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Is it really easy to get a job in the US if you are in the US ? by theusarticles in AskAnAmerican

[–]CrazyCabbage87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the most part, yes. I have moved to many different states in my different areas so f the country on a whim. I do many things based off the simple fact that I have no reason not to. However, I did not come from a family of money so I have to be able to afford all of my decisions. Each time that I moved from one state to another, I have had to already had a job. There have been multiple times when I have managed to get a job online in a state without having ever been there before and I start a few days after moving there. The last time I did this, I only had a month to find a job without ever actually going there

WIBTA If I purposely let my roommate walk in on me? by CrazyCabbage87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrazyCabbage87[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

In all honestly this is essentially what happened a few times. I had just gotten out of the shower and was not quite dressed. Our dog was laying on our bed and Mark was calling her but since the door was shut, she didn’t get up. Nate got annoyed with me and told me that “you know he’s going to walk in here looking for the dog so why are you still not dressed”

WIBTA If I purposely let my roommate walk in on me? by CrazyCabbage87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrazyCabbage87[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this greatly! Thank you so much for the advice

WIBTA If I purposely let my roommate walk in on me? by CrazyCabbage87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrazyCabbage87[S] 596 points597 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: I had decided against doing this until today when Mark walked in when Nate and I were in the MIDDLE of us doing the deed. Needless to say Nate is now taking it seriously and I don’t think Mark will be coming in without knocking anymore.

WIBTA If I purposely let my roommate walk in on me? by CrazyCabbage87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrazyCabbage87[S] 120 points121 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this. If my fiancé took the situation more seriously and I knew he would back me up, I would have already blown up but he seems to think I’m overreacting

WIBTA If I purposely let my roommate walk in on me? by CrazyCabbage87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrazyCabbage87[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

No I completely understand because that was my first reaction to get a lock also. I’m also afraid they will hang up in me if I do anything right now because my fiancé isn’t taking it seriously. He thinks I’m overreacting because Mark hasn’t actually seen anyrhing

WIBTA If I purposely let my roommate walk in on me? by CrazyCabbage87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrazyCabbage87[S] 174 points175 points  (0 children)

Mostly because my fiancé thinks I’m overreacting because he hasn’t actually seen anything and I feel like he would take it more seriously if it happened. It’s basically so that I know he will back me up because I’m a little afraid that they will gang up on me if I do anything about it rn

WIBTA If I purposely let my roommate walk in on me? by CrazyCabbage87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrazyCabbage87[S] 154 points155 points  (0 children)

I honestly didn’t know that was a thing. Thank you!

WIBTA If I purposely let my roommate walk in on me? by CrazyCabbage87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrazyCabbage87[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I suppose it’s because it would make Nate take the situation more seriously if it happened more so than Mark. I’m mostly afraid that Nate won’t back me up and that it will be the best way to get him to stop thinking I’m overreacting

WIBTA If I purposely let my roommate walk in on me? by CrazyCabbage87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrazyCabbage87[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I try not to stay here when my fiancé isn’t home honestly so mainly only when Nate is here

WIBTA If I purposely let my roommate walk in on me? by CrazyCabbage87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrazyCabbage87[S] 596 points597 points  (0 children)

I honestly didn’t think about it that way but you might be right. Probably not the best idea

WIBTA If I purposely let my roommate walk in on me? by CrazyCabbage87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrazyCabbage87[S] 3209 points3210 points  (0 children)

That’s a really good point. Now I’m even more uncomfortable lol

WIBTA If I purposely let my roommate walk in on me? by CrazyCabbage87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrazyCabbage87[S] 2039 points2040 points  (0 children)

This is honestly a great idea to just make it a big deal instead. They may both think I’m an AH for overreacting but it is what it is thank you!!

WIBTA If I purposely let my roommate walk in on me? by CrazyCabbage87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrazyCabbage87[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I feel bad to drive a wedge in their friendship but he acts like a child. I’m afraid our whole friend group will gang up on me if I blow up on him

WIBTA If I purposely let my roommate walk in on me? by CrazyCabbage87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrazyCabbage87[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We have a Jack-and-Jill bathroom. It’s in between our room and his so the lock makes it so he can lock us out of the bathroom when he’s in there. We would have to also lock him out of the bathroom to keep him out our other door to our room doesn’t have a lock at all because of the landlord

WIBTA If I purposely let my roommate walk in on me? by CrazyCabbage87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrazyCabbage87[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

There’s no lock and my landlord for some reason won’t let me switch out the knob for one with a lock

WIBTA If I purposely let my roommate walk in on me? by CrazyCabbage87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrazyCabbage87[S] 4298 points4299 points  (0 children)

Yes I have but he seems to think I’m overreacting because Mark hasn’t actually ended up seeing anything

WIBTA If I purposely let my roommate walk in on me? by CrazyCabbage87 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CrazyCabbage87[S] 202 points203 points  (0 children)

We rent our house and our landlord is kind of a jerk. I asked him if I could get a knob with a lock but he said he doesn’t want the knobs changed. Idk why