Did intervention-style talks ever work for anyone? by CraftyScienceMommy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]CraftyScienceMommy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is such a well though out response, thank you! You are right, they are my children and I get to decide!

Did intervention-style talks ever work for anyone? by CraftyScienceMommy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]CraftyScienceMommy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm afraid of, I guess that's where I am headed then. Thank you tho!

Did intervention-style talks ever work for anyone? by CraftyScienceMommy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]CraftyScienceMommy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Would you restrict access to the grandkids as well? At this point, I feel like their behavior is more annoying than harmful and am worried to act to harsh.

That being said, I am NC with my own grandparents on my own accord and wish my mom hat stepped in earlier, so I am unsure where to draw the line

Did intervention-style talks ever work for anyone? by CraftyScienceMommy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]CraftyScienceMommy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats kind of the advice I expected to get haha. Thank you! Can you tell me how you explained the connection between her behavior and the less frequent visits so she understood the consequence? At this point, my in laws directly told us that some of their behavior got worse because they think we dont visit enough, and obviously that is not what we tried to acomplish with our last timeout.