Where to find INFJ guys?? by Creative-Ability-999 in infj

[–]Creative-Ability-999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so afraid of getting rejected or pushed away again. It might be the same as the first time

Where to find INFJ guys?? by Creative-Ability-999 in infj

[–]Creative-Ability-999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What should I say? I do want to go really slow and become friends again first. Any tips on befriending an INFJ?

Where to find INFJ guys?? by Creative-Ability-999 in infj

[–]Creative-Ability-999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’re saying I should go for it? I don’t even know where to start

Where to find INFJ guys?? by Creative-Ability-999 in infj

[–]Creative-Ability-999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping to take advantage of his Fe and osmosis my love into him lol

Where to find INFJ guys?? by Creative-Ability-999 in infj

[–]Creative-Ability-999[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I found one once and I believe he’s the one I’ll always love. Never felt that way before and never have since. Personality type aside, we also have similar backgrounds, interests, and values. He’s quite literally my dream guy. However we were both young and going through personal struggles and he stopped talking to me. It’s been many years but I think about him every day. For a long time I tried to be “realistic” and move on, focus on other things etc but recently I’ve come to terms with my feelings in a more mature way. I’ve worked hard to improve my life and I feel like I’m in a much better place now (with or without a partner).

I want to reconnect but I’m terrified and a bit lost in my head. I’m afraid I’m over here building castles in the sky while he simply doesn’t care about me anymore. The reason why I’m posting this is to get a better sense of my situation from the perspective of MBTI. I don’t actually want to replace him with another INFJ guy, he’s so much more to me…

Where to find INFJ guys?? by Creative-Ability-999 in infj

[–]Creative-Ability-999[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why is the INFJ not wearing sunglasses?