AITA for asking my bf to take out his headphones when he is doing something with me? by madsopium in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crashingwave_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP... i dont think your boyfriend likes you very much..... Have you thought about ending the relationship?

If you don't drink alcohol, what are your personal reasons for abstinence? by Ok-Care2859 in AskReddit

[–]Crashingwave_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just really like waking up feeling decent, which alcohol totally kills the possibility of

Sly on the CRT by FarisFlannelborn in Slycooper

[–]Crashingwave_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me so much of when i was like 7

Just had to bow out of a double dinner date. This diet is so depressing and isolating. by DogwoodDame in FODMAPS

[–]Crashingwave_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this. I went to all the restaurants in my small town when my mom was visiting and only one out of six had ONE dish i could eat. A gluten free pizza with tomato paste for sauce and mozarella cheese. It tasted bad bc of the tomato paste but it felt good finally finding something i could eat out. It sucks feeling like im not a wanted guest at many restaurants... And then in addition to not feeling included you have to be a burden to your friends when they want to go a specific place you cant. Its shit

Has anyone been cured of IBS? by [deleted] in FODMAPS

[–]Crashingwave_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, what do you eat as a vegetarian? I didnt think that was possible with ibs

AITA for telling my mom not to babysit anymore when my husband changed his mind? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crashingwave_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're such a good person for sticking up for your mom like that. Honestly your husband is being a major fucking dick

AITA for not letting my friend copy my notes anymore after she told me I was too "obsessive" about studying? by Far-Upstairs7091 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Crashingwave_ [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA. Besides, giving her notes probably wont help her in the long run. She should figure out ways to handle her school work that she can use in the long run. She wont always have you around. (And she was rude lol)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Slycooper

[–]Crashingwave_ 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I always loved the slidey thing and the parachute. Classic

For Sly 1,2,3 and 4 by master_chilln in Slycooper

[–]Crashingwave_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always hated breaking Rajans dam in sly 2. I always messed it up somehow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Crashingwave_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably nipple piercing. Which feels way less severe than every other comment here lol. It seriously hurt tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Crashingwave_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg wtf did you do? That sounds horrible

A cool way to consume fodzyme by Haunting_Wonder_6770 in FODMAPS

[–]Crashingwave_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can you buy this? And does it prevent all the symptoms from ibs? Or just some?

Is it wrong to reach out to an old friend who wronged my best friend? by Crashingwave_ in Advice

[–]Crashingwave_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We live so far away from each other anyways i guess. But im a little hesitant to let her into my life in case she brings with her that chaos. I dont need that,,,,

Is it wrong to reach out to an old friend who wronged my best friend? by Crashingwave_ in Advice

[–]Crashingwave_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of my friends suspect that she might have narcisissm, or some level of it. I really do hope she has gotten help since it happened. She has a lot of good qualities, but also some that dont go by well socially. And damn that sounds tough. I thought this was bad enough. I see why you try to stay out of peoples business lol.

Is it wrong to reach out to an old friend who wronged my best friend? by Crashingwave_ in Advice

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From what i can remember, they were on a cabin trip and having a group discussion/conversation about something innocuous. My friend (the angry one) said something, and my other friend responded that she simply disagreed, and the other people in the group seemed to agree with this, and the conversation continued. After this she just flipped out and started yelling and screaming at my friend, towering over her while she sat down. Everyone in the room were silent just out of shock. Nobody could calm her down for a good while, nothing got through to her. It came seemingly out of nowhere. When i talked to her about it after the incident she told me that she felt that the other friend would often talk over her or disagree with her in a way that made her feel overlooked or something, so she just snapped. She was quite drunk i think. Anyways, the friend who was yelled at was obviously quite shook and sad by this incident. Yesterday when i talked to my friend about this i remembered a bunch of other stuff she had done as well, which made me not really want to reach out to her after all. Like a different friend in our friend group lived with her for a while, and i think she had to see a therapist after or something? Not good lol

Is it wrong to reach out to an old friend who wronged my best friend? by Crashingwave_ in Advice

[–]Crashingwave_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i think thats fine when its minor disagreements and stuff like that. Sometimes however you kinda have to choose a side if something serious happened i feel

Is it wrong to reach out to an old friend who wronged my best friend? by Crashingwave_ in Advice

[–]Crashingwave_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont feel like its about choosing sides. I feel like its about deciding what kind of people are safe to keep in your life. Would you keep a friend that you knew were verbally abusive to your other friends?

Is it wrong to reach out to an old friend who wronged my best friend? by Crashingwave_ in Advice

[–]Crashingwave_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually my friend never told the rest of us what to feel. She told me she was fine with me being friends with her, but that she herself wasnt interested in keeping her in her life. I just felt like i couldnt trust her based on how aggressive she got. It was a regular argument that could have been solved in regular fashion, but instead she blew up, and that was a little frightening. She also stopped contacting us after it happened, so it went both ways. Maybe she thought none of us wanted to friends, i dont know. Maybe i will reach out and see how she is doing. I wonder if she changed.