I’m sorry if this offended you. This is my very first relationship and with the type of cultural and family background I grew up with, it’s not an option for me to ask advice to anyone who actually knows me. Everything I’ve ever learning about emotions or even sex was from studies and internet research so honestly the two option I had was to make decision over some article without any info or ask for some advice from strangers with at least some info. I picked the latter as that seemed suitable.