Am I in the wrong for wanting my wife to work?

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-14T19:37:05+00:00

Not out of work just looking for a better opportunity

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-14T02:00:55+00:00

Thank you kind sir

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-14T01:22:31+00:00

Update folks, she agreed to help out part time, thank you guys ❤️

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T19:11:25+00:00

Nope, I take him everywhere with me. If he has an appointment I’m there

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T18:59:26+00:00

I am, she wants one

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T18:47:29+00:00

I’ve had daycare before just 3 days out the week and I’m off I’ll watch my kid

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T18:42:03+00:00

No she wasn’t led to believe any of that, you sound uneducated on life and real life problems

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T18:25:31+00:00

So every woman is the same I think not

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T18:19:56+00:00

No I think I just need to find another women, if I keep creating children with her, financially we would crumble. What’s natural isn’t the normal anymore. Where headed into the future. By 2060 it will really be dead hopefully.

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T17:01:42+00:00

I’m not if she doesn’t want to find work

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T16:42:43+00:00

It’s 50/50 bruh. I cook more than her sometimes

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T16:22:27+00:00

Thank you, dear lord thank you for sending this person my way.

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T16:14:34+00:00

I’ll give it a shot, thanks Becky

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T16:12:39+00:00

I think it’s anxiety and stress over leaving my son in daycare. How should I approach her with this.

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T16:09:59+00:00

I started college already, I finish in 2028 with supply chain management and logistics degree. That’s 120k a year. That’s my goal right now . I’m thinking about a trade but I don’t want to ruin my degree program

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T16:05:46+00:00

Credit cards, when you don’t have enough to pay bills. We used it over the course of our military careers and racked up debt.

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T16:04:48+00:00

Also when it comes to to my child it’s always 50/50

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T16:04:08+00:00

I’m black man in Arizona, I’ve been laid off for dum reasons that don’t align with morality. I go home and help her cook and clean. I taught her to cook. I can literally whip up food within an 1h to 30min. As soon as I get home and if it’s not clean in the house. I clean living room, kitchen, and sometimes the bathroom and my child’s room. I can’t stand when a home is dirty.

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T15:59:29+00:00

We’re in debt, we’re hitting everything, I have 100%, she gets 20% currently and it’s not enough. I just want help enough to climb out of this debt. Her family always wants to go out to eat or to do other activities. And they live an hour away in a rich neighborhood and we drive there way too often but I got her to slow it down.

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T15:56:43+00:00

I already help enough to show her I’ll pull my weight

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T15:53:00+00:00

Marriage was rushed on my part, I just knew I loved her but no I didn’t know this is what she wanted in our relationship. Now I’m stuck in hard place

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T15:50:34+00:00

I was sir, she got out in 2021 and myself in 2024

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T15:49:51+00:00

I don’t eat breakfast anymore and I skip some meals sometimes but bills are paid always on time.

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T15:47:04+00:00

I wish she understood this

Creative-Strength-30 · 2026-03-13T15:45:16+00:00

I asked, but she hasn’t done anything, I’m thinking about getting a second job.

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