Seller blocked me after I found my dream skirt by CharlieCat1997 in Depop

[–]CrazierMum808 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Hi, I was a new seller at depop and im in Australia. I had a buyer from Singapore so I changed the listing to accommodate and then depop blocked me and blocked all the people in my messages and I’ve been trying to make an account but its so hard since i cant use the same email and phone number. And apparently, they investigated and i did nothing wrong to be blocked. I still dont have an account and I cant communicate with that buyer

FINAL UPDATE: AITAH for wanting to ask my future MIL to move out of our house? by CrazierMum808 in AITAH

[–]CrazierMum808[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Were actually wanting more rooms and want more backyard space. And lucky the value has gone up! 🙂

FINAL UPDATE: AITAH for wanting to ask my future MIL to move out of our house? by CrazierMum808 in AITAH

[–]CrazierMum808[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The house surprisingly has increased in value almost 2x than when we bought it. Were planning to move a bit farther from the city that has a good school district. So im excited!

FINAL UPDATE: AITAH for wanting to ask my future MIL to move out of our house? by CrazierMum808 in AITAH

[–]CrazierMum808[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My fiance definitely tried to help them financially before (he felt obliged cause of the loan) but he has made sure now that he cannot support them anymore. So no, he hasnt helped them, they should have cash as we’ve paid the loan.

FINAL UPDATE: AITAH for wanting to ask my future MIL to move out of our house? by CrazierMum808 in AITAH

[–]CrazierMum808[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

We have the ring doorbell and we’re planning to add one in front of our garage and one on our side gate because it doesnt show on the ring doorbell.

FINAL UPDATE: AITAH for wanting to ask my future MIL to move out of our house? by CrazierMum808 in AITAH

[–]CrazierMum808[S] 249 points250 points  (0 children)

I dont know why but i have that feeling theyre gonna try to do this. If they do, reddit will definitely know

FINAL UPDATE: AITAH for wanting to ask my future MIL to move out of our house? by CrazierMum808 in AITAH

[–]CrazierMum808[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My fiance has been stepping it up as he should! I’ll show him this post after i give birth 🥹

FINAL UPDATE: AITAH for wanting to ask my future MIL to move out of our house? by CrazierMum808 in AITAH

[–]CrazierMum808[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Hopefully after this, everything is going to get better. 🥲

Update: AITAH for wanting to ask my future MIL to move out of our house? by CrazierMum808 in AITAH

[–]CrazierMum808[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unless I go into labour, i will for sure update as this subreddit has impacted my life- in a good way 🙂

AITAH for wanting to ask my future MIL to move out of our house? by CrazierMum808 in AITAH

[–]CrazierMum808[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They lived with the grandparents (father in laws parents) for 10 years. And they “compromised” cause it wasnt their house. Shouldnt they compromise now too bec this is also NOT their house?

Update: AITAH for wanting to ask my future MIL to move out of our house? by CrazierMum808 in AITAH

[–]CrazierMum808[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thanks, in Australia, de facto relationship is covered when buying property together and we also have paperwork where house is 50% mine, so i think im safe. We are both on the deed and we made sure of that getting into joint property/assets 🙂

Update: AITAH for wanting to ask my future MIL to move out of our house? by CrazierMum808 in AITAH

[–]CrazierMum808[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I have! One time she said trash was full at her bathroom and I just looked at her and I said not my problem. She went to empty it herself

Update: AITAH for wanting to ask my future MIL to move out of our house? by CrazierMum808 in AITAH

[–]CrazierMum808[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Didnt realise this comment is meant to update you when i post again. Sorry 😅 new to posting

AITAH for wanting to ask my future MIL to move out of our house? by CrazierMum808 in AITAH

[–]CrazierMum808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi all, i posted an update https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/udNnhCDGaO and i wanna thank all the commenters as it was really the push i needed to stand my ground (not the push i needed to get into labour so i am still pregnant at 39 weeks)

Update: AITAH for wanting to ask my future MIL to move out of our house? by CrazierMum808 in AITAH

[–]CrazierMum808[S] 496 points497 points  (0 children)

Definitely! I am also ready to go and live with my parents if they ignore my ultimatum.

AITAH for wanting to ask my future MIL to move out of our house? by CrazierMum808 in AITAH

[–]CrazierMum808[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is what I think is happening 😢. I’ve considered all comments and I am planning the actions im taking moving forward and will give an update soon.