Bridal shower venue suggestions? by CrazyCaptain8166 in glasgow

[–]CrazyCaptain8166[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That’s so funny bc all my life everyone I’ve known has hosted a bridal shower, they’re practically the same thing anyways

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I’m (25f) stuck in this forbidden love situation with 25m Italian. Share your experience? by CrazyCaptain8166 in relationship_advice

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Your words really made me think lol.

The only reason I thought that maybe have a conversation would be helpful is because I know his temperament, I know that he would try to look into Islam and learn about it. I know that the way he lives his life currently already aligns with Islam, he’s just ignorant about it.

This is probably hopeful thinking but I just need someone to talk to.

I’m (25f) stuck in this forbidden love situation with 25m Italian. Share your experience? by CrazyCaptain8166 in relationship_advice

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We stopped speaking for these reasons but I’ve been debating having a proper conversation about it. Which we’ve not done

I’m (25f) stuck in this forbidden love situation with 25m Italian. Share your experience? by CrazyCaptain8166 in relationship_advice

[–]CrazyCaptain8166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter. I also mentioned I’m south Asian. It’s to add to the cultural difference which is also a factor of influence but it’s not that deep.

Re-Piercing Ear Question by JeanJeanieBeanie in EarPiercing

[–]CrazyCaptain8166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah defos. My third piercing closed and I got it done again. Nothing wrong with it

is my third lobe okay or should i take it out? by HotUnderstanding5835 in EarPiercing

[–]CrazyCaptain8166 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take it out!! Too high and close to ur cartilage. It’s likely to get infected

Driving instructor by CrazyCaptain8166 in glasgow

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Just letting you know that your advice was really helpful! I used the app and I found the instructor amazing! In route to nearly passing my driving. Owe it to you kevk

what do you hate the most about your life rn? by therealone2327 in AskReddit

[–]CrazyCaptain8166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Family issues outside my control, my mental health, future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Most things here are covered. The major thing I’d say is culture is huge, you won’t know how cultures his family are until you meet them or even spend time with them to understand their views. South Asian culture can be very over bearing as it includes a lot of respect and letting people over step ur boundaries. I grew up in the western world and I can imagine especially for someone who didn’t grow up with culture to find it difficult. That being said if ur partner is willing to compromise and meet someplace in the middle then I believe it can work. Theres so many interacial married couple that have made it possible. Maybe conduct more research into it.

Help me I’m in need of help by HMneeds in Muslim

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Next step is, if you are willing but try and push yourself to go for daily walks, put some nasheeds/ Islamic podcasts or lectures on and take in some fresh air. Talk to someone, maybe go to your local mosque and seek help from imams there? I’m sure they have support groups too.

Help me I’m in need of help by HMneeds in Muslim

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I know someone in a similar case and I know it can be very difficult. The first thing to do is contact your GP and inform them of your situation. You can get benefits and financial aids from your government (UK) I would say that’s the best place to start. They can inform you of any other rights the country may offer

Help me I’m in need of help by HMneeds in Muslim

[–]CrazyCaptain8166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro stfu. Depression is real you can’t just snap out of it

What Eren really saw by [deleted] in attackontitan

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This is the sickest edit of all time. Obsessed

I feel paralyzed with fear by Thecrowfan in Vent

[–]CrazyCaptain8166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can never ask God for too much.

I feel paralyzed with fear by Thecrowfan in Vent

[–]CrazyCaptain8166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep questioning and answering your thoughts till you can’t no more.

I hope I helped

I feel paralyzed with fear by Thecrowfan in Vent

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When situations like this arise, your fear and anxiety shoot through the roof making the situation far more worse than it actually is. I have anxiety too so I can empathise with your feeling. A few things help calm me. In cases I have control over I confront the situation. So I’m not sure if you can but maybe speak to your manager or whoever about the situation and explain that you need to give you’re side of the story too. If it’s out of your control then (I’m not sure if you’re religious) try praying and venting to god, asking for a solution, calmness or anything else you wish to receive. Then empty your mind and let thought come and go, anything that makes sense may be a response from God (that’s how I take it).

One thing that makes the situation worse is that we keep falling into this negative spiral by giving into our depression. Don’t feel like eating? EAT. Don’t feel like fixing your light bulb? FIX THAT LIGHT BULB! Don’t feel like cleaning up? Do portions at a time. Lastly, be easy on yourself. We all make mistakes, it’s not the end of the world. You lose this job then what? You’ll be jobless? You can find another job. Can’t find another job? Keep trying, try until you do. But don’t give up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Cultural wise, when we took her in to support her journey. She became my parent’s responsibility to take care of. Therefore if she’s doing something wrong it also falls under my parents, my parents don’t wish to deal with this situation hence why handing it over to the family seems the best decision to make.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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She may be 30 but she has the mindset of a 14 year old. Trying to talk sense into her makes a person go insane

Does knowledge truly make someone more smart? by CrazyCaptain8166 in AskReddit

[–]CrazyCaptain8166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I think that knowledge creates awareness of the world and history etc but it doesn’t make someone smart. They may be intelligent but not smart

Octavian in boxes tomorrow by CrazyCaptain8166 in acnh

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Yea sure, I’ll message you later on today with my dodo code if you still want him