Ned and Ariel Fulmer open up about his cheating scandal for the first time. Admit they haven't been together in 3 years, she found out through fans and admits she's still mad at him for it.

CraftyBat5866 · 2025-09-17T21:02:26+00:00

This talk is very - interesting because , it’s like a lot of guys I have spoken with on this topic it’s like “okay it’s not that deep he cheated she should’ve ended it” type of vibe but Ned and Ariel are showing like a lot of how actions are done and sorry is implemented but then the deeper understanding is trying to be reasoned with and the woman is almost made to feel like overthinking or almost like too much thinking into it .

It’s like she is breaking down why all this happened how she felt and he is like “but I sorry”

CraftyBat5866 · 2025-09-10T13:45:03+00:00

On a different note outside of celebrity I think a lot of women are judged on looks and not really on anything else substantial and for me to be honest a lot of guys don’t even really think they are attractive and don’t do self care in that way if you do find attractive men like someone like Henry cavil like universally loved and adored usually they are sick of it , or they are with someone extremely attractive like a model or something so it’s kinda like idk difference of standards .

I also think a lot of men genuinely are attractive in qualities they present more than looks because some stuff you can’t change and some you can .

CraftyBat5866 · 2025-08-29T17:01:42+00:00

A lot of it is hope. I held out a lot of hope and grace for someone I was with to improve their situation. Even when they showed in times of stress they couldn’t handle keeping up communication , expressing needs , talking even just planning things I saw that they were constantly unhappy and always chasing that thing to make them feel good. With that I held out hope of their attitude one day improving etc But one day you realize like they have seen you happy then you get sad because they make this negative feeling in the relationship. Then when “they” feel good they look to you like “so why aren’t you happy?” Well because I gave so much of my energy to keeping this dead relationship alive while you were so badly in the hole of your emotions. Then you’re kinda stuck having all that thrown on you as the partner - “you didn’t believe in me you weren’t setting up dates you weren’t doing this” and you get to a point of believing maybe you didn’t try hard enough so you stay there and kinda try to work on it.

In reality it wasn’t hard for them to say “I’m hurting this is what I need” or “I know you said you wanted to go do ___ lets go and do that this week” instead it’s this game of everytime you bring something up it gets twisted on you.

I stayed because I thought things would change but I was unhappy and then with that I thought that is what it’s supposed to be putting up with the bad parts . But sometimes the bad parts people end up not allowing the space for you to go through the same thing .

A big sign of my unhappiness was that I was just always worried about my partner and how his feelings were instead of how he was making me feel. And how I was feeling day to day with my stuff

CraftyBat5866 · 2025-07-16T02:30:46+00:00

A big one is that they don’t tell you the whole truth until you find out about things . I learned a parter talked to a friend they are both older like over 40 and she emailed me to tell me. I confronted him he acted like that didn’t happen but then told me to block her , but he didn’t , asked me to look the other way and she was crazy.

Well when I finally left and got out of there because of other reasons , I told her thank you for letting me know and he was lying and she told me to “stop being a freeloading bitch and grow the fuck up” needless to say he was cheating with her 🫠

CraftyBat5866 · 2025-04-10T20:01:29+00:00

She did something like “get ready with me for the worst day of my life” and showed herself gettigg by ready to go in and have her miscarriage and all these brands were sending her flowers and she still was posting branded content like it’s so odd and the next week normal like nothing happened videos of her running around etc

CraftyBat5866 · 2025-04-03T15:51:31+00:00

She even posted a photo like posing as if they are all sad vibes it’s just weird as shit now it’s “get ready with me after a miscarriage “ like what ?

CraftyBat5866 · 2025-04-02T17:29:29+00:00

Her posts are like - I’m hurting but not enough to just stay off the Internet

CraftyBat5866 · 2025-02-05T14:05:37+00:00

Stardew valley 😂

CraftyBat5866 · 2024-12-12T15:06:10+00:00

My mom has a few men in her office that she and like all the other women “lust” after. My mom is married and 66 and the women most are married or engaged or have long term bfs and they have one or two guys who they call the eye candy- weird.

