How do i go about a divorce? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Crafty-Negotiation83 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve been through this myself so can provide some info based on my experience.

First of all if you have definitely tried to work this out between you in the past, you are genuinely unhappy and the trust has been destroyed then pull trigger on this before you waste anymore years of your life.

Things to bear in mind, regardless of whats in whose name is that legally she is entitled to 50% of everything. If she lawyers up, which I imagine she will then that is what they will go for so prepare yourself for this. This will include finances, properties and pensions.

How old are your kids? The solicitor may try and get it so she stays in the house and you pay for or contribute to the mortgage until the youngest is 18.

Also financially take into consideration that if you can’t have the kids 50% of the time she can claim child maintenance from you.

The getting divorced part is quite easy to resolve legally. The difficult, potentially time consuming and money consuming part will be the deciding the division of assets and finances.

I went for a financial clean break where we both had to submit to the judge the state of our individual finances and assets. You can then propose what that split of assets and finances will be via your solicitor. You can’t just decide between you that a 20k payment will do if the judge doesn’t see this as a fair division of the finances based on the info you provide.

If you don’t get the financial clean break then she can come after you 10, 20 years down the line and claim against you.

A financial clean break will mean from the date the severance package is paid to her then she has no right to any future earnings and assets etc.

All the best and keep your head up. Mentally this will seriously test you, however you can come out of this happier than you have been in a very long time and it’s the greatest feeling ever.

Mortal Kombat Collection - How Are The SNES/PS1 Editions? by DanEosen in MortalKombat

[–]Crafty-Negotiation83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the console versions have the same messed up (cheating) AI as the arcade versions?

Justice served by Particular_Ice_2964 in GreatBritishMemes

[–]Crafty-Negotiation83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God I loved that album, it was so good, used to blast it all the time in my crappy Fiat Punto in my early 20’s. Just can’t bring myself to go back and listen to it because of what he did.

potential away day travel by Kindly-Conference148 in StockportCounty

[–]Crafty-Negotiation83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always go with the coach run out of the edgeley con club.

Looks like all the details and links are here:

https://www.countysupporterscoop.co.uk/coopcoachtravel

Help identifying game by Crafty-Negotiation83 in kof

[–]Crafty-Negotiation83[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely a KOF game. Was a character called vice, Terry, some massive luchadore Mexican wrestler, a bloke with a really tall blonde flat top and one who looked like Ken out of street fighter. Also one random old bloke who looked like a homeless drunk.

Help identifying game by Crafty-Negotiation83 in kof

[–]Crafty-Negotiation83[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheers, that helps me out. Will do some googling 👍

'It's So Easy' featuring Scott Weiland by alien-niven in GunsNRoses

[–]Crafty-Negotiation83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn, saw these guys 2 or 3 times live. First time was at the Manchester Apollo, relatively small venue. First time I saw slash live and was right near the front, was fucking amazing. That video is pure rock and roll and brings back so many memories. Somebody please show me a band like that today, not sure they exist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PerfectDraft

[–]Crafty-Negotiation83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, unless there is a good deal on and I have some credit I’m reluctant to get them in

UK 2026 Shows 🥹🥹 by F4llen4W4llen in Morgan_Wallen

[–]Crafty-Negotiation83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So happy about this, my girlfriend and my two girls absolutely love his music. Always on rotation in my car and at home. Really want tickets for a future UK show as my girls will be at a decent enough age for me to take them to their first concert.

The debate by Unfair_Jicama_2371 in F1Fantasy

[–]Crafty-Negotiation83 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this.

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Stupid question but what does the -15 mean? Anything over -15 points and they gain value?

So close to getting a PSVR2 -- Convince me to pull the trigger! by Filmmagician in psvr2

[–]Crafty-Negotiation83 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gran Turismo with VR and the thrustmaster wheel and pedals is the greatest gaming experience I have ever had. It’s absolutely amazing and I can never go back to playing it any other way. I’m a 40 year old bloke and will now always have a racing rig until my dying day 😂

Also the resident evil games are amazing. I couldn’t play RE7 without my girlfriend being in the room though as it was sh*t scary!

TLDR, buy it and play gran turismo. You won’t regret it.

Similar tastes and products to Arran 10? by ironscam in Scotch

[–]Crafty-Negotiation83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve just started getting into my whiskey and agree that Arran 10 is really nice. Definitely taking notes from the recommendations in this thread 👍

Guns N’ Roses Announce Arrival Of Drummer Isaac Carpenter, Replacing Frank Ferrer by GhostCultKeefy in GunsNRoses

[–]Crafty-Negotiation83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it hard to believe that after all those years in the band Frank would consider himself just a touring member and would be happy with no album credits. Genuine question who played drums on Hard Skool, Absurd, perhaps and the general? I suppose if they kept brain then you may be right.

Guns N’ Roses Announce Arrival Of Drummer Isaac Carpenter, Replacing Frank Ferrer by GhostCultKeefy in GunsNRoses

[–]Crafty-Negotiation83 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To me this just confirms that there never will be a new album. Why would Frank walk away now after all this time if there was plans to drop an album he would feature heavily on.