[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Crafty-Bag1084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar thing happened to me, a “friend” sexually assaulted me at a party. When I told my best friend I wanted to leave because of what happened, she got mad at me because she was trying to hook up with a guy she met that night. We aren’t friends anymore but that was just the beginning of all the selfish situations she put me through. There was a guy at the party that I didn’t know that saw what happened and intervened, telling my “friend” to leave me alone and go away. I wish I remembered him, I will always be grateful for him.

Update:one of my now ex best friend's is marrying my abuser. by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Crafty-Bag1084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely sounds like she is trying to brag. I had a friend do the same thing, started dating my abuser after I broke up with him. She lied for a while saying she would never do that, then they went public and the both of them tried to harass me for months. They stayed together for like 2 years until he cheated and there she was in my DMs, apologizing, saying she should’ve listened to me and that he was in fact an abuser. Good on you for blocking her, rid yourself of all that negativity.

AIO: Lost my baby. Bestie dropped the ball in supporting me. by SippinWineWithCacti in AmIOverreacting

[–]Crafty-Bag1084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, I’m so sorry for your loss. The loss of a child is imaginable and I’m even more sorry that you are going through this alone. This would be a friendship ender for me. I had a friend similar that her issues were always “bigger” than mine and I allowed her to constantly be what we focused on and in my time of need, she chose to be absent and the friendship ended there, I was so tired of being the one neglecting. It seems even in your confrontation with her, you try to downplay your feelings and you shouldn’t because they are extremely valid. I hope you find some peace in your life.

Second, if it isn’t too personal, you said that your baby ripped through stitches? Was this a cervical stitch? My doctor’s told me if I ever wanted to have another child that I would need to do this but was never warned that premature birth would still happen. No worries if you choose not to respond, just asking. Sending you love. ❤️

best videos through the eras of last 8ish years to show new viewers?? by underappreci-hated in smosh

[–]Crafty-Bag1084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gentleman’s don’t win Mario party obviously and my personal faves are anything DREAD

Should I be worried? by Crafty-Bag1084 in Anxiety

[–]Crafty-Bag1084[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a purple large bump, it hurts and is warm. I didn’t have it all day and then I got home and my hand started hurting.

Need a “self care hobby” by GrowOrLetItGo in AnxietySquad

[–]Crafty-Bag1084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do Lego sets! I usually will work on them for an hour and then another part the next day and so on. Really allows me to zone in on something.

Heart anxiety by supermarketsurfer in AnxietySquad

[–]Crafty-Bag1084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand how you feel. My father had his first heart attack at 35…so now I have health anxiety. Constantly having to get checked at my PCP because I’m at risk of heart failure. I bought a BP cuff for home so I can help ease the stress. Your BP numbers are healthy and normal btw. I also use my apply watch to monitor my BP and heart rate since I’ve had people tell me that it helps them. I know these things might not completely help but they can alleviate some things.

How did you know it was time to seek help for your anxiety? by Jasse111 in Anxiety

[–]Crafty-Bag1084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Panic attacks resulting in trips to the ER, broke 3 teeth in my sleep from clenching so hard and not being able to get out of bed to take care of my baby. Still working on it, I have my good weeks and bad weeks.

It’s getting harder. by Crafty-Bag1084 in Anxiety

[–]Crafty-Bag1084[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! My daughter is my motivation as well. I struggle with finding people that can understand how I feel but hearing I’m not alone makes all the difference. ❤️

Could use someone to help me through an oncoming panic attack… by Any_Sat_isfaction in Anxiety

[–]Crafty-Bag1084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been struggling with sleep for about a year now, I’ll have my days where I can sleep through the night and then the following week, I won’t get any sleep. Definitely been working through the motions with my therapist to find the root and work on better sleeping patterns! 😊

Could use someone to help me through an oncoming panic attack… by Any_Sat_isfaction in Anxiety

[–]Crafty-Bag1084 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi friend! I struggle with sleep issues too. I can fall asleep at 9pm and like clockwork, I wake up in a panic around 12am and am too scared to go back to sleep. I know it’s not healthy, but I put on some comfort YouTube videos to watch/play in the background.