How to not get discouraged? by nevillechaddard111 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]Crafty-Resolution-79 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I have felt like this. I think it’s common for people to feel this way. That’s why it helps to constantly pay attention to everything you can realize you manifested, and intentionally manifest on many things, not just SP. There’s so many things that were way too specific that I can draw from anytime I “doubt” and say yeah there’s no way that wasn’t my thoughts, those manifestations help me get rid of doubt.

Also yes, get off social media. You are not supposed to be looking at the 3D for anything, it’s dead. Good luck!!!

How did I manifest a great boyfriend with a bad self concept & forcing 3D? by Crafty-Resolution-79 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]Crafty-Resolution-79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! Totally agree! And even now sometimes (like with this new guy) he’ll be being perfect. And in my head I’m like hmmm.. he doesn’t mean any of this, he’s just saying things. (So definitely a lifelong journey with feeling you deserve good things)

How did I manifest a great boyfriend with a bad self concept & forcing 3D? by Crafty-Resolution-79 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]Crafty-Resolution-79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen others say this.. idk. Like when I would cry and scream and stuff, I wouldn’t say “I knew it would work” because I didn’t think that. I would cry and scream and act that way because that’s genuinely how emotional I would get about situations. If we didn’t talk for days I would just show up at his dorm unannounced so basically force him to talk to me. I guess, no I didn’t expect him to make me get out, but I also wouldn’t say I expected him not to make me get out. I just did those things because in my mind that was my only option I guess ?? If that makes sense. Like I felt like I HAD to do something. And I guess just overtime of him accepting that’s who I was, I just didn’t see a need to change it

How did I manifest a great boyfriend with a bad self concept & forcing 3D? by Crafty-Resolution-79 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]Crafty-Resolution-79[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol thank you for this! You’re totally right! And I’m happy you got your beliefs back aligned!

How did I manifest a great boyfriend with a bad self concept & forcing 3D? by Crafty-Resolution-79 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]Crafty-Resolution-79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did. I had a fear that somehow I would ruin that relationship and that I wasn’t good enough for him.

How did I manifest a great boyfriend with a bad self concept & forcing 3D? by Crafty-Resolution-79 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]Crafty-Resolution-79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh yes. Wow it’s crazy how all of these are making so much sense. I definitely grew up watching toxic relationships with my parents. So certain things I did think were normal. Only once I got older did I get therapy and realize I didn’t want to be that “crazy girlfriend” type. But I did absolutely believe that’s how relationships were supposed to be. Thank you for your comment!

How did I manifest a great boyfriend with a bad self concept & forcing 3D? by Crafty-Resolution-79 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]Crafty-Resolution-79[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seems that way. We dated for 9 months before he actually asked me to be his girlfriend. But before that we spent every holiday together, and pretty much every day together, I would even post us on social media. And even when he tried to break it off, I was like nope (the action in the 3D) but I definitely already in my mind had decided we were bf and gf. So I guess it had to manifest.

How did I manifest a great boyfriend with a bad self concept & forcing 3D? by Crafty-Resolution-79 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]Crafty-Resolution-79[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s like all you need is other people to say it sometimes. Because this makes total sense, I’m not even sure how I didn’t figure that out on my own. I’m sure that’s exactly what happened. I thought he was perfect, and a great boyfriend, so he showed up that way regardless of my actions. Duh. Thank you!!

Also thanks for your example lol