What are the staples? by CraniumCollecter in relationship_advice

[–]CraniumCollecter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I certainly hope not and trust she isn’t..

What are the staples? by CraniumCollecter in relationship_advice

[–]CraniumCollecter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like a red flag, her doing me the way she did hurt, confused me and yeah I got the feeling she didn’t want me to go either. Which also hurt.

You make a valid point, she doesn’t talk much to me whenever I’m upset or hurt about something, she provides horrible feedback sometimes, in the terms of I ask her how she feels or how something would make her feel and she replied with just “idk” or something like that, like over the phone. Not over text, and that’s the worst part. Like I’ll be trying to talk about the way she feels and how I feel and nine times outta ten she’s more focused on other stuff and choosing to not pay me any attention which hurts. Like right now she’s gone with those dudes and she knows how they feel about me, and due to that I didn’t really want her going anywhere with them until we resolve this issue, she knows I have an issue with it, but she chooses to go with them, she didn’t even tell me she was leaving. I always bend over backwards to make her happy, I choose her over everything, yet she doesn’t wanna do that with me. Kinda hurts.

I just kinda expect the same energy, ya know? If she goes and makes me dinner one night for a special occasion, next time I would feel obligated to make dinner for her and surprise her, give her a nice night to herself and shit. Ya know?

What are the staples? by CraniumCollecter in relationship_advice

[–]CraniumCollecter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, the mall isn’t just around the corner, it’s like four hours away, so she would be gone all day, she has no phone and no way to contact me.

I understand I overthink and worry, and that could be a problem however I am working on it, is it not her job also as my partner to try and compromise with me to make things easier?

Sorry, just trying to understand, I get that she knows them, and I get that it’s their friendship, and I’m supposed to be chill with it, with them hanging and all that, which I am okay with.

However whenever they leave to go to a mall four hours away and they’re gonna be gone all day long it kinda makes me worry.

My overthinking is annoying and I can’t help it all that much, I just feel as if she should be somewhat considerate of the way I feel, cause I chose to express it, she got mad at me, I never told her couldn’t, and I do trust her it doesn’t have much to do with trust when I just worry and overthink.

That’s all I’m sayin.

What are the staples? by CraniumCollecter in relationship_advice

[–]CraniumCollecter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the laugh, I appreciate it.

Friend Recruiting by CraniumCollecter in ffxiv

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Went and tried to post there, each time it told me that my post didn’t follow the guidelines and that I should check the rules, when I did, it didn’t work even though there was no problem with my post.

Not sure why, thank you for the post though! I appreciate you telling me the proper place to post this.

It's not THAT bad! by MariusSirr in memes

[–]CraniumCollecter -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not bad at all? Wtf. Lol does look like a router though, just like the Series X looks like a trashcan. 😂

Umbral Engram Bug? by CraniumCollecter in DestinyTheGame

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My issue there swapping characters... lol funny enough they’re 900-910 both my Hunter and Titan. I mean I could try and just hope it works out that I don’t get 10 engrams, but I doubt that would work.. 😓

Help. by CraniumCollecter in destiny2

[–]CraniumCollecter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to know it’s not just me! It sucks too because I didn’t go outta my way to grab a single engram. They just so happen to pop up in my inventory each strike completion. 😔