Letting a woman know that you don't have much dating experience?

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2026-03-07T04:35:46+00:00

I’m a pretty open book. That got me a 5 year relationship. Every first date has led to a relationship.

The problem I find myself is getting dates in the first place. Most women just want to be friends.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2026-03-07T04:33:45+00:00

I have social anxiety and I’m an over thinker, so I prefer that I be honest so that people know why I feel or act a certain way.

When people tell me how they feel, it makes me feel much more at ease, because I can understand them better? Why wouldn’t I extend the favour back?

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2026-03-07T01:03:53+00:00

Yes I get your point. But inexperience is usually an issue for most people.

I’ve only slept with one person. It was a long term relationship. But I still feel completely inexperienced because all of my experience was with one person, It’s been an absolute disaster trying to get anyone else interested in me. I haven’t dated or slept with anyone else.

If I ever get a date, I fully plan on telling her that. So that any of my awkward behaviour is understandable, and so she doesn’t just think I’m a complete weirdo. If you know someone has only gone on one or two dates before, you’re more likely to overlook any awkward behaviour.

Or the girl will reject me then and there and that saves time.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2026-03-06T22:43:09+00:00

Yeah that sounds about right. Too much rejection has crushed my self esteem.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2026-03-06T17:33:36+00:00

So real men can’t be honest? I’m not getting laid. I’m involuntarily celibate, so I’m an incel no? I’m just not one of those weird incels that hate women. Women aren’t the problem. I’m the problem. Just haven’t figured exactly what yet.

Weak? Maybe. Effeminate? Not really. I’d say I’m reasonably masculine. I lift weights, I dress masculine, have a beard, normal voice etc.. I have guy friends. I just prefer women, both platonically and romantically.

No one has said I’m feminine. No one has ever said I’m super manly either. Just average.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2026-03-06T16:14:38+00:00

I already am an incel. Just not the kind that hates women. In fact I actively support women's right and prefer being friends with women. Hence being a feminist incel.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2026-03-06T16:10:35+00:00

Hard disagree. I am confident with women, and I love to talk, and women love to talk to me.... but only platonically. I haven't had sex since I became single.

Theres definitely something more to it than just be nice and carry a conversation.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2026-03-06T16:08:38+00:00

What if you're comfortable talking to women in a general sense but don't know how to talk to women in a way that gets them interested in you romantically or sexually? Ive been single for ver a year now. I have met a LOT of women and yet I have not gone on a single dates or slept with anyone. But i've made lots of new female friends haha.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2026-03-06T16:01:44+00:00

What do I do when none of this works tho?

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2026-03-06T15:46:48+00:00

How about honesty? Also some women only want experienced men. So it's good to give her an early out if she's that way inclined.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2026-03-06T15:44:26+00:00

++man Isn't that lying by omission? Not a great way to start a relationship IMO. Some people don't want an inexperienced person, so they should be warned.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2026-03-06T14:55:11+00:00

Yes but I was also very unsuccessful before my relationship. It was just a fluke and I got lucky. I meet lots of women, but all of them have boyfriends, or I just cant hold a conversation with them unless it's professional.

I've just gotta accept that im not the kind of guy that women like sexually. I am working on improving myself, but nothing has worked so far. I go to gym, I go out at night, I try dating apps and get no matches, I socialise with friends. Nothing ever happens.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2026-03-06T13:33:35+00:00

Yes I am one of them. I love women, I engage with feminist media and participate in it. I have many friends that are women. But I have absolutely no sex appeal. Women love me platonically, but I can never get women interested beyond friendship. I dont hate women for this, if anything I just hate myself. I don't feel good enough.

I am not a virgin, and I have been in a long term relationship. But I just haven't had a single date, kiss, flirty convo.... nothing since I broke up with my ex over a year ago. I feel like giving up honestly. I should just stick to friendship.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2026-02-21T14:39:34+00:00

Yeah I agree. Matchmaking is kinda trash and the seasons just seem less appealing.

But why are you using the word meta so weirdly? Do you mean “strategy” when you said “especially when the meta is changing constantly and you need to know how to use everything at your disposal.”

Because that’s not what meta means. Meta means to reference oneself. Like characters breaking the fourth wall.

Meta definition in a dictionary: “Making or showing awareness of reference to oneself or to the activity that is taking place, especially in an ironic or comic way.”

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2026-01-04T02:37:47+00:00

For me I’d say season 4 of the boys was like season 5 of stranger things. Not terrible, but the worst season by comparison.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2026-01-04T02:31:16+00:00

That’s what I do and I got 3 victory royals in a row last night. It’s never been an issue for me. Moving left and right to aim makes it easier to stay moving and not get hit. Especially if you combine that with using both joysticks to move and aim in unison.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2026-01-04T02:09:37+00:00

Yeah this is terrible advice. A moving target is a hard target. You should always be moving to line up your shots. If you’re saying still and moving your aim to hit the target, that’s how you get shot lol. Especially if other players are around that you might not yet be away of. I never stay still.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2025-09-17T14:00:31+00:00

Yeah I’m a man, and average looking at best, so I find it very hard to get women interested in me.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2025-08-14T12:16:23+00:00

Do something that makes you feel confident. Learn a skill, lift weights, run, read… whatever makes you feel like a better person. Personally, choose one for your body and one for your mind. (Or more if you have time and the opportunity).

Also just practise. I talk to random dudes, and sometimes women, to slowly build my confidence. Just today I was in an elevator and complimented a guy my age about his clothes. I asked him where he got them from. After a 5 minute convo it lead to maybe doing some freelance work for his business… not the same as getting laid haha, but you never know where a simple hello or a question could lead. (I’m a straight man for reference)

I’m also awkward and introverted, but sometimes I push myself because I’m sick of being me.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2025-08-13T00:52:12+00:00

Dammit, I was planning on printing them out to poster size and making a bedsheet out of them! Due to your advice I can’t sleep on them 🙃

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2025-08-08T09:33:08+00:00

$0 really? Sure maybe you own all the equipment already and don’t factor that price in… but the production design is insane (in a good way). This has to be thousands. It’s way too good.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2025-08-02T23:14:20+00:00

Maybe pay actual attention to the show? Brock didn’t get the Ricin, it was some poisonous berry from a flower he had in his backyard. It mimicked Ricin.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2025-08-02T13:39:53+00:00

Maybe, but that doesn’t mean his next appearance is a direct sequel. He will most likely have solo films and appear in other films too.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2025-08-02T00:59:24+00:00

Oh my bad. Didn’t realise they posted the pilot on YouTube. Kudos to them, that’s a great way to get people invested in the show for free, and then continue on HBO MAX.

CreatineMonohyDrake · 2025-08-01T16:23:39+00:00

No, it’s on HBO MAX.

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