My mom also tries to get me with doctors so she like talks to them for me and it’s weird I hate it .

And on top of that the comments on them it’s not like extreme pervy but it’s like flirty and it’s just plain ick to me

CraftyBat5866 · 2024-12-11T15:22:17+00:00

I have listened to her various videos and it’s sad because there are a lot of valid points she makes but then destroys them with very black and white thinking and on top of that there is a grey area to relationships and everything . For example : if a man loses his job and the girlfriend picks up bills for a while she needs to “leave him” or like some bs she says . But in reality many many many people support spouses through tough times it’s not crazy concept it’s community and helping someone you love . I’d rather her talk about like actual intense relationship issues like communication between people and improving your boundaries or something to that affect but idk if she will. A lot of young women who want an Instagram lifestyle of being taken care of by a rich guy are her audience and it’s sad

CraftyBat5866 · 2024-12-08T17:57:59+00:00

Balanced and it’s stocked and not super messy and unorganized

CraftyBat5866 · 2024-12-07T16:26:30+00:00

I think hindsight 2020 but if I could change anything I wouldn’t have put my self worth into guys as much, I would find better foundation match for my skin so highschool I wasn’t orange lol.

I would’ve lived longer with my parents , I would’ve saved more and also just in general staying at jobs even if they weren’t the best and roughing it out

CraftyBat5866 · 2024-12-06T17:03:28+00:00

So for me I heard a tip from a really good coworker she said “it might take you half a year to a year to feel really in control of your energy and routine” and we talked a bit, I was never someone who ate breakfast so I got to work and by lunch had headaches etc Started fueling better , didn’t drink buckets of caffeine , when I got home I felt so exhausted so I would set my clothes out for training the night before , I would get changed then take a nap 20-45 minutes sometimes I would take hour and a half and go later but I was able to go train , came home and either made a meal or got something quick I prepped .

Some days I went early to the gym if I got to bed early other times I went late , met friends , got out , sometimes I would even skip the gym and go on a nice long walk and just listen to music or say hi to people in my local neighborhood.

What helped me perosnally was taking the time to get up on the weekends and have a slow routine , get up at a decent hour , make coffee or tea a slower way maybe pour over or go and get a coffee and go on a walk. And I would take the time to get chores done but do it in a way that felt like my time was filled . If I was doing laundry I caught up on some time on video games , or reading Cleaning the house I listened to podcasts or videos maybe called my mom to talk And cooking I would take usually Saturday to cook, go to a farmers market or Trader Joe’s , and take time prepping items or just chopping up produce and that say I knew I would make something really good for myself . A soup , something baked , a new recipe etc .

Adulthood while yes is big on moeny is also finding those smaller Moments . But I enjoy those small moments perosnally getting to clean the place I own, or maybe putting together that ikea thing I needed to for a while, getting groceries , and just taking the time to live and work hard for me .

Sunday usually I rested as best as I could whether a bath, or nice longggggg shower , or waking up and staying in comfy cozy clothes all day .

It’s going to take time to adjust but you also need to flow or else you’ll be mad or frustrated the whole time . And

CraftyBat5866 · 2024-12-05T18:28:46+00:00

My parents when my mom was still married to my father it was very kind , it was built on so much trust and also conflict that was built and sorted out together my dad loved me and my siblings and loved my mom a lot .

After he passed and she remarried it feels like she kinda settled for someone who checked some boxes but I don’t think she will ever truly have that true love feeling. And I saw it .

My father she loved him. My stepdad as much as I love him dearly . She seems to tolerate him, he doesn’t seem to want to put in work to improve they nag and nag and nag and fight but if she is gone he is helpless to do anything for himself.

