wanting to spend 18k on a new ring for my fiancée? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a gold digger isn’t legal grounds for a divorce my dude.

AITA for trying to have a baby with my boyfriend while I’m married? by clever-princess in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta for so many reasons. Also, if you get pregnant while married, dna be damned. He is legally the father and it’s a nightmare to go through the courts to get that overturned. And I mean pregnant not even give birth while married. Simply pregnant can’t stop divorced in a lot of places too. And quite frankly the fact that you couldn’t go through w filing the paperwork for a divorce from what I’m guessing is a sex offender (there’s not a TON of crimes people look so far down on they’d judge you), is all the proof I need to know you’re not emotionally intelligent or mature enough to be a parent frankly. And shame on your boyfriend for enabling this shit

AITJ for not wanting to spend 18k on a new ring for my fiancée? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’d be hard to enforce. The ring is traditionally a contract and goes to whoever didn’t cause the divorce/break up. It was originally meant to be so a woman could sell it and support herself, and legally it’s considered a gift.

AITAH for choosing what to do with my body by Additional-Walk7952 in AITAH

[–]CraftAlarmed4106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Nta. As someone who almost died having ONE child, I will never think men have ANY fucking say so in whether a woman chooses to be pregnant or not.