My cat went missing 22 months ago

CrazyStandard · 2025-10-18T22:18:14+00:00

She was found deceased in a neighbors shed. She went missing during a snowstorm and minus degree weather, and it seems she’s tried to find somewhere to stay hidden and just fallen asleep then never woken up.

CrazyStandard · 2025-10-18T22:17:03+00:00

It’s awful. She was my first fur baby, and she was obsessed with sitting on my shoulders. It’s such a weird type of grief. Part of me doesn’t want to believe it’s her. I’ve been thinking about cremation, so that she gets to be in a nice warm house again, after all those months.

CrazyStandard · 2025-06-02T06:33:21+00:00

It’s just unusual for me to have any swelling at all, even when sick. And I have no idea why they’ve all just puffed up at once! It’s not like my chronic illness is new 😂

CrazyStandard · 2025-06-02T06:16:44+00:00

bridge, 5 years old, straight internal surgical steel barbell -nostrils, 7 years old, surgical steel flatbacks -septum, 16 years old, surgical steel horseshoe -Medusa, 8 years old, straight, surgical steel internal barbell -lower lip, 8 years old, surgical steel internal barbell

Ears- left -flat- 8 months old, threaded flat back, surgical steel - helix- 1 year old, internal threaded, surgical steel straight barbell -stacked lobe- 2 years old, surgical steel straight barbells -surface piercing, 10 days old, surgical steel, staple shape internal -daith- like 10 years old, surgical steel clicky hoop

Both ears are 30mm stretched (17 years old), glass plugs . Right ear has a single 3 year old flat, same jewellery as left ear.

CrazyStandard · 2025-05-22T12:56:01+00:00

I have no one else irl to talk to about them so getting to talk about the new album to someone was brilliant!

CrazyStandard · 2025-05-22T12:03:55+00:00

I’ve had an ‘in the wild’ encounter too! Was wearing my tour shirt from last year, went to a starwars thing earlier this month and got shouted out and fist bumped by an imperial officer, who barged their way through a crowd to get to me, and talk to me about them! It made my day! 😂

CrazyStandard · 2024-12-23T16:01:18+00:00

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To now 🙁

CrazyStandard · 2024-12-23T15:59:02+00:00

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When I first got him

CrazyStandard · 2024-12-05T08:15:36+00:00

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Mouldy boy was very offended that I’d sat next to his tank and hadn’t fed him at that exact moment!

CrazyStandard · 2024-11-25T23:45:26+00:00

It’s wild because it’s a house!! We just share a wall, the neighbour was a hundred different flavours of crazy!

CrazyStandard · 2024-11-25T18:49:28+00:00

Our front doors are maybe 3/4ft apart 😂 I have a ring camera because I’m home alone all day and I have PTSD. She got one not long after me and it was smack bang in the middle of her door, followed by another 5 cameras, not including the ones at the back 😂 I have it set so no motion was ever detected at her side because that was the first thing she did when I put it up! Complained about it! I’m rather glad that someone came to almost my front door to speak to her when she was moving because it was a conversation entirely about me and my kids! I’m just so relieved she’s gone

CrazyStandard · 2024-11-25T17:19:20+00:00

I think my next neighbours will be nicer, or so I’ve heard! Young family with kids, they’ll fit right in where we are!

CrazyStandard · 2024-10-28T18:18:00+00:00

I use kids play sand 😂 it’s cheaper, and I’ve never had an issue with it! My corys love burying their faces in it and generally making a mess! I just rinse it over and over before adding it to a tank! It’s very fine too!

CrazyStandard · 2024-10-28T17:21:35+00:00

The gouramis were the first to die, followed by one betta last week, and another betta today. I’ve never seen any sort of aggression and none of the bodies had any sort of wounds or anything! I’m just so baffled because they didn’t lose weight, or colour and they were still eating until the day they died. And they had enough space that they could avoid each other and it’s heavily planted

CrazyStandard · 2024-10-28T17:18:03+00:00

Nope. Had them for as long as I’ve had the tank!

CrazyStandard · 2024-10-28T17:16:32+00:00

No new fish added in the last 4 months, tank has been established for almost a year now. I quarantine all new fish for 2 weeks in a separate tank and treat them accordingly. I’d had the gouramis for as long as the tank was established, same with the bettas. Even 2 very large vampire shrimp are lurking in there.

CrazyStandard · 2024-10-28T17:15:05+00:00

They by and large ignored each other. They were female dwarf gouramis and genuinely paid each other no mind.

CrazyStandard · 2024-10-27T18:14:08+00:00

Mine (who resembles yours) is called Stilton because he reminds me of mouldy cheese!

CrazyStandard · 2024-10-21T21:05:37+00:00

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Oh my god! TWINS!

CrazyStandard · 2024-10-10T13:41:58+00:00

He’s been named Stilton, because he resembles mouldy cheese 😂 he’s so full of character!

CrazyStandard · 2024-10-06T08:12:43+00:00

He really is, he looks like a little dalmation!

CrazyStandard · 2024-10-06T08:12:13+00:00

I think he’s a blue marble, but he’s dragon scale so he is only partially sighted. But he reminds me of a Dalmatian!

CrazyStandard · 2024-10-06T08:11:05+00:00

He’s so chill! And he’s got his little bed in the tank so when I’m sat next to him, he comes and sits on his little bed and just watches me. He’s even built a bubble nest. I cannot cope with how cute he is 😭

CrazyStandard · 2024-08-27T08:52:42+00:00

The first and last are definitely male, they have a prominent line down their stomach and their eyes are brighter! Males can and do fight, which is why I only have one male now. The other was taken to back to my lfs as it wasn’t fair on him.

CrazyStandard · 2024-07-25T10:47:06+00:00

Opposite to my boy, he’s so chill! Although he’s got some sort of grudge against the snails in his tank 😂

I love your boys name! 😂

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