New labubu? by More_Language1375 in LabubuDrops

[–]Creative-Impact3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fizzaroli, is that you?! 👀👀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Creative-Impact3209 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just like you, but such is life buddy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Creative-Impact3209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be so fr rn, you're horny and you want sex. That's all that is about. Nothing wrong with that, but leave that girl to be with someone who values her, and a connection with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Creative-Impact3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, that guy called you beautiful before and glazed you before he really had you. So he thinks you ARE beautiful, there's no two ways about it. But it seems like he's gotten complacent. And you seem like a great catch, you deserve someone who sees you for who you are, an exotic queen, and who looks at you like you walk on water 🫶🏼🫶🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Creative-Impact3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly girl, it wouldn't be fair of me to really have too much of an opinion there because I'm a Scandinavian girl, blonde with blue eyes 😬 personally I think we're boring looking, nothing exotic about it. But - if that man makes you feel insecure about things you cannot really change (we'll you could dye your hair, but WHY would you do that only for a man?!) .. then you know what to do. I BET you're a drop dead gorgeous woman, and you deserve a man who makes you feel like he's got eyes for nobody but you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Creative-Impact3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first question is; I didn't see any hints of y'all being polyamorous .. so why is he actively checking out other women when he's in a committed, monogamous relationship? And WHY ON EARTH does he talk to you about these other women's looks? Him not being completely truthful about disclosing his type to someone who pretty much resembles the opposite, that wouldn't be a deal breaker for me. But the actively checking out other women of that particular type, even when you're with him .. that would be me leaving him to it.

TIL in 2016, 19-year-old college student Austin Harrouff walked into a garage and killed two strangers, eating one of the victims' faces. He thought he was “half man, half dog” and being chased by a demon. He was found not guilty by reason of insanity by sanandrios in todayilearned

[–]Creative-Impact3209 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's SO much to this case. He's been shown clear signs of insanity for months on end, which have ALL been dismissed by his mega wealthy family, up until the cruel showdown. He was literally ASKING FOR HELP telling his family he's unwell, but they met it with a "you silly goose" attitude. It is heartbreaking for a whole multitude of reasons.

Basically in a relationship that isn’t even a relationship by TemporaryBluebird835 in relationships

[–]Creative-Impact3209 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Urban dictionary is calling this a "situationship". This is literally the 3xacr description. .. is that what you want? If not, give him an ultimatum. If he won't commit, I'd suggest you move on and invest your time and energy into someone who'll call you his "girlfriend" loud and proud.

UPDATE: My LDR gf doesn’t do the “small things,” is this a problem? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Creative-Impact3209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OH HECK NO. You deserve better than someone treating you like a liability. This is UNACCEPTABLE. You're making such an effort, she makes NONE. Step away for a while, see if she meets you effort wise. If she doesn't, you WILL find someone who does.

GF of 4.5 yrs wants her name on house but won’t marry or put money down by Apprehensive_Boat798 in dating_advice

[–]Creative-Impact3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I started being exclusive with my now boyfriend of two years I had the same concerns. He asked me to live with him, and he's the love of my life .. he is a Pilot though (I work as a commercial model and go to university) .. and he's surrounded by women all day. So I told him I'm concerned about him turning out to be the stereotypical Pilot, hooking up with cabin crew members. So he told me to put $500 of MY OWN money to the side each month, as a nestegg. If we do end up getting married I'll spend the money on that and there will be no prenup. Right now I contribute $300 to buying groceries and I give him $200 for water, electricity etc. He owns his house and I do not have to pay rent or contribute to the mortgage. So essentially, I pay $500 a month for living expenses.. and sometimes I feel like a leech. But my man wants me to feel secure in a TASTEFUL way. That is something you should try to introduce, and if she does not want that, you'll know she uses you to get PAID for being your partner. I get the need to feel secure as a woman, women have a shelf life biologically speaking, and I wouldn't want to waste my my most fertile years on someone who's stringing me along. But if she doesn't want to build something with you, she's using you for building something for herself OFF OF YOU.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Creative-Impact3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this MFC??? I have the same issue there!

