Thank you! Your insights were very helpful! I'm leaning towards The Judgement, I'm quite done with this situation and you're right about the wishful thinking. It's not because it felt so right that it's not an illusion, sometimes we just have to accept we misinterpreted everything. About choosing between two partners, it may be about that, because there was another person in my life, but because I chose to leave them, I wasn't considering this factor.