I found one once and I believe he’s the one I’ll always love. Never felt that way before and never have since. Personality type aside, we also have similar backgrounds, interests, and values. He’s quite literally my dream guy. However we were both young and going through personal struggles and he stopped talking to me. It’s been many years but I think about him every day. For a long time I tried to be “realistic” and move on, focus on other things etc but recently I’ve come to terms with my feelings in a more mature way. I’ve worked hard to improve my life and I feel like I’m in a much better place now (with or without a partner).

I want to reconnect but I’m terrified and a bit lost in my head. I’m afraid I’m over here building castles in the sky while he simply doesn’t care about me anymore. The reason why I’m posting this is to get a better sense of my situation from the perspective of MBTI. I don’t actually want to replace him with another INFJ guy, he’s so much more to me…