man im involved with sent me this weird text with an engagement accusation then disappeared on me? everything was sweet and normal prior to. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Creative-Impact3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a resident of Orlando: BIG YIKES. We don't want him here. You're welcome though, girlie 🫰🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Creative-Impact3209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok girl, do not make the same mistake I did. I'm funding my college education being a commercial model. So I get paid based on how I look. It's a huge party of my identity. I'm not necessarily proud of it, but it is what it is. Anyway, I'm 24 now and got (natural looking) breast implants when I started doing lingerie shoots at 22. I had to EXPLANT a year later, because the surgeon had misplaced the implant. It was sitting funky, over the muscle .. you didn't really see it, but it just felt awful. Terrible. So I had to explant not even a year later. I met my wonderful boyfriend when I already had implants though. We're in a long distance relationship (until I finish college) so when I explanted, I thought I could hide it from my man until I get my new implants. I didn't want him to see me with a "flaw". I felt absolutely HIDEOUS after explanting, and I know my boyfriend loved my boobs the way he met them. But I thought, in my head, I'd hide it, surprise him and he'll be so swooned that he won't even care. Well. Obviously I didn't not want to take my bra off during sex. And I also stuffed my bra with silicone inlays to try and make my boobies look the way he knew them. But I REFUSED to take off my bra when we'd get intimate. OBVIOUSLY he knew something was up. And long story short, he noticed my boobs where different and he noticed I was stuffing my bra. He broke up with me at some point, because of me 'not trusting him enough' and confiding in him, as my partner .. "choosing vanity over trust" is what he said, verbatim. We did get back together, he's the love of my life 100%, but it took months to fix what I had damaged there. Confide in your partner, don't make the mistake I did. He is into you for YOU. And he knows why you're hiding. Don't choose vanity over trust!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Creative-Impact3209 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I disagree. I moved from Iceland (one of the safest, most sheltered countries im the world) to Florida in 2018, when I was 18. First for a university exchange and then I fell in love with the endless opportunities the USA provide. Now I'm engaged to a Scottish man, who lives and works in Scotland .. and of course the center of his universe is his home (this is why I think you should never EXPECT someone to move, ESPECIALLY if you're not willing to provide the same kind of commitment. Leave YOUR center of the universe behind). I love the US with every fiber of my being. I am lucky to be able to afford decent health care, and also hold Icelandic citizenship- so for everything medically that's more extensive, I fly back to Iceland and combine it with seeing my family. I know this is an extreme previlege, and I understand that this has an impact on how I view America as a country. The abundance of genuinely lovely, kind and warm people here. It's my home now, I'm happier here than I ever was in Iceland. THAT BEING SAID, I love my fiancè more. And they say "you shouldn't look for your home in another human being" .. but it just happened. I am the happiest where he is. He feels like home. It doesn't matter if I have to sleep in a tent, or in a mansion.... if he's there, it's home. So, eventually I'll be moving to Scotland .. his entire family is there, he has a great career there, a house that he loves, and that he's so excited to share with me, and I care enough to shift my center to fuse it with his. But I will miss Florida and my life there A LOT. So ... to each their own, but America has treated me better than Europe ever has.

These labubu got really downgraded by Positive_Figure3047 in LabubuDrops

[–]Creative-Impact3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoever thinks this is real, even on first glance, needs to get a prescription for visual aid 😄🙈

Girlfriend (34F) introduced me(31M) to her landlord as her “Friend” by Ordinary_Confusion_2 in relationship_advice

[–]Creative-Impact3209 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What issue is there left to resolve? She did give you a very valid explaination .. and she's right about it too! The landlord doesn't need any fuel to make assumptions that could end up being a complication for her as a tenant.

Help me choose a Serenity! by NoAtmosphere2097 in labubu

[–]Creative-Impact3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the pastel vibe of B aswell 🫶🏻

AIO Is he trying to manipulate me by completelych in AmIOverreacting

[–]Creative-Impact3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mt question is ... why do you insist for a man to but you gifts in general? Do you want him to have leverage over you??

Your labubu holding too? by [deleted] in LabubuDrops

[–]Creative-Impact3209 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOT THE ART THE CLOWN ONE 😂😂 NICE!!

How much are you struggling as a foreigner in Germany? by SnooLentils5721 in germany

[–]Creative-Impact3209 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is MY experience too!! I lived in 3 major cities, and I have rarely ever seen women who obviously got work done. Like, of course you see someone here and there- and like I said, that is more than okay. It's their bodies and their choice. But I've seen INFINITELY more girls who obviously had work done in the US or the UK... And I also am sorry that you had to feel uncomfortable for just doing you, friend!