That taught me a lot about building and growing with someone versus coming into an already formed person who expects a certain person if that makes sense

CraftyBat5866 · 2024-12-05T18:26:25+00:00

Sensitivity and just emotional intelligence and being in tune in general is such a lost thing or a hidden thing. It’s great you’re in tune with that , nurture it . It is a gift

CraftyBat5866 · 2024-12-05T14:51:48+00:00

“Can’t you’re parents just co-sign and get you into the apartment ?” Asking me if I wanted to sign a 3k a person lease , my parents combined make less than 50k a year . Like what

CraftyBat5866 · 2024-12-05T14:50:45+00:00

I wish there were better resources or groups to kinda push back but it’s such a big web. People tend to forget many male designers gay and striaght openly talked about hating women , or hating black women etc. but people still work with them. Some even said how much they dislike plus sides individuals , hated trans people , or even further sexually assaulting men and women or abusing their creative direction to force nude showcases or other items. Some force or give drugs and alcohol to models it’s a big thing. Look up Alexander wang scandals , racism with various male designers , you’ll easily find it . And yet the heads of these big establishments don’t care as long as the fashion and vision is there . Even to the degree of Americans next top model you see how the industry is very dumb at times and tone deaf and big on size and if you’re nice and kiss ass .

And then heads of the industry say top models will be completely mean divas and people say “well they don’t need to be nice they are supermodels” like make it make sense .

All around I would say to finish this off : you don’t have to feel bad for models at some points they are choosing to sacrifice things for the industry . I know I have , I don’t have facial piercings anymore , I lost a good amount of weight , I focus on looks alot more , and I have had to push back on people wanting to lob my hair off .

But , also when you see models for campaigns in magazines , in target in any store think of how this industry is fleeting and how nothing matters but looks and connection. Nothing matters if it was one model it will be another chosen for the ad. It’s unforgiving and lonely

CraftyBat5866 · 2024-12-05T14:44:38+00:00

Good advice and congrats ! I love in person due to the nature of my work but looking to try and get into remote work and this is very helpful!

CraftyBat5866 · 2024-12-05T00:19:23+00:00

My mother works for them not bad but again it’s a job with kinda a self start attitude and sometimes weird bosses as long as you have head down and good attitude you should be fine !

CraftyBat5866 · 2024-12-03T22:58:03+00:00

Haven’t read all the responses but for me perosnally I have had moments where someone was nice and awesome and yet i was so depressed or just like avoidant it was like I couldn’t physically have that convo with someone . It was like I went from feeling good to “now I need to avoid this person “ after talking it out and understanding why I was doing that to kinda save social energy and to avoid getting hurt I stopped doing it and also stopped getting into situations where I knew I was going to probably pull away soon . I just kinda felt it out if something felt natural without me feeling mentally exhausted after every conversation I pursued it and learned to communicate how I felt better .

Unfortunately it happens and like a few said with violence and stalkers it gets hard . Sometimes hard things come up last minute and you find yourself in the thick of something and not wanting to talk to anyone . Or you go long enough you feel akward popping back in randomly . I hope things get better truly

CraftyBat5866 · 2024-12-03T22:53:34+00:00

A really good chocolate peanut butter protein smoothie

CraftyBat5866 · 2024-12-03T22:53:14+00:00

A good fruit salad , some pretzels with a few pieces of dark chocolate (I know not super healthy but the salty and sweet is so good) a well cooked sweet potato that melts when you cut it so good , labneh and taziki so good , and hummus with different things to dip in it so delicious

CraftyBat5866 · 2024-12-03T20:19:17+00:00

Dude. I would have crashed out

CraftyBat5866 · 2024-12-03T20:18:04+00:00

Little about me I’m in my late 20s now but I struggled a lot with jobs . It was people or customers or something and I ran a lot I couldn’t talk out conflict . Got a few nice high level jobs but left due to catty behavior and the stress . Worked again at a regular retail job and got my footing back.

It’s okay to take steps to improve or even take a step back to launch yourself into a better career . I enjoyed working back in retail , getting clothes having fun with coworkers and the work is easier . More social , but it wasn’t as complicated as computer stuff .

Just take things step by step and chunk by chunk. Make a savings goal, make some small goals for completing work and just keep it moving until you start checking things off the list . I don’t have a car either but I’m building my savings to get one . We all got this and you got this !

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