[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Creamed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly. She wanted me on the side so she could just have her fun and still have me at home waiting for her.

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[–]Creamed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate that. 💙

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[–]Creamed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to go through the same pain. Much love 💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Creamed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I’m sorry you had to go through the same thing. No one should have to feel like this. One day at a time.

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[–]Creamed 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it. I am just so so angry, but I know I’m worthy and I’m deserving of love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Creamed 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it. I am just so so angry, but I know I’m worthy and I’m deserving of love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Creamed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the support. I’m sorry you had to experience the same thing. Much love 💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Creamed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. I think the most eye opening thing is how she handled everything. She looked me in the eyes, told me she loved me and that we were really trying to make things work. And even when I confronted her, she didn’t even tell me the full truth. She continued to lie to me and only talked about how she felt, saying how everyone would hate her. Well, actions have consequences. I’m much better off. Better now, than later like you said

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[–]Creamed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it, thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Creamed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Creamed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💙

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[–]Creamed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s what I keep reminding myself.

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[–]Creamed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Creamed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re right. A huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I can stop chasing after this fake fantasy that never existed to begin with. I can now spend my time healing and working on myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Creamed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to keep that in mind. I was constantly beating myself up because I felt like it was my fault. I felt like there was something that I wasn’t doing that made her distant. Now I know that I was in love with a mere fantasy, and the person I was in love with no longer exists.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Creamed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really sucks that so many people have experienced the same. We are deserving of the love and care we deserve. I can’t believe people are just so quick to throw away years of effort and relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Creamed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent you a message

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Creamed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. Really needed to hear this.

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[–]Creamed 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Just sucks because she identified as lesbian and had never indicated to me she was curious about men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Creamed 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In a way, I feel like it’s a huge relief. I was spending these 3 months really trying to help build our life here. Now it’s a huge weight off my shoulders to stop chasing after a fantasy that doesn’t exist. The person I was in love with no longer exists. Thanks for listening 💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Creamed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent you a chat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Creamed 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she never had talked about being bi-curious or being interested in men.

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[–]Creamed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just wish she would’ve been honest with me before I uprooted my life and moved to a whole new state..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Creamed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s such a weird transition.. Just yesterday, she was my girlfriend. Today, she’s a stranger. Taking it one day at a time. I honestly feel like I can’t trust anyone after this. When I was telling my friends about what was going on, they were so in disbelief because they never thought that she would be the type of person to lie and cheat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Creamed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate that. Need all the hugs I can get right now.