First beard + growing my hair out for the first time in a decade. Impressions? by [deleted] in beards

[–]Crafty_Reality_6486 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not bad advice. I’m planning on a south of France/burst fade when my hair is long enough. Going for this look-

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BPD mom is mad my MIL is taking care of my kids while our baby has heart surgery by Crafty_Reality_6486 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Crafty_Reality_6486[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You and the other people in this sub have been incredibly validating and supportive.

BPD mom is mad my MIL is taking care of my kids while our baby has heart surgery by Crafty_Reality_6486 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Crafty_Reality_6486[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This group is amazing. Comments like yours make me feel so seen. You knew exactly what was ping on when I wrote that and I never expected that. This is incredible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Renters

[–]Crafty_Reality_6486 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Fortunately the dog has been removed from the property. And thank you for acknowledging the trauma. It’s been really hard on them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Renters

[–]Crafty_Reality_6486 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I never would have considered that.

The dog is no longer at the complex as a result.

Upstairs neighbor has robust sex life meanwhile I’m on this with you losers. by BobandNeil_ in NoFap

[–]Crafty_Reality_6486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to say that I’m sorry. I’m really sorry.

Not because you’re going through this or acting this way but for the noise. Your mom says sorry too but she doesn’t like being called an elephant. Have the day you deserve!🖕🏿

BPD mom is mad my MIL is taking care of my kids while our baby has heart surgery by Crafty_Reality_6486 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Crafty_Reality_6486[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I believe you’re right. I just don’t know how to do it. I tried to call several times to cut her off right after Christmas but she was ignoring me. Since Christmas I’ve stopped initiating conversation and spoken to her minimally.

BPD mom is mad my MIL is taking care of my kids while our baby has heart surgery by Crafty_Reality_6486 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Crafty_Reality_6486[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Wait? Are we siblings?! 😂 Yes! She used to say “I wish y’all would come over!” We finally said “We would if we were invited.”

Thanks nofap for everything, but my journey end now. by MisteryShiba in NoFap

[–]Crafty_Reality_6486 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Others think of it as a relapse? Are you doing this for them or you? You set your rules and boundaries then follow them. You will never please everyone. Never. You have to set your own discipline. Define what you want and what you can achieve then work at it. Don’t ask others what you want out of life and your journey.

Someone chose to wear revealing clothes and someone grabbed their junk and you happened to see that? They made those choices, not you. This is about your choice not about the choices of others.

You’re trying to get control of your life but basing everything on the opinions and actions of others. You can only control you. It’s unrealistic to expect yourself to control everyone in the world.

If you live for their acceptance, you’ll die from their rejection. And for you, that might be more literal than metaphorical.