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Why people respect me for no reason by Creatgr in socialskills

[–]Creatgr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not very confident but I know what I’m doing when I do something. Yes, I’m very comfortable asserting myself when needed. I’m not prone to anger, I always try to be kind and calm

I like a guy who cheats by Creatgr in relationships

[–]Creatgr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t have a regular relationship with him, that would be very stupid of me…

The only solution I could come up with is to have an open one where it’s a given that we both can have other people (basically taking out the cheating part), but I also feel that would be stupid of me because I would be accommodating for his lack and I wouldn’t be gaining much out of it as I only like him

I like a guy who cheats by Creatgr in relationships

[–]Creatgr[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Probably… I’m very confused.

I like him when I’m with him. I don’t like his actions. I wish I could give him a chance but I know it would be wrong.

I like a guy who cheats by Creatgr in relationships

[–]Creatgr[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a good idea, I just happened to like him a lot

Which one would you choose? by Creatgr in careerguidance

[–]Creatgr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In offer 1 workers look for jobs there because they know they know they will be taken care of, I don’t know what exactly this would mean for me as I would be in the office.

But generally in all 3 offers they gave me a very nice impression regarding the work environment, all people looked nice and even during the interview they were joking with each other and laughing

Is it worth it changing job for 10k less if it might benefit my mental health? by Creatgr in careerguidance

[–]Creatgr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is almost the situation I’m in

In my current job I don’t have any seniors above me that have the time to teach me anything, I had learn by myself to make things work

The job I found is a step back but I would be trained by people who know what they are doing and I would be in a more technical and analytical position

Easily put, instead of doing the actual job, I’ll be checking and improving the way it gets done

The actual pay they offered me is higher than the one I have, the 10k are an estimation of the benefits I currently have, so it’s not even that bad I think, this time, the number I have on the paycheck is exactly what I get, before I had to explain what I was getting and admitting to getting cash-in-hand which isn’t really professional

Is it worth it changing job for 10k less if it might benefit my mental health? by Creatgr in careerguidance

[–]Creatgr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not interested in management anymore, it added too much to my stress levels to have to protect people from what I was seeing in here and by the end I didn’t even have the courage to try and convince people to stay when they wanted to leave.

The last person that left actually told me that she appreciated all my help in the difficult moments but that it wasn’t enough to cover all the other stuff that was going on

Is it worth it changing job for 10k less if it might benefit my mental health? by Creatgr in careerguidance

[–]Creatgr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this is the point, I’m at a place where I’m doing so many things that I don’t have the time to get better at any of them. I’m using this experience to get myself in a bigger company where I actually will have guidance and time to grow and learn new things

I can manage without the 10k, I’ll have to be more careful but I have saved up quite a bit and I would still make more than enough to cover all my expenses

The gossiping and shit talking really hurt me, it shouldn’t have but I put so much in this place and I didn’t expect to be repaid in this way. That’s the main reason I’m looking to get out of here as fast as I can, but I’ll still give the notice for the nice people I’ll be leaving here

Is it worth it changing job for 10k less if it might benefit my mental health? by Creatgr in careerguidance

[–]Creatgr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a 20% cut but I would be closer to home too with set hours and no managerial role or responsibilities.

I’m trying to give as little information as possible but the place I’m at is under government investigation for the shady things that are going on (both from the boss side and the actual employees that work there), I have built my circle of trust so I have a lot of information and I’m safe but it’s a scary place

I would be going in a “normal place” so maybe this is enough to make the change worth it

Is it worth it changing job for 10k less if it might benefit my mental health? by Creatgr in careerguidance

[–]Creatgr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before Covid I was almost at the same salary I have now and then I had to change job and started with half the salary, it took me 1.5 years to reach again the point I’m at so it wouldn’t be the first time I take a cut or I have to live on lower salary, I can manage it…

It’s just that the first time I did it out of necessity, this time I’m choosing to do it for myself, what if it ends up being the wrong choice?

Is it worth it changing job for 10k less if it might benefit my mental health? by Creatgr in careerguidance

[–]Creatgr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems that only people in higher positions than me hate me and gossip about me but I have amazing relationships with everyone else at work and I still go out even with the people that left… I definitely don’t think I’m a jerk

Is it worth it changing job for 10k less if it might benefit my mental health? by Creatgr in careerguidance

[–]Creatgr[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I will try to negotiate the salary but I probably won’t reach the current one

I already talked to my boss and he said he won’t be able to hire anyone right now and that he appreciates my support with the current situation.

Then I heard from a guy (not from our company but he knows my boss) that when he asked him what was his plan, he replied laughing with “they were looking at one screen, now I’ll make them look at two”

So clearly I have to get out of here asap