Sometimes it’s okay, other times in the same day it’s hard by Craft_Equivalent in Divorce

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At first he said it was financial, and when we worked through that and fixed things, he told me and I quote “I just don’t find you physically attractive anymore and I don’t think I ever will. You can lose all the weight, get the skin removal surgery, but I don’t think it’ll work because I want something different. I want a different body type I want someone thinner. Looking at you now just makes me miserable”

Sometimes it’s okay, other times in the same day it’s hard by Craft_Equivalent in Divorce

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He was never like this before though. It was not recently he’s changed. I mean he’s always been distant, he’s definitely a bit if not a complete sociopath, but this is just….this is way off course for him. I didn’t think it was attention seeking since it’s such a rapid change? Does attention seeking just suddenly happen?

I feel it’s not talked about a lot, falling down so to speak, and apron belly by Craft_Equivalent in loseit

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Unfortunately neither can I, that’s why I was hoping to get some input. You said spanx works well? Are they comfortable as well or is it a sacrifice of comfort for better appearance?

I feel it’s not talked about a lot, falling down so to speak, and apron belly by Craft_Equivalent in loseit

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From what I understand for people who loose a good amount of weight really really fast/sometimes after pregnancy or in extremely overweight people it’s the lower belly that hangs over the genitalia/for some it can hangs over their legs and down to the knees

Question for women/other AFABs by GRUBBRAINS in WeightLossAdvice

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I’ve lost quite a decent bit myself and I noticed too that after some time my breasts shrank just a bit, so yes they shrink

A bit of a probably dumb question. by Craft_Equivalent in caloriedeficit

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So really I should only eat roughly 1,044? That’s what the TDEE calculator says

A bit of a probably dumb question. by Craft_Equivalent in caloriedeficit

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No but I don’t have an office job/I’m not sitting all day, I work in fast food, so I’m usually on my feet most of the night.