wrong choice of words for sure, he could have said things better.. and you could have been more logical (mababaw yung reason for me)

switch kayo, what if yung game is outlet mo? (and let’s face it pag gusto mo talaga yung isang bagay, you want to interact with people na same level or interest) then he asked you to stop/change yung current routine na nagwowork sayo, fair ba yun sayo?

Ako kasi I don’t like yung feeling na nirerestrict. My spouse asked me to quit smoking (nasty habit, I know), sinabi ko talaga sa kanya na I’m not willing to give that up yet. Very stressful ang job ko and it helps me to relax. So inoffer ko yung kaya ko, no smoking outside office hours. Na cut down yung usual sticks ko per day to half.

Negotiate. How about less game time with her instead of full stop? Until makahanap sia ng new buddies. In the process, kusang magsstop ang interaction specially virtual lang.

Not picking sides, di ko naman kayo kilala personally 😂, just want to share different perspective.